We all know the importance of a good night’s sleep, but what happens when your partner’s morning routine starts to interfere with your precious Z’s? One man found himself in a tricky situation when his girlfriend’s habit of applying deodorant and perfume in the bedroom made it impossible for him to fall back asleep after she left for work.
The Early Bird Gets the Worm

Morning Chats and Scents

The Smelly Issue

Routine vs. Sleep

Three Months Later… ⏰

Article Showdown

The Real Deal

Compromise vs. Conflict

Couch Sleeping

Setting the Record Straight ️

Reluctant Agreement

Making Amends

Lingering Feelings

Self-Doubt Sets In

Sleep vs. Scent: Who Wins?
Caught in a battle between sleep and his girlfriend’s morning routine, our sleep-deprived hero tried to find a compromise. But when she refused to change her ways, he resorted to sleeping on the couch. After some back-and-forth, she finally agreed to apply her deodorant and perfume outside the bedroom, but not without some lingering resentment. Now, he’s left wondering if he was wrong to ask her to change her routine. Let’s dive into the internet’s top responses to this scented dilemma…
NTA. Multiple commenters agree that it’s a small compromise for the girlfriend to change her morning routine and apply her smellies in a different room. Some even share their own similar experiences.

NTA, but rewarding her for mistreating you sets a bad precedent.

NTA. He just wants a compromise for better sleep

Validating her boyfriend’s feelings > finding articles. NTA

Commenter says NTA, but a reply disagrees

Partner’s morning routine disrupts sleep, NTA for bringing it up.

NTA. Funny anecdote about checking weather. Valid point about sleep.

Girlfriend’s strong scent disrupts sleep, NTA finds new solution ⚠️

Light sleeper? Girlfriend’s morning routine is causing relationship issues

Girlfriend won’t change routine for him, but for forehead kisses?

NTA asks if girlfriend is on the spectrum, sparks debate

Compromise is key! NTA for asking for a reasonable change

Don’t cross an ocean for someone who wouldn’t cross a puddle for you. NTA

Partner’s refusal to change morning routine raises red flags.

Stopping a morning routine for your partner – NTA wins!
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Spoiling your partner can lead to morning routine conflicts

Easy compromise? Girlfriend acting like a child?

Girlfriend disregards partner’s feelings about morning routine

Is this a reference to Johnny Depp’s case?

Partner’s odd morning routine causing conflict. Is she TA?

Red flag alert! NTA, but girlfriend is inconsiderate and selfish.

Simple request or controlling behavior? NTA thinks it’s clear.

Partner’s morning routine causing breathing problems, NTA for asking change.

Girlfriend refuses to compromise on morning routine

Partner’s morning routine causing health issues, NTA for asking change
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Partner’s morning routine causing issues, commenters side with OP

NTA’s husband is the same, but she found a solution

Reasonable request? Not the a**hole!

Simple request causes big upset

User calls out girlfriend’s behavior, receives NTA support.

Communication is key! ️ NTA for expressing your concerns.

Assertive NTA stands up for their morning routine preferences

Compromising for sleep is basic cohabitation. Is he controlling?

Partner refuses to compromise morning routine. NTA for asking.

Compromise is key . A couple shares their solution.
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Girlfriend refuses to compromise morning routine, commenters side with boyfriend

Girlfriend’s morning routine causes conflict. NTA stands firm.

Girlfriend refuses to change routine, gets defensive. NTA.

Man not the a**hole for asking girlfriend to change routine

When a simple request turns into a stinky situation

Simple request or red flag? NTA thinks it’s fine

Couple communicates well and compromises, NTA for asking.

Support for NTA who’s being gaslit by girlfriend

Ouch! A blunt comment with no mercy

GF’s morning routine causing issues, OP NTA for requesting change

Compromise not accepted, girlfriend upset over routine change.

Sleeping with dogs can be smelly but NTA.

Compromise is key . Is she really worth it?

Considerate commenter shares experience with scents and suggests girlfriend’s behavior is inconsiderate

Prioritizing sleep is important for health and relationships ❤

Hygiene habits cause relationship trouble. NTA wins argument.

Compromise is key in relationships. Don’t ignore red flags

Partner’s morning routine causing sleep loss, NTA but reconsider relationship.

Spray deodorant in bathroom? NTA suggests small compromise.

Applying what outside the bedroom? Confused but NTA.

Compromise is key! NTA for asking for a small change
