Losing a loved one is never easy, and it’s even harder when you’re already dealing with a lot of stress. Our storyteller today was juggling work, her son, and her brother’s illness when tragedy struck. But instead of receiving comfort from her husband, she got something completely unexpected. Let’s dive into her story…
Brother’s Tragic Passing

Husband’s Unusual Communication

Texting Instead of Talking

Silent Treatment Continues

A Wife in Need of Support

Hoping for Change

Devastating News Arrives

Sharing the Heartbreaking News

Husband’s Unbelievable Reaction

An Insensitive Text Message

No Words, Just Texts

Emotions Boil Over

Husband Finally Speaks Up ️

Apologies and Escaping to Mom’s

Mom’s Advice on Lashing Out ️

A Text Message in a Time of Grief
Our storyteller was already dealing with so much stress when her brother tragically passed away. Instead of comforting her, her husband continued his silent treatment and sent her a text message saying “I’m sorry” after hearing the news. She couldn’t take it anymore and blew up at him, only for him to say that it wasn’t his fault her brother died. After escaping to her mom’s house, her mother advised her not to lash out at her husband because it won’t solve the issue. Let’s see how the internet feels about this heart-wrenching situation…
Wife’s husband fails to support her in tragic moment. NTA.

Husband texts during wife’s tragedy, commenter calls out cruelty.

Supportive comment applauds OP for standing up to immature husband.

Supportive comment recommends therapy after husband’s insensitive behavior.

Wife dealing with family crisis gets no help from husband

Wife shares husband’s cold reaction to tragic news. NTA.

Husband’s lack of empathy during wife’s tragedy. NTA.
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Insensitive husband’s behavior after tragedy. Commenter offers support and advice.

Condolences given, commenter supports OP’s reaction to husband’s behavior. NTA

Encouraging support for NTA and suggestion for couples counseling

Prioritizing ego over partner’s feelings is a marriage ender

Husband’s pride overshadows wife’s tragedy. Seek help.

Husband’s lack of empathy shocks commenters. NTA.
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Insensitive husband chooses silence over comforting grieving wife

Spouse’s lack of support in tough times – NTA
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Asking about the issue that triggered husband’s appalling response

Husband’s unsupportive behavior during wife’s tragedy – commenters side with her

Husband’s text-only communication after tragic news makes him a**hat. NTA.

Narcissistic husband punishes wife to hurt her. NTA.
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Husband’s emotional abuse towards grieving wife is unforgivable

Husband’s lack of empathy shocks commenters. NTA.

Husband prioritized his feelings over wife’s tragic news.

Wife called NTA, husband’s reaction ‘over the top unreasonable’

Husband’s behavior before and after brother’s death.

NTA suggests divorce or apology for unsupportive husband.

Husband’s lack of empathy after tragic news is ‘insensitive’ NTA.

NTA. Communication is key in a healthy relationship

Husband’s behavior is worse than being TA

Heartbreaking loss exposes husband’s lack of love and empathy

Focus on your son, not MIL’s child. Send him back.

NTA. Husband’s cruel behavior should not be your priority right now
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Lack of empathy from husband sparks concern in comment section

Lack of empathy from partner after tragedy is evil

Insensitive husband behavior criticized by empathetic commenter.

A heartwarming story of a supportive husband during tough times ❤️

NTA. Silent treatment is emotional abuse. He meant to hurt you

Did OP leave out important details in their post?

Divorce is the only solution. Don’t let him manipulate you.

Supportive comment advises divorce from unsupportive husband
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Supportive comment offers condolences and understanding. ❤️

Heartbroken commenter sympathizes with wife’s tragic news

Cutting toxic people out of your life

Husband’s lack of support during wife’s tragedy, NTA

Engaging in a debate about communication tactics during grief

Emotional abuse is never okay. Divorce him.

Heartbreaking loss compounded by SO’s lack of empathy

Husband’s lack of empathy towards wife’s tragedy, divorce recommended

Ex’s surprising reaction to tragedy, regrets not working out.

Emotional abuse is never okay. Seek help and stay safe.

Husband gives silent treatment for 2 weeks after wife’s brother dies

Supportive comment offers condolences and condemns husband’s behavior.

Wife receives a heartless text from husband, commenter suggests divorce.

Heartless husband’s behavior is unforgivable. NTA.

Supportive comment calls out husband’s behavior and suggests divorce lawyer.
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Heartfelt condolences. NTA. Husband needs counseling for selfish behavior.

Supportive comment section with offers for co-parenting assistance.

Loss, grief, and a husband’s shocking reaction

Husband’s lack of empathy towards wife’s tragedy is unacceptable

Spouse’s lack of support during tragedy is unacceptable

Encouraging therapy for emotionally stunted husband. NTA.

Husband gave her the silent treatment after a disagreement. When her brother died, he texted instead of hugging her. Marriage counseling needed.

Insensitive husband causes wife to blow up after tragic news

Expecting comfort from SO, not indifference. NTA

NTA. Husband’s weaponized silence is blatant manipulation and abuse tactic.

DIVORCE ALERT NTA comment calls for drastic action

Emotional stress, unsupportive spouse, and divorce-worthy offense. NTA.

Partner should be supportive, have a serious talk. NTA

When words fail, pen and paper prevail?

NTA commenter advises leaving husband for immature behavior

Condolences to OP. Partner’s silent tantrum is unacceptable behavior. NTA.

User recommends divorce after husband’s cold-hearted reaction

Husband’s behavior is beyond being an a**hole. NTA.

NTA, but is it worth staying with someone so callous?

Condolences for loss, husband’s behavior unacceptable. You deserve better.

Wife suggests therapy after husband’s shocking reaction to tragedy.

Surviving grief and considering marriage counseling or divorce attorneys.

Supportive comment to woman dealing with cruel husband
