We’ve all heard stories of groupies and their antics, but what happens when one crosses the line and tries to kiss a band member’s boyfriend? This girlfriend found herself in a sticky situation when her boyfriend’s bandmate started bringing a woman with a wandering eye to their practice nights. The drama unfolds as the groupie makes her move, and our protagonist takes a stand!
The Band’s Background

Meet the Band Members

The Groupie Problem

Distaste for the Groupie ♀️

The Groupie’s Bold Move

Standing Their Ground

The Uncomfortable Encounter

Caught in the Act!

The Girlfriend’s Response

Taking Control ♀️

Laying Down the Law

Warning the Drummer ⚠️

The Aftermath ️

Feeling Guilty?

The Ultimate Showdown: Girlfriend vs. Groupie
After years of playing together, this band’s harmony was disrupted when a groupie tried to kiss the guitarist’s boyfriend. Our fierce protagonist stepped in, defending her man and kicking the groupie out of her house. But was it too much? The drummer hasn’t returned since the incident, leaving our heroine questioning her actions. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this rock ‘n’ roll drama!
Protective spouse bans band member’s groupies from their home
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Defending home and boyfriend from unwanted advances. NTA

NTA – You handled it well, and good riddance to disrespect.

Skeptical commenter doubts authenticity of situation, but supports OP’s actions.
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Drummer’s interference in BF’s music choice not appreciated

Drummer is a bigger a-hole than the groupie according to commenter

Standing your ground against disrespect on your own property

Groupie crosses the line, boyfriend’s partner stands up for themselves.
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Setting boundaries with groupies and standing up for oneself.

Supportive comment shows healthy relationship

Mature response to insecure groupie’s jealousy

Insider knowledge: ‘It’s always the drummer’ �rum with a wink

Drummer’s absence led to sleazy encounter at rehearsal. NTA.

NTA. Banning groupies, not drummers. Stand your ground

Set house rules with the drummer to avoid groupie drama

NTA commenter slams girl who tried to kiss taken guitarist’s boyfriend

NTA shuts down groupie’s advances with a warning

Groupie disrespects relationship, NTA for standing up for it.
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Drummer’s advances on groupie after boyfriend kissed? Not cool. NTA

Drummer’s disrespectful behavior leads to groupie’s inappropriate actions. NTA.

NTA handles groupie kiss attempt with grace and suspicion

Supportive comment about boyfriend and drummer situation.

NTA. Standing up for your partner is always rock and roll

Banning the groupie, not the drummer. NTA wins!

NTA for kicking out disrespectful woman at own home

Setting boundaries is key. NTA for standing up for yourself.

Drummer’s unrequited affection questioned in NTA comment.

Supportive spouse defends partner from inappropriate groupie behavior. #NTA

Consent is key, and baiting someone into cheating is scummy

Being in a relationship with a musician can be challenging NTA

Standing up to groupies and toxic people. NTA wins!

Defending boundaries and relationships, NTA gets fiery response.

Accusation of authorship similarity sparks downvote controversy

Drummer may have wanted guitarist to cheat with groupie ♀️

A heartwarming comment praising OP’s badassery and relationship

Learn to drum and join the band? NTA wins!

Drummer sympathizes with NTA and jokes about lack of groupies

Band loyalty over love? NTA prioritizes music over relationship.

NTA for calling out drummer, but is he remorseful or defensive?

Respectful band members prioritize couple over random groupie

Setting boundaries: NTA shuts down unwanted advances

Lessons on loyalty and respect from a friend’s betrayal.
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Drummer’s girlfriend not at fault for groupie’s actions. NTA

Clear communication is key! NTA, but talk to him

Suggests talking to SO about drummer, extend olive branch. ️

Being NTA doesn’t mean you can’t be cooler

Setting boundaries is reasonable. He chose to stay away.

NTA handles groupie situation with grace and bans her.

Groupie drama leads to band breakup and no more groupies.

Setting boundaries with disrespectful groupies. NTA, talk it out.

Reader sympathizes with the victim and condemns the groupie’s behavior

Setting boundaries and kicking out homewreckers, NTA prevails.

Band dynamics and groupie etiquette discussed. No drama here.

NTA kicks out groupie, but wishes they could do more

Mature response to inappropriate actions, talk to bf for closure

BF stands by OP after groupie’s gross behavior
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Nostalgic comment about hometown and personal growth
