Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of two besties with VERY different love lives. One’s got a hardworking lawyer BF who’s climbing the corporate ladder, ♂️ while the other’s stuck with a serial cheater who just won’t quit! ♂️ When a flirty new assistant enters the picture, tensions rise and harsh words are exchanged. Get ready for a wild ride filled with drama, trust issues, and a sprinkle of sass! ️
A Tale of Two Couples: My BFF and I Have VERY Different Relationships!

Hardworking Lawyer BF vs. ♀️ Work-Life Balance Loving GF

Agreeing to Date Despite Different Priorities

Meanwhile, My BFF “V” Has a Rocky Relationship…

V Stays with Cheating BF Despite My Advice

S Gets a Promotion and a Flirty New Assistant!

S Notices the Flirting Too, But Promises to Keep Things Professional

Dinner with V and a Quick Stop at S’s Office

Spotting S Working Late with His Flirty Assistant

V Gets Angry and Accuses S of Cheating!

♀️ V Tells Me to “Stake My Claim” on S

V Accuses S of Not Respecting Me Because He Makes More Money

Our Salary Differences and How We Split Bills

I Snap at V: “Just Because You’re a Doormat Doesn’t Mean I Am!”

I Also Call Out V’s Hypocrisy and Offer to Charge Her for Advice!

Feeling Guilty for Being Mean to V

Doormat or Diva? The Showdown Between Two Besties and Their Messy Love Lives!
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of “my bestie’s love life is a hot mess and she’s projecting onto me!” Our sassy protagonist isn’t about to let her BFF’s bad experiences dictate her own relationship. She trusts her man and isn’t afraid to call out her friend’s hypocrisy. But when the claws come out and some harsh words are exchanged, our girl starts feeling a bit guilty. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this spicy situation! ️ Grab your popcorn, because the comments are bound to be juicy!
Standing up for oneself against false accusations. NTA

Congrats on a mature relationship, but maybe soften the blow

Questioning the credibility of a cheating-advice giver. NTA.

Friend accuses partner of infidelity, commenter supports OP’s trust.

Insightful comment on friend’s possible jealousy and toxic behavior.

Friend gives bad advice, sparks argument. ESH in situation.

Friend calls out judgemental behavior, both act immaturely. ESH

Friend projects issues, but pay-to-listen and doormat comments suck. ♀️

ESH, but talk it out instead of crossing the line.

Friendly advice gone wrong. ESH escalated the conflict. ♀️

ESH but friend’s accusation came from a misguided place ♀️

Respect and trust are key in relationships. Don’t project insecurities

Friend’s man accused of cheating, commenter supports friend’s decision.

Judging assholishness on two distinct scales. ESH.

Trusting bf’s work relationships, NTA. Friend projecting past hurt.
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Friend accused OP’s man of cheating, but OP stands up. NTA

Friend accused of infidelity, fight escalates into insecurity insults. ESH.

Trust is key . NTA handled it well.

Setting boundaries with a projection-prone friend. NTA.

Both parties were justified, but still assholes. ♀️

Be wary of opposite-sex work friendships.

Friend accuses V of projecting cheating onto friend’s relationship. NTA.
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ESH, but was the friend really just projecting and nosey?

ESH fight over infidelity accusation and friendship boundaries ♀️
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Friend accuses man of cheating, commenter advises leaving toxic relationship.

Crush or Career Move? NTA debunks best friend’s accusation.

Criticism turns intense in dispute over fidelity

Trust issues after being cheated on, caution advised.

Projection and distrust can harm relationships. NTA.

Setting boundaries in relationships is important! NTA but apologize?

Respect is essential in a relationship, no trust, no relationship.

Coworker defends OP’s faithful relationship, warns against friend’s projection.

Engaging suggestion to ensure fidelity with a touch of humor

Friend calls out toxic behavior, hurts feelings, ends friendship. ESH. ♀️

NTA. Friend projecting: healthy relationship = trust, respect, and self-care

Encouraging NTA comment suggests therapy for friend’s insecurities.

Supportive comment calls out friend’s insecurity and toxic behavior ✌

NTA shuts down friend’s baseless accusation with grace

Trust is key in relationships. NTA for valuing it ✔️

Supportive comment towards OP’s breakup decision.

Trust and loyalty are non-negotiable in relationships.

Trusting partner over nosy friend for a healthy relationship.

Standing up for your relationship can cost friendships. NTA.

Best friend accused but commenter defends OP’s relationship.

Trust your SO and never interfere in their work. NTA

Blunt advice ends toxic friendship. NTA, move on!

Recognizing trust and respect in relationships. NTA wins.

Wife shuts down flirty woman at party, with a warning

Partner works 80 hours/week? Red flag or normal?

Friend gave bad advice, room for apologies, relationship projection.

Debate over 85k salary leads to rude accusation. NTA.

Great communication and trust in a relationship: NTA wins!

Reconciliation advice after friend accuses of infidelity.

Handling arguments maturely is crucial. ESH for below-the-belt insults.

NTA. Friend projecting, partner and assistant doing their job. Wake up!

Maintaining financial independence is key to moving on.

NTA commenter praises communication in stable relationship, defends against projection.

37.5 hour week at 85k? NTA V sounds silly
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Truth hurts ♀️ but not being an a**hole

No A-hole Here: Friend’s concern sparks argument, but no harm done.

When work becomes a third person in a marriage.
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Friend accuses partner of infidelity, sparks major argument. YTA verdict.

Granddad’s wise words apply here. ESH – end it kindly.

Cut out drama in your life, meet the assistant and move on

Friend accuses OP’s partner of cheating, but OP and partner trust each other

Friend’s insecurity shouldn’t affect how she views your relationship. NTA

Friend’s insecurity led to relationship sabotage, NTA for standing up.
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Defending against false accusations with a touch of humor

NTA shuts down unsolicited relationship advice with a sassy remark

Don’t let your friend’s insecurities affect your relationship

Don’t let her insecurities ruin your relationship!
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No sympathy for repeatedly ignoring advice to leave cheating bf
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Friend accuses without evidence, commenter calls out projection hilariously.

Blunt but sassy response to projecting friend. NTA.

Justified AH comment sparks debate about projecting insecurities
