A man uninvited his gay brother and his boyfriend from his wedding after the brother planned to wear a rainbow tuxedo. The man and his fiancé thought the outfit was inappropriate and would take attention away from them. The brother accused him of being homophobic, but the man denied it. After a heated argument, the brother and his boyfriend were uninvited. The family is now divided, and the man is wondering if he was in the wrong. An update reveals that the brother has bipolar disorder and was in a bad place. The man regrets his decision and wishes he had let his brother wear the tuxedo. Read on to find out how the story unfolds.
Brother uninvited gay sibling to his wedding for being gay ️

Brother uninvited from wedding over rainbow tuxedo choice

Groom uninvites gay brother and his boyfriend from wedding ♂️

Groom faces backlash after uninviting gay brother from wedding

Groom defends uninviting gay brother over dress code

Brother’s boyfriend doesn’t want drama over wedding outfit controversy

Brother’s bipolar disorder led to wedding invite debacle

Regretful groom wishes he’d let gay brother wear tuxedo

Groom regrets uninviting gay brother over outfit choice, offers olive branch

Groom uninvites gay brother for wearing rainbow tuxedo
A groom uninvited his gay brother and his boyfriend from their wedding after his brother planned on wearing a rainbow tuxedo to the event. The groom and his fiancé deemed the outfit inappropriate and believed it would take attention away from them. However, after uninviting them, the groom’s brother accused him of being homophobic. It turns out the groom’s brother has been struggling with bipolar disorder and the situation caused him to go into a mental episode. The groom now feels terrible about the situation, and wishes he had allowed his brother to wear the tuxedo. Some family members are refusing to attend the wedding due to the situation. Read on for comments and reactions.
NTA. Rainbow tuxedo would take attention away from bride. Brother’s being unreasonable.
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When you try to reason with someone but they won’t listen ♂️

Celebrate your love, but be the bigger person.
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Wedding is not the place for a statement outfit. NTA.
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Bisexual commenter agrees NTA, brother wants attention ♀️
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Brother wants to peacock hard at his own wedding?
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Gay man defends OP’s decision to uninvite brother from wedding.

Dress code drama: NTA uninvites gay brother from wedding ❌ ️

Supportive response to wedding dress code for queer community

Setting universal rules is not bigotry ️

Commenter defends groom’s decision to uninvite gay brother from wedding.

Wedding attire controversy – Commenter supports groom’s decision.

Wedding dress code specified black and white, not attention grabbing outfits. NTA.

Support for NTA comment, but others disagree ♂️

Standing firm on dress code: NTA for uninviting brother

NTA defends uninviting gay brother over outfit choice.

Rainbow tuxedos are only appropriate for pride and weddings ️

A colorful compromise for a formal wedding

Compromise is key Finding a way to meet halfway

Commenter defends uninviting gay brother from wedding, citing dress code.

Clearing the air: Groom uninvites gay brother over outfit choice.

Setting boundaries for your wedding day is important, NTA

Wedding drama: Groom uninvites gay brother over outfit choice.

Rainbow tux may be cool, but not for someone else’s wedding

Rainbow tuxedo receives negative review from commenter
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Curious Redditor wants to see the infamous rainbow tux

Supportive commenter advises groom to stand his ground.

Support for groom’s decision to uninvite gay brother ️

Sassy response shuts down tacky-phobic groomzilla ♀️

Wedding attire can be tricky, but advice on homophobia is unnecessary

Wedding day, couple’s choice. But is it ever okay?

Stand your ground and don’t tolerate petulant behavior ♂️

Insensitive comment dismissing homophobia, suggest petty retaliation.

Standing up against manipulation tactics and calling out wrong behavior

Opinions divided: NTA for uninviting brother over outfit choice

Commenter supports groom’s decision to uninvite gay brother.

Resentful comment denouncing activism, lacks empathy and inclusivity ♀️

Support for NTA in brother’s bipolar episode

Understanding the link between bipolar disorder and outfit choices

Setting boundaries and respecting dress codes – NTA comment

Dress code drama? NTA for enforcing the rules ♂️

Commenter supports dress code and mocks brother’s outfit choice. ♂️

Accusing the groom of narcissism and homophobia

Inappropriate wedding outfit suggestion leads to justified uninvitation. NTA

Supportive comment about bipolar disorder and wedding uninvite.

Wedding etiquette: blending in or standing out?

Brother’s outfit choice causes wedding drama. NTA or ESH?

Commenter defends groom’s decision to uninvite gay brother.

Rainbow tuxedo not appropriate for wedding dress code. NTA.

Trans and panromantic commenter shares frustration with LGBT+ phobic accusations.
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Being gay doesn’t excuse being an a**hole ️

Gay man defends NTA verdict against homophobic exclusion ️

Wedding day = groom’s choice ♂️

Wedding dress code applies to all, not homophobic to enforce. ♂️ ️

Colorful tie accepted, but full rainbow suit not wedding-ready ❌

Supporting dress codes, but is this really not homophobic?

Gay man defends uninviting brother over inappropriate outfit choice

Colorful attire sparks controversy at wedding

Understanding brother’s recent diagnosis and prioritizing self-care

Supporting LGBTQ+ rights, NTA stands up for what’s right ❤

Gay brother excluded from wedding to steal attention? NTA.

Supporting not the a-hole- OP made the right call

Support for not inviting gay brother to wedding over outfit.

Rainbow tuxedo drama, NTA brother calls out attention-seeking behavior

Acceptable dress code or discrimination? NTA commenter weighs in.

Rainbow bow tie instead? Compromise for flashy outfit at wedding.

Rainbow tuxedo at wedding: tacky or attention-seeking? NTA uninviting.

Black and white dress code only, NTA for uninviting brother

Being excluded from a wedding is tough, but was OP justified?

Wedding attire or pride parade? NTA draws the line ️

Support for groom’s decision to uninvite brother over outfit choice
