Ivy League Grad Breaks Up with ‘Dumb’ Fiancé – His Revenge Is UNBELIEVABLE!

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a tale of love, loss, and intellectual incompatibility that’ll have you questioning everything you thought you knew about relationships. Meet our brilliant protagonist, a 25-year-old woman who grew up in a strict Asian household where academics reigned supreme. But when she met her fun-loving, extroverted ex, it was like stepping into a whole new world. Little did she know, their whirlwind romance would lead to a surprise engagement and a shocking breakup that left her wondering: AITAH?

Strict Asian Upbringing: A Life of Academics

Piano and Fencing: The Only Allowed Activities

Opposites Attract: Exploring a New World Together

️ Adventures Galore: Food, Places, and Activities

Surprise Engagement: Saying Yes in the Heat of the Moment

Second Thoughts: Imagining Life Together

Work Woes: Disinterest and Misunderstandings

Intellectual Incompatibility: Craving Meaningful Conversations ️

Breaking Up: A Peaceful Parting… Or So She Thought

Trashed Place and Accusations: The Aftermath of the Breakup ️

‍♀️ AITAH: Seeking Judgment from the Internet Jury ‍⚖️

Love, Loss, and Intellectual Incompatibility: A Modern-Day Romance Gone Wrong

Our protagonist’s journey from a strict academic upbringing to a whirlwind romance with her polar opposite is a story that’ll have you hooked from start to finish. But as the cracks in their relationship began to show, she realized that their intellectual incompatibility was too much to bear. The breakup seemed peaceful at first, but the aftermath was anything but. Now, she’s turning to the internet for judgment: was she an a-hole for leaving her fiance because she thought he was dumb? Let’s see what the online jury has to say about this modern-day romance gone wrong! ‍⚖️

Breaking up amicably: NTA for wanting common interests in partner.

Dodged a bullet with a violent fiancé. NTA

Dodged a bullet! NTA. Consider pressing charges for trashing.

Breaking up with a moron: NTA’s satisfying revenge

Dodged a bullet with a fun but immature ex-fiancé. File a police report and get a restraining order.

NTA but could’ve handled the breakup better. Communication is key

Don’t settle for a beautiful idiot in a long-term relationship.

Proposed without discussion? NTA for breaking up.

NTA, incompatible and insensitive proposal. He proved his dumbness ‍♀️

NTA for breaking up with a violent fiancé who couldn’t hold a conversation

NTA for breaking up, but learn humility and don’t be a snob

Stay strong and move on, don’t look back!

Don’t settle for less, find someone on your intellectual level.

Staying in a relationship for intellectual stimulation? NTA

Ex-fiancé vandalizes place, dodged a bullet. Change locks ASAP!

A reminder that it’s okay to end unhappy relationships.

Engagement surprise gone wrong. Communication is key ‍♂️

Breaking up because of lack of interest, NTA

Breaking up because of lack of partnership and understanding.

Breaking up with an ignorant fiancé, NTA 4000%. ‍♀️

Married to ‘dumb’ for 3 years Mutual separation.

Seeking a partner who matches intellectual curiosity and kindness

When it comes to dating, intelligence is a dealbreaker

Public proposal was a red flag, but his revenge was unforgivable

Intelligence matters in relationships: NTA comment sparks agreement.

Dumped fiancé seeks revenge by trashing the place. NTA.

NTA, but hope you reached out to *their* parents

Dumped fiance trashes ex-girlfriend’s place, she made the right choice.

Dodged a bullet! NTA for breaking up with violent ex

Thoughtful comment about values and childhood in relationship advice.

Legitimate reason to break up, but trashing her place is scary

NTA suggests reporting ex-fiancé and friends to police for illegal act

Supportive comment offers legal advice after ex-fiance damages property

Breaking up over intelligence differences makes her NTA, but looking down on him is AH

Breaking up because of intelligence mismatch: NTA wins!

Dumping a dumb fiancé who trashed your place? NTA, obviously

Wishing the best for a successful woman.

Breaking up was the right choice. Time to move on.

Degree-holding woman breaks up, ex trashes house, NTA obviously

Fiancé trashes house after break up? Lucky escape, scary situation.

Learning to appreciate differences and grow in a relationship.

Love is more than just intelligence

Don’t settle for dumb children! NTA for breaking up.

Ex-fiancé trashes her place after being called dumb

Dodged a bullet with a tantrum-throwing toddler

Breaking off a relationship without respect is a major red flag

Dumped fiancé trashes ex’s place – advice to call police

Bullet dodged! Move on, you deserve better.

Debating the value of fencing in college applications

Find a partner with shared values and strengths, NTA!

Realizing differences before marriage, no a**hole here

Moving on from a failed engagement with grace

Opposites attract, and differences make us better. NTA.

Breaking up is okay, but did you try to learn?

NTA calls out ex-fiance for being a narcissistic goofball

Hookup vs lifelong partner confusion and NTA for breaking up

NTA, appreciate who he is, he needs to get a grip

Fun turned into a mess! Proposal needs conversations. NTA.

Choosing to be with someone ‘dumb’ doesn’t make you TA , but his revenge is unforgivable

Partner material? Nah. Intellectually uncurious? Definitely. NTA.

Don’t be the a**hole by dating men like him again.

Breaking up for lack of intellectual connection, not dumbness. Valid.

Public proposals are trashy and his reaction was a**hole-ish ‍♀️

Breaking up was tough, but necessary. Support is important

Outrage over ex’s destructive behavior, mental health concerns raised.

Is excluding family from an engagement party a red flag?

Dump the dumb, find someone intelligent and fun!

Loopholes and greed drive gas prices, not geopolitical conflicts.

Dump your dumb fiancé before it’s too late. NTA

Dodged a bullet with a mean-spirited, infantile ex-fiancé. NTA

“NTA” commenter defends OP’s breakup with insensitive fiancé

NTA and finding a Ukraine-knowing partner? Easy peasy

Engaging with partner who belittles your expertise? NTA

Ex-fiancé trashes her place, NTA dodged a bullet.

Fiancé invites only friends to engagement, trashes house. #NTA