We all know that family can be a touchy subject, but what happens when a kindergarten family tree project turns unexpectedly dark? One mom found herself in the hot seat when her daughter’s assignment took a morbid twist. Despite her best efforts to warn the teacher, the school insisted on sticking to the biological family tree, and the result was nothing short of shocking for the entire class.
A Family History of Loss

Late Husband’s Tragic Past

Dangerous Ancestors

Heartbreaking Car Crash

The Controversial Assignment

Teacher’s Insistence

Biological Family Only

Limited Information

Headstones and Group Shots

The Shocking Presentation

Outraged Parents and School Staff

“Morbid” Report

Mom’s Defense

Death is Part of Life

Family and Death

A Lesson in Life and Death
This mom’s unique family history led to a kindergarten family tree project that left her daughter’s classmates and their parents shocked. Despite her attempts to explain the situation to the teacher, the school insisted on a biological family tree, resulting in a presentation filled with headstones and the concept of death. Now facing backlash from parents and school staff, this mom stands by her decision, insisting that she kept the project G-rated and that death is a natural part of life.
NTA. Kindergarten teacher needs a reality check

NTA parent struggles with insensitive teacher’s discriminatory assignment

Education’s blind spot on family dynamics. NTA for OP.

NTA defends family tree report, argues against hiding death from kids

NTA warned teacher, but only OP’s child had dead relatives?

Parents overreacted to kindergartener’s family tree, NTA for OP.

Debate over disclosing adoption to young children sparks discussion

Humorous exchange about morbid family tree comment

Parent defends kindergartener’s morbid family tree project, questions teacher’s judgement.

Proud of their family tree , but teacher dismissed concerns

Teacher should have been more considerate, imaginary family trees work

Parent agrees that the report was inappropriate for kindergarten children.

Defending a grieving parent from insensitive critics

A teacher’s careless project led to a parent-teacher conference showdown

ESH- Teacher was unreasonable, but not the responsibility of a 5-year-old to teach about death

Defending OP for sharing a morbid family tree

Adopted kid shares frustration with morbid family tree assignment.

Navigating insensitive requests and reactions.

Commenter praises power move in morbid family tree discussion

Doubts raised on the authenticity of the morbid family tree

Parent defends kindergartener’s family tree project, blames teacher’s lack of action.

Standing up for oneself in kindergarten

Teachable moment missed by teacher, parent defends child’s family.

Standing up for yourself and your family. NTA

NTA. Commenter shares personal experience with similar project frustrations.

Discussing the sensitivity of family tree projects in school. NTA.
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NTA who warned the teacher and faced harassment for it

Savage advice on dealing with a morbid kindergartener’s family tree

Parent explains teacher’s insensitive response to child’s report

Defending a kindergartener’s family tree against insensitive classmates and teacher

Teacher and parent both at fault for inappropriate class project

Teacher advocates for nontraditional family trees to support students

Teaching empathy: NTA’s family tree goes horribly wrong
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Inclusive family trees for kids! NTA, stand your ground

Teaching kids about death is important

Teacher ignored explanation, commenter not at fault. NTA

Elementary school family tree projects can be traumatic

Short and sweet: commenter supports the kindergartener’s family tree.
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Inappropriate family tree project for kindergarteners. Teacher is naive.

Teacher ignores warning, parent seeks principal intervention

Kids’ familiarity with Halloween makes morbid family tree cool

Teacher’s lesson plan backfires; commenters share similar experiences

Other parents have OP’s personal info? FERPA violation?

Family is where you find it, even if it’s dead

Adoption made genealogy charts awkward. NTA, teacher is insensitive

NTA. Commenter praises honesty and criticizes narrow family definitions in school.

Teacher demands biological family history, gets called out for ignorance

Inappropriate family tree shocks classmates, ESH for presentation.
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NTA. Email the principal and ignore other parents. They lack compassion.
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Parent expresses concern about kindergartener’s morbid family tree presentation

ESH. Teacher should have been more understanding, but morbid presentation unnecessary.

Student defends morbid family tree project, shuts down criticism.

Defending unique family trees in school system. You go!

Age-inappropriate family tree project for kindergarteners sparks outrage

Inclusive family projects needed. NTA for pointing it out
