Imagine having kids at a young age, then stepping up to help raise your grandchild when your daughter becomes a teen mom. You’d think that after years of sacrificing your personal time, you’d be entitled to some well-deserved rest, right? Well, one couple decided it was time to ‘retire’ from their full-time grandparenting duties, and it’s causing quite a stir in their family. Let’s dive into their story and see what led to this dramatic decision.
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After years of stepping up as full-time caregivers for their grandchild, this couple has decided it’s time to ‘retire’ and focus on themselves. They’ve been sacrificing their personal time and energy ever since their daughter became a teen mom, and now they feel it’s time to enjoy their golden years. While they cherish the bond they’ve built with their grandchild, they’re ready for a change. But how does the rest of the family feel about this decision? Let’s check out some of the top reactions from people who’ve heard their story…
Grandparents go above and beyond for grandson, daughter ungrateful. NTA

Commenter receives first award for calling out irresponsible parenting.
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Grandparents not responsible for raising grandchildren, enjoy retirement

Grandparents retire from full-time childcare, family drama ensues. NTA.

Grandparents retire from childcare duties, sparks family drama. NTA.

Grandmother expects too much, NTA commenter tells it like it is

Grandparents accused of wanting free childcare, not helping family out

Grandparents retire from childcare duties, sparks family drama . Commenter says NTA, parents are responsible for their kids. Enjoy retirement

Teen mom supports OP’s decision to retire from childcare duties

Grandparents retire from childcare duties, sparks family drama. NTA.

Boundaries are important. NTA for prioritizing your own life.
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NTA! Time to relax and enjoy retirement

Grandparents retire from full-time childcare duties, sparks family drama

The true cost of relying on grandparents for childcare

Enjoy your retirement! NTA for setting boundaries with daughter

NTA Grandma deserves a break! Don’t let them guilt trip you.
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Grandparents retire from full-time childcare duties, sparks family drama

Grandparents retire from childcare, sparks family drama. NTA comment.

Grandparents in their 50s retire from childcare, sparks family drama

Grandparents retire from childcare duties, sparks family drama. NTA!
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Retiring grandparents deserve a break, NTA. Enjoy your retirement

Grandparents retire from childcare duties, daughter upset. NTA

Expectant mother agrees that caring for a grandchild is a chore
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Encouraging NTA comment supports grandparents’ decision to retire from childcare.

NTA. Tough love for entitled daughter who needs to grow up

Stay-at-home mom shouldn’t rely on grandparents for free childcare. NTA

Grandparents retire from childcare, daughter upset. NTA vs NAH.
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NTA for prioritizing your own time after dedicating 34 years.

Grandparents deserve a break, but is the daughter entitled?

Retiring from childcare duties? Enjoy your golden years!

Grandparents deserve a break! NTA for retiring from childcare duties

Grandparents deserve a break too!

Unpaid carers are undervalued in society.

Former nanny and SAHM shares perspective on family childcare drama

Grandparents deserve to enjoy retirement, not family drama.

Grandparents deserve to spoil their grandkids, daughter needs to understand.

Grandparents deserve respect and freedom, not to be free childcare.

Short and to the point. What’s the context here?
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Grandparents not obligated to full-time childcare. Summer visits suggested

Supporting a teen mom vs a stay-at-home mom. NTA.

Candid NTA comment on grandparent’s ‘retirement’ from childcare duties

Deserve to enjoy life. Daughter must accept responsibility. Family drama

Commenter suggests NTA and offers a possible explanation

Grandparents expect too much, not your job to fix it.

Enjoy retirement without the drama

Grandma is NTA for retiring from full-time childcare duties

Grandparents deserve to enjoy retirement after raising a second child.

Stay-at-home mom shouldn’t need full-time daycare. NTA

Grandparents retire from childcare, daughter-in-law not the a**hole.

Grandparents deserve retirement too! NTA for setting boundaries

Enjoy grandparenting on your own terms! NTA

Grandparents retire from full-time childcare, sparks family drama. NTA.

Retirement is for relaxation, not full-time childcare.

Setting boundaries with family is important.

Defending the value of childcare against family drama

Grandparents deserve a break from full-time childcare duties

Grandparent admits childcare is a chore, NTA for declining.
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Grandmother retires from childcare duties, sparks family drama

Grandparents deserve to enjoy their retirement. Communication is key

Grandparents’ retirement sparks family drama, daughter scared to raise kids alone

Follow your heart, not others’ expectations. ♥

Grandparents retire from childcare duties, sparks family drama. NTA

Time to act your ages. NTA for changing situation

Deserve a break! NTA stands up for their right to relax

Deserved retirement after a lifetime of raising kids and grandkids ✌

Grandparents deserve retirement too, NTA for wanting a break.

Daughter wants grandparents to sacrifice retirement for her convenience. NTA.

Grandparents want to retire from full-time childcare, daughter feels entitled

Grandparents deserve retirement too!

Comment shames daughter’s parenting, sparks debate on family responsibilities

Last Updated on May 15, 2023 by Diply Social Team