An experienced female hiker found herself in the middle of a controversy when she was honest about why a friend couldn’t join her on a challenging hike. The friend, who has a history of mansplaining and not being in the best shape, was not pleased with her response. Their friend group weighed in on the situation, but was she right to be so candid?
Experienced Hiker’s Background ️

The Problematic Friend

A Burden on the Trail

Upcoming Hike and Friend’s Request ♀️

Hiker’s Honest Response ️

Friend’s Angry Reaction

Hike Details and Couch Questions ️

The Great Hiking Debate: Was She Right?
An experienced female hiker’s honesty about why a friend couldn’t join her on a challenging hike has sparked a debate among their friend group. While most of them sided with her, one friend felt she should not have embarrassed him. Was she right to be so candid, or should she have been more tactful in her response? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Private text exchange leads to NTA verdict

Hiker’s honesty about uninvited guest sparks debate among commenters.

Hiker stands up to entitled guy. NTA wins the day!
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Inflatable couches are not for serious hikers or campers

Hiker stands up for herself and sparks conversation about entitlement

Defending honesty: NTA for stating facts in private conversation

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself. NTA

Support for hiker’s decision to not bring incapable person.

Hiker’s decision to turn back saves lives

Hiker stands up for herself against entitled man.

Hiker stands up for herself against entitled invitee

Hiker stands up to jerk hiking partner.

Inflatable couch on a technical hike? NTA calls out childish behavior

Hiker’s honesty wins over subtlety in this NTA comment.

Hiker’s honesty saves the day and sparks controversy

Hiker’s honesty saves lives, but sparks controversy

Standing up for yourself doesn’t make you invincible ♀️

Honesty is the best policy . NTA for telling the truth.

Polite decline sparks debate on manners and entitlement

Setting boundaries and plugging leaks

Hiker shares experience of difficult trail, commenters agree with humor.

Hiker calls inflatable couch ‘absolutely useless’ in NTA comment.

Woman stands up to pushy man, says ‘you’re not invited’

Polite requests go a long way. NTA for saying no

Hiker’s honesty sparks debate on men’s self-esteem. NTA wins.

Hiker’s honesty sparks controversy. Commenter defends her straightforward answer.

Hiker’s honesty sparks controversy, but commenter says NTA

Hiker’s honesty shuts down obnoxious companion.

Bringing an unprepared person on a trip can be dangerous.

Polite NTA hiker should have been more blunt

Hiker’s honesty receives support: Not the a**hole

Normalize honesty and setting boundaries. NTA for being blunt.

Hiking is not one-size-fits-all, NTA for setting boundaries

Hiker’s honesty saves lives. NTA verdict.

Setting boundaries with rude hikers
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Hiking Katahdin is no joke, caution advised

Experienced hiker stands up to condescending companion
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Hiker’s honesty questioned after helping unprepared friend

Hiker rejects trip, accused of leading him on?

Avoiding disaster: Hiker stands up to out-of-shape jerkass

Honesty or privacy? The debate continues in the comments.

Experienced hiker sets boundaries, friend betrays trust. NTA

Don’t let anyone guilt you into doing something uncomfortable.

Hiker stands up to entitled passenger demanding a ride.

Setting boundaries and saying ‘no’ is important.

Setting boundaries on a trip: NTA for being honest
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Dealing with entitled people – a survival guide

Hiker’s honesty saves lives on treacherous trail

Hiker stands up for herself and sets boundaries with uninvited guest

Declining an invite doesn’t make you the a**hole

Respectful hiker declines friend’s request to join her expedition.

Hiker stands up for safety and calls out bad camping buddy

Hiker receives support for calling out bad behavior on trail

Hiker’s honesty spares everyone from a dangerous situation. NTA
