Imagine being best friends with someone for years, only for their new partner to demand you back off because they’re jealous. That’s exactly what happened to our 21-year-old protagonist, a lesbian who’s been best friends with a guy since freshman year. They’ve always been close, but when his new girlfriend enters the picture, things take a dramatic turn. Let’s dive into this juicy story!
Meet the Best Friends

The New Girlfriend

Cold Reception ❄️

Game Night

The Accusation

Clearing the Air ️

‘Know Your Role’ ♀️

The Request

Seeking Advice

Update 1: Message to W

Waiting for a Response ⏳

Update 2: W’s Reaction

The Aftermath

Not Losing a Friend

Update 3: Deleted Messages

Jealous GF Confronts Lesbian Best Friend
So, our protagonist was accused of being ‘flirty’ with her best friend, even though she’s a lesbian and has no interest in him romantically. After trying to clear the air, the jealous girlfriend demanded she distance herself from her best friend. But our protagonist isn’t backing down, and she’s waiting to see what her best friend thinks of the situation. Will their friendship survive this dramatic showdown? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for trying to be nice, but girlfriend is controlling

Helpful advice on how to handle jealous girlfriend situation

Best friend caught in the middle of controlling girlfriend’s jealousy vs friendship.

Don’t let her push you around, stand your ground!

NTA! Jealous girlfriend overstepping boundaries. Friend deserves to know.

NTA. Commenter asks for more info to understand GF’s behavior.

Stand up for your friend and tell them about the insecure girlfriend.

Spread the love, not the hate! NTA, give more hugs

Supportive comment and reply condemn toxic jealousy

Supportive comment suggests talking to friend about jealous girlfriend

Protect yourself and keep screenshots. Block her and move on

NTA – Clear communication with both parties could resolve misunderstandings

Girlfriend’s jealousy is not your problem. Stand your ground!

Toxic girlfriend tries to control boyfriend’s friendships. NTA.
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Respectful NTA sets boundaries and emphasizes importance of consent.

Navigating friendship boundaries with a jealous partner

Update needed! Commenter thinks OP is not the a-hole
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NTA gets hugging advice from commenter, shares ‘incredible hugs’ skill.

Don’t let someone else’s jealousy ruin your friendship

Virtual hugs sent to NTA commenter in need
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Stand up for your friend and expose the possessive girlfriend

Protect your friend from toxic relationships. NTA

Jealous girlfriend bans best friend from speaking to him ❤️, accuses of affair . Friend deletes her on social media.

Insecure girlfriend tells lesbian friend to ‘back off’ ❤️ , NTA suggests talking it out.

What’s going on with this update?

Assertive advice to stand up for oneself. NTA
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Don’t give in, but handle with care. She sounds controlling

Jealous girlfriend tries to control boyfriend’s friendships. NTA.

Don’t let someone else’s insecurities ruin your friendship

Lesbian best friend not at fault, boyfriend’s GF is jealous

Jealous girlfriend attacked her boyfriend’s best friend. NTA.

Supportive comment defends friendship regardless of gender and sexuality
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Jealous girlfriend accuses friend of flirting, gets caught in lie

Possessive girlfriend told lesbian best friend to ‘back off’ NTA

Curious about the latest update on this drama?

Friendship over romance, NTA.

Jealous girlfriend causes drama, friend seeks advice from Reddit.

Don’t let anyone control your friend group NTA

NTA. Friend’s controlling GF needs to be called out

Set boundaries and demand respect. Don’t apologize for your existence.

Respectful friendship vs. trust issues

NTA for compromising, but GF’s insecurity is concerning

Supportive advice for navigating a tricky friendship situation

Girlfriend’s jealousy towards friend is not justified. NTA.
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Stand your ground and let W handle his girlfriend’s jealousy.

S is disrespecting your friendship with W! Don’t let her.

Helpful advice on dealing with jealous girlfriend.

Jealous girlfriend tells lesbian best friend to ‘know her role’

NTA, GF has serious insecurity issues. Red flags all around.

Jealous GF tells lesbian BFF to ‘back off’, NTA responds maturely.

Normalize opposite-sex friendships and communicate with your partner. NTA.

Jealous girlfriend isolates friend from his friends. NTA.

NTA. The girlfriend’s behavior is immature and insecure

Screenshot and warn friend of jealous girlfriend’s behavior

Jealous girlfriend attacks friend behind boyfriend’s back. NTA advice.

Stand up for your friend and expose the girlfriend’s behavior

Encourage friend to leave toxic girlfriend with sassy remark ♀️

Girlfriend jealous of boyfriend’s lesbian best friend. Commenter advises to stay friends and show proof if drama arises. #FriendshipWins

Possible romantic feelings causing jealousy in girlfriend?

Expose the truth: NTA needs to show the messages

Jealous girlfriend tries to isolate boyfriend, friend advises to show proof




Being in a relationship doesn’t mean cutting off friends

NTA. W deserves to know what his gf is up to

Speak up and warn others about the jealous girlfriend

Don’t back off. Talk to W about his girlfriend’s toxic behavior

Protecting a friend’s relationship: NTA, show W the texts

Insecure girlfriend causing trouble? Share messages, let him handle it

Friendship with boyfriend’s girlfriend causing trouble? NTA, dodge that bullet!

Setting boundaries in a relationship is important, but this seems controlling. NTA.

Insecurities can ruin relationships. NTA for being honest.

Setting boundaries in friendships

OP did the right thing by telling W. NTA

Curious commenter wants update on NTA’s situation

Female best friend accused of being a threat to boyfriend. NTA.

Lesbian best friend receives support for not being the a**hole.
