Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of ‘My Daughter’s Gay and I Don’t Know What to Do!’ Buckle up, folks, because this one’s a doozy! Our protagonist (let’s call her Mama Bear ) and her hubby (Papa Bear ❄️) are in quite the pickle. Their little girl is all grown up and ready to tie the knot with her girlfriend, but Mama and Papa Bear are struggling to come to terms with it. They’ve been trying their best to be supportive, but sometimes those pesky “blocks of resistance” just won’t budge! Now, with the wedding fast approaching, they’ve got a big decision to make…
Daughter’s Big Day Dilemma: To Attend or Not to Attend?
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♀️ Climbing the Mountain of Acceptance, One Step at a Time ️
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️ The Great Gay Parade Debate: Too Soon or Right on Time? ♀️
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Wedding Woes: Hubby Draws the Line, Wifey on the Fence
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Daughter’s Ultimatum: Attend or Be Cut Off! ♀️
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️ Counselor’s Wisdom: Boundaries, Ultimatums, and the Big Picture
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⏳ A Tale of Two Weddings: The Counselor’s Story
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To Go or Not to Go? That is the Question!
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The Wedding Showdown: Will Mama and Papa Bear Show Up?
Mama and Papa Bear have been on quite the journey with their daughter’s sexuality, from praying and researching to welcoming her girlfriend into their home . They’ve even attended therapy sessions ️ with an LGBT counselor to help them navigate this new territory. But now, the ultimate test has arrived: their daughter’s wedding day! Papa Bear has put his foot down and refuses to attend, while Mama Bear is still on the fence . Their daughter has given them an ultimatum : show up or be cut off! ♀️ Their wise counselor has shared her own story of parental wedding woes, leaving Mama Bear with a lot to consider . Will they choose to stand by their beliefs or support their daughter on her big day? The internet is dying to know!
Homophobia is never okay. Supporting your daughter matters more. YTA.
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Homophobia at its finest. Be happy for your daughter
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Supporting your daughter’s happiness should not violate your conscience ❤️
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Daughter sets clear boundary, OP faces self-inflicted wound. YTA.
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An LGBTQIA+ Christian argues for daughter’s same-s*x wedding attendance ❤️ ❤️
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Daughter’s wedding ruined by religious beliefs. Wife must choose sides ⚔️
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Calling out bigotry with a powerful analogy
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Choose your daughter or your beliefs. Therapy won’t fix bigotry. ️
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Focus on love and happiness, not genitalia. ❤
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Daughter’s same-s*x wedding, husband refuses to attend. YTA.
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Parent stands up against homophobia in viral wedding post ️
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Love may be unconditional but attendance is a choice ❤️
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Parent’s bigotry causes rift, comment calls them out.
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Choosing your beliefs over your daughter’s happiness? ♀️
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Parental love should be unconditional. YTA for putting conditions.
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Homophobia disguised as religion? YTA, daughter’s happiness matters ❤️ ❤️
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Redditor questions origin story of OP’s homophobia. YTA.
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Show your daughter love by attending her wedding despite discomfort ❤️
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Father refuses to attend daughter’s same-s*x wedding. YTA.
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Attending your daughter’s same-s*x wedding is not negotiable.
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YTA for not accepting your daughter’s relationship and refusing to attend her wedding. Your words are empty.
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Don’t make your daughter’s wedding about you. YTA and counselor.
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Don’t let your ego blind you to love. YTA.
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Challenging the father’s bias with a logical analogy
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Redditor calls out homophobic mother as YTA.
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Homophobic father faces consequences for skipping daughter’s same-s*x wedding.
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Defining moment for parent-child relationship. YTA for choosing piety.
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Daughter’s wedding is not the time for bigotry. YTA.
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Homophobia is not an excuse to miss your child’s wedding. YTA
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A scathing response to a homophobic father’s ultimatum.
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Heartbreaking situation. YTA for not accepting your child’s love. ❤️
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Counselor’s unfamiliarity with Biblical passages leads to YTA judgement.
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Rejection of same-s*x marriage still a barrier to acceptance ️
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Calling out bigotry and predicting consequences.
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Homophobic father risks losing daughter’s love. YTA mountain awaits ⛰️
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Don’t lose your daughter over personal beliefs. ❤️
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Heartbreaking comment calls out father’s homophobia. YTA
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Homophobia has no excuse Daughter deserves better ❤️
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Choose love over bigotry and be there for your child. ❤️ ❤️
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Choosing bigotry over daughter? YTA needs to do better
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Heartbreaking story of intolerant parents and their mature daughter
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Sassy clapback to homophobic commenter.
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Parental love should be unconditional ❤️. YTA needs to open up
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A scathing reply calling out Christian hypocrisy
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Parents refuse to attend daughter’s same-s*x wedding, called out for being stubborn.
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A fiery comment calling out a small-minded bigot.
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Attending your daughter’s wedding is a lifelong commitment ❤️ ♀️
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Daughter’s wedding feud: Commenter calls out parent’s behavior
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Attend the wedding, sit in the back, don’t miss out ❤️
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Parent’s refusal to attend daughter’s same-s*x wedding – YTA
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YTA comment shuts down homophobia with sass ♀️ ️
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Shutting down bigotry with a clear verdict. YTA.
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Put prejudice aside and attend your daughter’s wedding ❤️
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Redditors call out OP for ignoring professional advice.
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Passionate defense of LGBTQ+ rights with a touch of humor
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Attend daughter’s same-s*x wedding and support her. YTA.
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Don’t lose your daughter over a legal arrangement, just go ❤️
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Support your child’s same-s*x wedding. Don’t lose her.
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60-year-old calls out homophobia, supports daughter’s wedding. ❤️
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Therapy won’t help unless you respect your daughter’s choices.
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A wedding is just one day. Don’t lose your daughter ❤️
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Supportive comment urges father to attend daughter’s wedding ❤️
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User questions husband’s refusal to attend daughter’s same-s*x wedding.
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Supporting your daughter’s wedding is the ultimate sign of support.
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Powerful condemnation of hate and bigotry in Christianity. ❤
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Heartbreaking comment from a queer person about their own fears.
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Counselor’s role isn’t to validate your homophobia, YWBTA.
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Daughter’s same-s*x wedding: YWBTA if you refuse to attend.
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Therapist calls out hypocritical Christians in daughter’s wedding dispute ✝️
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Choosing not to attend your daughter’s wedding will damage relationship
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Heartbreaking reminder to YTA for his daughter’s wedding absence.
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Supportive comment encourages father to attend daughter’s wedding ❤️
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Choose love over prejudice or lose your daughter. ❤️ ️
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User suggests weighing pros and cons of attending daughter’s wedding
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Parental love should be unconditional. YTA for letting conditions stop you.
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