Husband’s Dilemma: Wife Wants to Be Surrogate for Best Friend

Imagine having a happy marriage and two beautiful children, only for a life-changing decision to threaten it all. That’s the situation our dear husband finds himself in. His wife wants to be a surrogate mother for her best friend, who can’t have children due to medical reasons. However, the husband is hesitant, fearing the impact it may have on their marriage and family life. Let’s dive into their story and see what unfolds.

The Happy Family

Wife’s Surrogate Proposal

Best Friend’s Struggle

Husband’s Concerns

Financial Worries

Previous Pregnancy Complications

Toxic Pregnancies

Tension and Stress

Wife’s Determination

Another Conversation ️

Wife’s Response

Husband’s Struggle

Best Friend’s Plea

Husband’s Dilemma

Marriage on the Line: Surrogacy Dilemma

Our husband finds himself torn between his love for his wife and the potential consequences of her becoming a surrogate for her best friend. He’s worried about the financial strain, his wife’s previous pregnancy complications, and the toxic atmosphere her pregnancies create. Despite his concerns, his wife is determined to help her friend, leaving the final decision in his hands. With the best friend pleading for a chance at motherhood, will he stand his ground or give in to their wishes? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA. Wife’s friend’s request for surrogacy has many complications and risks.

Wife hesitant to be surrogate, friend TA for pressuring. Adoption/fostering?

Wife’s desire to be surrogate for friend causing marriage risk. NTA.

NTA commenter raises valid point on surrogate’s impact on relationships

Husband considers wife’s surrogacy for friend, commenters say NTA

Best friend may be TA for ignoring boundaries

Prioritizing your marriage and family is important. NTA

Is it really a good idea to bring a child into the world at the beginning of a pandemic?

Friend wants wife to be surrogate, but doesn’t prioritize her happiness

NTA husband hesitant about wife’s surrogacy for friend

Short and sweet: NTA, just say no

Husband concerned about wife being surrogate for friend. Compromise suggested.

Surrogacy is expensive. Ask her friend how much she’s paying.

Wife hates pregnancy, friend is selfish. NTA for saying no

Putting emotional health first, NTA advises against surrogacy

Husband explains why he needs to stay home during pregnancy

Commenter praises husband’s character in surrogate dilemma.

Protect yourself legally if friend backs out. Wife, reconsider surrogacy.

NTA – Wife’s friend pressuring not fair. Consider financial implications.

Husband hesitant to let wife be surrogate for pushy friend

Important questions to consider before agreeing to surrogacy

Is wife’s surrogacy possible? Unlikely, says commenter.

Being a surrogate could negatively affect the whole family

Husband’s concerns are valid. Being a surrogate is a huge responsibility.

Consider the risks. Get all outcomes documented before proceeding.

Protect your family’s financial future if wife becomes surrogate

Pregnancy can have severe consequences, even for surrogates.

Husband’s concerns about wife being surrogate for friend.

Wife wants to be surrogate for best friend, but NTA.

Surrogacy as a business transaction: why friends shouldn’t mix.

Alternative options for surrogacy to avoid health risks.

Suggesting adoption or hiring a surrogate may be a better option ‍

The husband’s dilemma: should he let his wife be a surrogate?

Husband is NTA for not wanting wife to be surrogate. Valid reasons.

Best friend’s request for surrogacy is risky and selfish. NTA.

Commenter strongly disagrees with wife’s surrogacy proposal.

Wife wants to be a surrogate for her best friend. Commenter says NTA and explains why it’s a selfish move that negatively affects the family.

Supportive comment suggests sharing post to prove innocence.

Friend’s pushiness and odd request raise red flags

Protecting your marriage, kids, and wife’s health should come first

NTA wants to table surrogacy for friend during pandemic

Heartbreaking dilemma for husband, wife, and friends. No villains here.

Legalize it and hire help. Being a surrogate is tough.

NTA – High risk pregnancy, serious complications from IVF. Don’t allow.

Husband stuck in a lose-lose situation, wife puts burden on him

Commenter raises concern over past abusive behavior during pregnancies.

Is risking your family’s well-being worth being a surrogate?