Picture this: you’re a young woman who’s just started dating a new guy. He’s eager to move things along quickly, but you’re not quite ready for that level of commitment. You need a roommate, so you ask your best friend to move in. But when your boyfriend finds out, he loses it and tries to kick your best friend out of the apartment! That’s exactly what happened to one woman, who turned to the internet for advice on whether she was in the wrong for standing her ground. Let’s dive into this juicy roommate drama!
Fast-Paced Boyfriend ♂️

Jealous of Best Friend

Roommate Dilemma

Boyfriend’s Reaction

Unexpected Arrival

Standing Her Ground

The Aftermath

Feeling Like the A**hole?
Our protagonist is left feeling guilty and unsure of her actions, especially since a child was involved. She wonders if she should apologize for the way things went down. But was she really in the wrong, or was her boyfriend’s jealousy and insistence on moving in the real issue? ♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this messy situation…
NTA dodged a bullet with crazy boyfriend trying to force move-in and parenting responsibilities.

Red flags raised in a toxic relationship. NTA.

NTA comment and reply suggest the boyfriend is a creep

Dump the controlling boyfriend and keep the supportive friend

Red flags in a relationship. Be cautious and aware.

Commenter supports OP’s decision and condemns ex’s behavior

NTA for not letting ex-boyfriend move in. Stay away!

Heartbreaking situation for the child. NTA for commenter.

NTA. Commenter sympathizes with OP and warns of love-bombing ex.

Supportive comment defends friend and criticizes ex-boyfriend’s behavior.

Friend takes a bullet for NTA, Berlin Wall reference appreciated

Ex has red flags, NTA for kicking out jealous bf

NTA. Commenter warns about toxic and controlling behavior, advises caution.

Dating advice and warning signs for single dads

Ex’s apology unnecessary, Frank not at fault.

Friend comes to the rescue against controlling and jealous boyfriend

Ex-boyfriend used his child to manipulate, NTA for kicking out friend.

Frank saves the day in crazy friend-kicking situation!

Red flags galore! Commenter sees through jealous boyfriend’s behavior.

Trust your gut and watch out for red flags

Dump the insecure boyfriend and keep the true homie

Best friend moves in, but bringing a kid crosses boundaries. NTA

Abusers take relationships fast & isolate you. Glad you’re free. NTA

Is the ex-boyfriend love bombing or just creepy?

BF crossed a line, NTA for choosing best friend

Frank saves the day! A superhero in disguise

Ex’s jealousy over best friend’s living situation is unfounded. NTA

NTA advises caution after rushed breakup

Supportive comment calls out toxic behavior in relationship.

Dump the boyfriend and the delusional friends

Best friend threatened by jealous boyfriend. NTA for siding with friend.

Dumped toxic ex, kept best friend.
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Avoid the red flags! NTA made the right call.

Standing up to a possessive partner
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Supportive comment calling out toxic behavior with a touch of humor

Jealous boyfriend exposed, best friend debate ensues. NTA.

Setting boundaries with a possessive friend.

Compassionate response to a difficult situation.

Controlling man demands to move in, but NTA Frank saves day

Audacious friend demands to live with NTA, who refuses.
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Frank gets some love!

Standing up to a jealous boyfriend: NTA wins the day

Friend’s entitled behavior crosses the line, stay safe

Listen to the advice and RUN from the narcissistic boyfriend
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Dump the bully boyfriend and don’t look back!

BF tries to kick out best friend, but NTA prevails.

Frank is the real MVP , run girl, run!

Dodged a bullet! NTA for standing up for yourself.

Best friend > jealous boyfriend. NTA wins
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Jealous boyfriend tries to move in uninvited, NTA blocks him

Commenter defends friend’s actions in tense living situation

Dump him and run! ♀️ NTA for setting boundaries.

Break up with jealous boyfriend. NTA

Ex’s behavior was a circus, glad OP is single now

NTA, but is the guy looking for a mother figure?

Frank saves the day! This NTA comment has us cheering

Friend saves the day! NTA for kicking out the creep

Dump the manipulative bf and keep Frank, the true gem

Jealous and possessive boyfriend seeks nanny, not a partner. ♀️

Escape the red flags and live peacefully with Frank

Commenter defends OP, calls out boyfriend as an a**hole

Three-step plan for a happy life with Frank

Red flags for abuse: rushing commitment, jealousy, ignoring desires, anger

Setting boundaries or controlling behavior? The real a**hole revealed

Lock your doors! Jealous boyfriend alert

Best friend tries to move in, commenter says NTA
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Commenter declares NTA, but why the hesitation?

Red flag alert! Break up with dangerous and jealous boyfriend

Ex-boyfriend prioritizes son’s mother over girlfriend’s comfort. NTA

Spotting the signs of abuse

Dodging a control freak , breaking up is the right move ✌️
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Trust your gut feeling and ditch the controlling boyfriend

Run away from the a**hole boyfriend who pawns his child
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Defending a friendship against a jealous partner.

Good English and NTA judgement with a friendly wink

NTA for breaking up with a man looking for a mama
