Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a steamy story straight from the bedroom… but is it all sweet dreams or a rude awakening? Meet our exhausted new mama who’s at her wit’s end with her boyfriend’s relentless 4am booty calls. Despite their sizzling daily sex life, he just can’t seem to let her catch some much-needed Zzz’s. Is she an a-hole for putting her foot down and saying no to these nightly nookie interruptions? Let’s dive in and find out!
Bedroom Bliss… Or Is It?

No Shortage of Excitement… Until 3am

Sleepy Sex Was Fine… Before the Baby

Poked, Prodded & Pestered at 4am

I’ve Told Him How I Feel… Multiple Times ️

Remembering the Good Ol’ Sleepy Sex Days

AITAH for Choosing Sleep Over 4am Sex?

4am Booty Calls: Blessing or Curse?
Whew, talk about a bedroom dilemma! Our poor sleep-deprived mama is caught between a rock and a hard place (pun intended ). On one hand, she’s got a man who can’t keep his hands off her, even in the dead of night. On the other, she’s desperately craving some uninterrupted shut-eye, especially with a newborn in the mix. Her boyfriend’s 4am advances have gone from steamy to straight-up annoying, and his pouty reactions to her rejections are just the cherry on top. But wait, there’s more! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this nocturnal nookie conundrum. ️
Getting back at a demanding partner with morning chores ⏰

Enforcing boundaries in a relationship is crucial. #NTA

Setting boundaries is crucial. No means no, always.

Dump his selfish a**

Standing up against sexual violence and coercion. NTA.

Consent is crucial. Sleep deprivation is an abuse tactic.

NTA for drawing the line at disrespectful 4am demands.

Predatory behavior and fetishizing sleep – NTA stands firm

Selfish and disrespectful behavior from boyfriend. NTA.

Consent is key. No means no. He needs help.

Take action against sexual assault. Stay safe ❤️

Setting boundaries: Woman stands up to BF’s 4am sex demands

BF’s outrageous 4am sex demands? Trash behavior. Pity party ensues.

Protect yourself and your kids from this emotionally manipulative partner

Finding time for intimacy with family can be challenging

“NTA…. DO NOT LET YOUR KIDS GROW UP AROUND THIS MAN!!!”

Woman stands up for herself against disrespectful and disturbing behavior.

New mom stands up to selfish BF’s 4am sex demands
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Respectful NTA comment supports woman’s boundaries on 4am sex demands.

Sharing personal experience and offering support in sensitive matter. ❤️

BF’s manipulative behavior is a form of sexual coercion. NTA.

Respect your boundaries or leave, he has no right.

Survivor shares warning signs of relationship rape. Be careful.

Sleep > Sex. NTA for setting boundaries with new dad BF

Red flags: coercion, potential sex addiction, concern for OP’s safety. Consider therapy or leaving.

Serious comment about consent and women’s rights.

Standing up against sexual pressure and guilt is crucial

Respectful and consensual intimacy is key in a relationship. ❤️

NTA. BF’s sex addiction risks the relationship and your dignity.

Set boundaries and stand up against manipulative behavior.

NTA. Don’t have more babies with this selfish person!

Wake up dad for EVERYTHING

OP’s boyfriend’s behavior constitutes sexual assault and coercion. Red flags everywhere!

Break up with him. He’s emotionally abusing you for sex. ❌
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Sexual coercion and unwanted contact is not okay. #NTA

Parenting struggles causing 4am sex demands?

NTA, but BF has serious addiction problems. Porn or sex?

NTA draws the line at BF’s pressure for sex at 4am

Sleep assault is sexual assault. NTA. Consider your options.

Respecting boundaries is key in a healthy relationship

Sleep-deprived mom draws the line at BF’s 4am sex demands

BF complains about sex with 4 kids, new born. Commenter suggests therapy.

Take charge and put him in his place!

Strong anti-porn sentiment shared with conviction.

NTA calls out BF’s selfish behavior, offers support to OP.

Respect is key . BF needs to back off.

NTA draws the line on non-consensual sex with BF

Sexual compatibility and compromise is key in relationships.

Sleep is a priority! Interrupting intentionally is a NO ❌

Concerned commenter questions if partner respects postpartum recovery. Others suggest petty revenge.

Have an honest talk with your partner about boundaries

BF’s 4am sex demands show his selfishness, a counselor needed

NTA. This could be rape if there’s no consent. Seek help.

Stand your ground! Have a serious talk with consequences. #NTA

BF’s tantrum over sex shows lack of respect and communication skills

Marital rape is a serious issue, know your boundaries!

NTA but your bf is a sullen teenager.
Gross, selfish, manipulative. #breakup

Set boundaries! NTA for standing up for yourself.

Setting boundaries in relationships is important for self-respect. NTA.

Setting boundaries in a relationship is crucial

Coercive sex is disgusting. Only have sex when you want to

No means no. Boyfriend’s behavior is unacceptable and abusive.

Your partner seems like a**hole. You’re NTA.

Surviving sexual assault is never the victim’s fault.

Respecting boundaries is a must
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Savage suggestion for a selfish bf

NTA. BF is selfish, thoughtless & sexually assaulting. You’re not AH.

Respect is key . Saying “no” means no. #boundaries #NTA

♀️ BF wants sex every day AND has kids?!? Run girl, run!

Dehumanizing and disrespectful behavior that’s sadly too common

NTA, girl. He’s treating you like a Fleshlight

Beware of manipulative partners who mess with your sleep schedule.
