Imagine being a talented cook and baker, always ready to cater family events with love and dedication. Now, imagine being treated like a servant by your own in-laws, with no appreciation or gratitude for your hard work. That’s the story of a 28-year-old woman who’s had enough of her in-laws’ ungrateful behavior. After catering a joint birthday party for her husband’s niece and nephew, she was treated like an outsider, and now she’s refusing to cater any more of their events. But are her in-laws ready to accept her decision?
Talented Cook and Baker ️

Last Time Catering for In-Laws

Short Notice and High Expectations

No Appreciation, Just Criticism

Treated Like an Outsider

Sister-in-Law’s Complaints

Expected to Clean Up Too?

Swearing Off Catering for Them

Baby Shower Catering Request

Accused of Being the Asshole

Standing Her Ground ✊

Edit: Surprised by Support

Not Considering Saying Yes

Grateful for Support

Enough is Enough: No More Catering for Ungrateful In-Laws!
This talented cook and baker has had enough of her in-laws’ ungrateful attitude. After being treated like a servant and receiving no appreciation for her hard work, she’s decided to refuse any future catering requests from them. Despite their insistence that she owes it to the family, she’s standing her ground and putting her foot down. Let’s see how the internet reacts to her decision…
NTA for refusing to cater for ungrateful in-laws. ♀️

NTA. Don’t owe anyone free labor, especially if they’re rude

Commenter suggests invoicing in advance for new party catering ✌️

NTA. Commenters agree that the in-laws were ungrateful and entitled

Getting out of cooking for in-laws in 20’s. Lucky you!

Don’t be a doormat for entitled in-laws

NTA. Offer a full catering invoice with ‘idiot client’ tax

In-laws demand free catering and complain, but OP is NTA.

Stand up to entitled in-laws demanding free catering

Pastry chef sympathizes with OP and gives sassy advice

OP provided the food and in-laws still demand catering

Chef shuts down in-laws’ catering expectations with professional prices

Commenter stands with OP, calls out in-laws’ entitlement and disrespect.

Schrodinger’s catering: too little food, still need help. NTA
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NTA suggests safer alternatives for baby shower during pandemic

In-laws demand catering, but won’t let her eat the pizza

OP stands up to in-laws demanding catering. NTA

Set boundaries with demanding in-laws. Don’t let them use you.

Polite decline or snarky comeback? NTA offers both options

Remind them of their past behavior and pass the catering baton

Join the JUSTNOMIL thread for more in-law horror stories!

Cooking skills kept for immediate family, NTA wins the day
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NTA! In-laws treating her like a servant

NTA and the entitlement is off the charts

Commenter calls out in-laws’ hypocrisy in food complaint.

Cook for those who appreciate you and forget the in-laws

Lawyer advises to set and enforce boundaries with entitled family

OP paid for all the food. In-laws being AHs. Gifted kids.

Leftovers or not enough food? Make up your mind

In-laws demand free catering, treat her like a servant. NTA

Don’t let family take advantage of your hard work

“No” is a complete sentence… Just say no

Deserve to be paid for catering, cash or compliments?

NTA stands up to entitled in-laws demanding catering

Food industry worker defends OP and calls out in-laws’ lies

Commenter calls out BS excuse for in-laws’ behavior.

Mixing family with business is a losing proposition

In-law treated her like a servant, she treated them like customers

No appreciation, no money, no problem! Send Twinkies instead

Catering business owner begs for orders with safety measures in place

Husband’s lack of firmness led to entitled in-laws’ demands

In-laws demand catering, treat her like a servant. NTA.

Commenter easily decides on NTA verdict

In-laws demand catering but treat her like a servant. NTA suggests alternatives

Stand your ground and don’t let them treat you like a servant!

Stand your ground! You owe them nothing. NTA.

Family demands free catering, commenter calls out toxic behavior

Sassy response to entitled in-laws demanding catering

Stand your ground You don’t owe them anything

Catering for ungrateful in-laws? NTA, don’t bother trying again

Set your price high and show them who’s boss

In-laws demand catering during COVID, but can’t cook themselves? NTA

User shares past experience and suggests starting a business instead

Redditors agree: In-laws are choosing beggars. OP is NTA.

Commenter calls out in-laws’ entitled behavior, declares NTA.

Don’t be a scullery maid for ungrateful in-laws

Commenter questions the purpose of the subreddit.
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Did OP explain their reasoning? Waiting for the reply
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Refuse to be a servant for in-laws. Support local businesses

NTA, in-laws treated her like a servant. Screw them!
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Sassy comment suggests halting gatherings during pandemic.
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In-laws hypocritically complain about leftovers after denying food to OP.

Commenter strongly believes OP is NTA, with 60+ ‘NTA’s in comment.

Standing up for yourself against entitled in-laws

Entitled in-laws complain about food and leftovers. NTA.

Pandemic catering demand from in-laws treated like servant. NTA.

In-laws forbid her to eat food, complain about leftovers.



















































