Picture this: a power couple in their mid-30s, both working and raising a 3-year-old while expecting their second child. They’ve got a good thing going, with grandma helping out with childcare and a strong work ethic between them. But what happens when one of them dreams of becoming a stay-at-home parent and an Instagram sensation? Let’s dive into this story of ambition, conflict, and the pursuit of happiness.
The Power Couple
Family Background
Childcare Arrangements
The Big Question
The Debate Begins ️
Standing My Ground ⛔
The Persistence Continues
The Instagram Dream
Tears and Frustration
Am I the A**hole? ♂️
Childcare Payment Clarification
Grandma’s Generosity
The Stay-at-Home Mom Dilemma ❓
Our protagonist is faced with a dilemma when his wife expresses her desire to become a stay-at-home mom and an Instagram star. He’s not on board with the idea, as he believes in the financial stability that comes with two working parents. Despite her insistence that he could support them on his own, he stands his ground and suggests she work part-time instead. However, she refuses, stating that her Instagram work is just as important. As the tears and frustration mount, he wonders if he’s being unreasonable. So, what does the internet think of this situation? Let’s find out…
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A commenter calls out a woman for wanting to be an Instagram mom.
User warns against unrealistic expectations for Instagram income. NTA.
SAHM defends stay-at-home-mom lifestyle against Insta-mom stereotype
Protecting your children online is important. NTA made a valid point.
Supportive comment calling out selfish behavior, NTA.
NTA, but communication is key for grown-up relationships
Warning against posting kids on social media to avoid pedophiles.
Husband says no to stay-at-home mom due to Instagram? NTA
Dislike for Insta-moms overshadows opinion on stay-at-home parenting.
Communication and compromise key for stay-at-home mom decision
Is it fair to assume stay-at-home moms post pics on Instagram?
An older commenter finds Instagram moms cringe-worthy.
Husband won’t let wife be a SAHM but isn’t contributing financially?
Mixed feelings on being a stay-at-home mom and influencer
Agree, both partners need to discuss financial plans and backup options.
Expecting a new mom to go back to work? YTA!
Supportive comment against wife’s influencer dream. NTA.
Support for stay-at-home-mom and criticism of husband’s behavior.
A compromise proposal, but is social media really the problem?
NTA. ‘Instagram mom’ idea is a rabbit hole of expenses and privacy invasion.
Supporting a wife’s decision to be a stay-at-home mom.
Concerned comment about exposing kids online to predators.
NTA. Aspiring to be an “Instagram mom” is stupid.
Judgmental comment on stay-at-home mom without replies
Social media obsession: NTA for not wanting to be influencer
NTA suggests that wife needs to do chores to be a stay-at-home mom.
Instagram momming is a business. Hard work, props, and metrics.
Encouraging therapy for sudden desire to be IG mom. #NTA
Stay-at-home mom wants to avoid housework for Instagram. NTA verdict.
Sarcastic reply doubts authenticity of wife’s desire to be SAHM
SAHM role requires responsibilities, not an insta-famous illusion.
Curious commenter questions husband’s side of the story
Split finances and parenting duties causing tension in marriage.
Protecting kids’ privacy and calling out monetizing them
Stay-at-home mom criticized for phone usage by commenter
User suggests stay-at-home moms just want to become influencers.
Stay-at-home mom criticized for using kids for Instagram content.
User questions OP’s reasons for not letting wife be a stay-at-home mom
Supportive comment encourages therapy for the wife’s issues.
Woman defends husband’s decision to not let wife be SAHM.
Supportive husband enjoys having wife stay home for the kids
Balancing work and rest important, but IG career not sustainable
Parenting isn’t about exploiting kids for social media fame. NTA.
Assertive comment stands up for stay-at-home moms
Stay-at-home mom shamed for wanting to work from home. NTA.
Encouraging spouse to pursue unrealistic career? NTA, but communicate effectively.
NTA. Commenter questions the wife’s motives and criticizes their finances.
Wife wants to be instafamous, but can they survive on one income?
The cost of being an Insta Mom discussed in comments.
Advocating for traditional gender roles and social media privacy.
Supporting a wife’s desire to be an IG influencer? NTA wins
Harsh comment shames stay-at-home moms who work online.
Divorce threat for stay-at-home Instagram mom comment.
Importance of parental time early in life, online safety concerns
Stay-at-home moms deserve respect, daycare isn’t an option. YTA.
Parenting decisions being reduced to just finances?
Being a stay-at-home mom is a partnership, not financial leeching
Internet user calls out couple for being ridiculous and detached.
Debate on stay-at-home mom vs. influencer parenting choices.
Stay-at-home moms can actually benefit their children’s success.
SAHMs aren’t financial leeches, but being an Instagram mom is problematic
NTA! Commenter calls out mom for exploiting kids on Instagram.
Encourage and support stay-at-home moms for kids’ development
Posting kids’ photos online invites predators. Tell wife no. NTA
SAHM defends choice, questions wife’s motives for staying home.
User doubts wife’s intentions for wanting to stay at home.
Defending stay-at-home moms against hateful language. ❤
Asserting control over your partner is never okay
Parenting and chores should be split evenly.
Stay-at-home mom won’t make money from IG, double loss.
Preference for families with working parents and lived-in homes.
A questionable comment suggesting manipulation and shirking of responsibilities.
