Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a spicy tale of a Korean BBQ date gone horribly wrong! Our protagonist, a 26-year-old gym-goer, finally musters up the courage to ask out his crush. Little did he know, he was in for a rollercoaster ride of red flags, racism, and a whole lot of awkwardness! Get ready for a story that’ll make you cringe, laugh, and maybe even question the dating scene. Let’s dive in and see how this sizzling saga unfolds!
Sparks Fly at Korean BBQ Date Gone Wrong!
️ Table for Two, Please! But Wait, What’s That Grill For?
Grillin’ and Chillin’? Not So Fast, Says Miss High-Maintenance!
‘Why Do WE Have to Cook? Isn’t That Their Job?’
Poor Granny Waitress Forced to Flip Burgers!
Red Flags Waving, But He’s Still Hoping for Some ‘Dessert’!
One Scoop of Racism, Please! Hold the Decency.
Loud and Proud Bigot Attracts Dirty Looks!
‘I Didn’t Mean Latinos, I Love Mexican Food!’ ♂️
Awkward! She Thought He Was Latino!
Time for a Sweet Escape! ♂️
Stranded and Blocked! No Ride for Miss Racist! ♂️
️♀️ Gym Awkwardness Looming! What Will He Say?
OP’s Edits: Addressing the Masses! ️
1️⃣ Korean BBQ Newbie in the City!
2️⃣ No Tolerance for Trash Talk! ️
3️⃣ No ‘Dessert’ for Miss Nasty! ♂️
4️⃣ Google It, Folks!
Internet Jury, What’s Your Verdict? ⚖️ ⚖️
Well, well, well! Looks like our protagonist found himself in quite the pickle! From a high-maintenance date who couldn’t handle a little DIY grilling to a full-blown racist rant, this story had more red flags than a communist parade! But the real question is, did our hero do the right thing by ditching his date without a ride? Some might say he should’ve stuck it out, but others argue that life’s too short to waste on terrible people. ♀️ What do you think, internet? Was he justified in his great escape, or should he have given her a second chance? ♂️ Let’s see what the masses have to say about this spicy situation! ️ ️
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Run Forrest, run! ♂️ NTA for ditching a racist date!
Walking out on a racist date? NTA indeed!
Leaving her stranded? NTA takes it up a notch!
Selective allyship for personal gains makes you an a**hole too
Navigating cultural differences on a date gone wrong.
Karma strikes back! NTA shows racists their place.
User expresses understanding of unfamiliarity with Korean BBQ
User called out for disrespectful behavior towards women on date.
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OP prioritizes physical attraction over moral values and work ethic. ESH
User suggests better way to handle racist date.
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ESH for letting her demand the staff cook your food
Ditched date for racism, but didn’t communicate why. ESH. ♂️
Standing up against racism and paying the bill like a boss!
OP is the a**hole for leaving restaurant workers to deal with racist date’s anger instead of directly telling her he was ending the date.
Don’t let racists ruin your workout. NTA.
Confronting racism is not optional. ESH for tolerating it.
Pro tip: drinks before dinner can save you from racists
Quick thinking and good tipping – you dodged a bullet!
Defending OP’s NTA verdict on date; explaining lack of Korean BBQ.
Immigrant shares experience of being told ‘I don’t mean you’. NTA
Redditor discovers Korean BBQ, supports OP’s decision to leave date. NTA!
Judging someone for not knowing Korean BBQ makes you a bit AH
Being NTA doesn’t excuse being rude about Korean BBQ preferences.
Choosing a Korean BBQ place without checking with date?
Suggesting he should have taken over grill duties
Red flag or not, leaving someone stranded isn’t cool
Abusive date exposes man’s desperation and racism. ESH.
Passively supporting abuse and racism is never okay. ESH. ♂️
ESH for the racist date and using her for ‘adult time’
Date confusion turns into racist remarks, NTA for leaving.
Endured a racist date, paid and tipped well. NTA
Generous tip, but no ride home for racist date. NTA.
Leaving racist date: NTA, but YTA for not helping waitress
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NTA shuts down racist gym-goer like a boss
Tolerating rudeness until it hits close to home?
Standing up to jerks
Dating gone wrong: ESH for tolerating racism for sex
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Responding with education and compassion to shocking racism
User calls out man for not taking date home after racist remarks.
Leaving without warning: ESH. Gym time will be awkward
YTA criticized for disrespecting Korean BBQ and prioritizing sex.
Hilarious NTA comment shuts down racist date
First date tip: go for coffee or food truck. NTA, very nice paying bill.
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BBQ doesn’t equal consent! ♂️ NTA for leaving though.
ESH but you could have handled it more maturely. ♂️
Abandoned date due to racist remarks, NTA, what the fork?
Calling out racism, but should have left earlier.
Split the check and never see her again! YTA
Cultural differences cause confusion, but judgement is clear: NTA
Taking a stand against racism! NTA OP
A disastrous date with a racist, entitled princess. ESH.
Taking her home wouldn’t solve the problem. N.T.A
Ouch, harsh but true. Dodged a bullet there
Leaving her alone with racist remarks was not cool. YTA.
A man gets called out for his problematic behavior. ESH.
Ditched a racist date and called out her ignorance.
A helpful reminder on planning dinner dates.
Suggests petty revenge for racist date, but ultimately supportive.
Missed opportunity to call out a racist. Awkward aftermath ensues.
Dumpster fire date? It happens. Don’t sweat it, move on.
Standing up against racism on a date.
Witty clapback to racist date earns NTA judgement.
Standing up to racism – NTA did the right thing!
ESH for not calling out date’s racism and leaving abruptly.
Don’t ghost your date, be direct about ending it. ESH.
Expose the racist and let social pressure do its job!
Date’s racism sparks judgemental comments and no winners in sight ♂️
Nightmare date gets ditched but ghosting is not cool. ♂️
Leaving without telling your date: ESH, but understandable
A commenter suggests the date was overreacting and advises to get to know someone’s personality before asking them out.
Communication is key, even if the date is a dumpster fire
ESH, but HOLY MOTHER OF RACISM BATMAN! Set higher standards.
Ignoring racist remarks for a chance at intimacy makes ESH
ESH, but her more for racism. You should’ve left earlier.
Drawing the line closer to your principles can avoid trouble.
ESH recognized date’s awfulness but gave too many chances ♂️
ESH in a racist date gone wrong. Explanation and reflection required.
Both were sucky. You tolerated racism for a hookup, dude.
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NTA for ditching racist date, but should have confronted her politely
Ending a racist date early? YTA but safety first!
Leaving date without transportation was AH move but deserved
First date disaster: racism ruins the meal
