Granddaughter’s Secret Wedding Revelation Leaves Grandpa Stunned

A young woman in her late 20s found herself in a tricky situation after her recent wedding. She and her wife had been together for four years before tying the knot in a low-key courthouse ceremony. However, she had not come out to her extended family, including her grandparents. After her grandmother passed away, she decided to reveal her relationship on social media, but it seems her grandpa remained in the dark. The truth came out during a family gathering, leaving her to wonder if she should have been more explicit about her marriage.

A Low-Key Wedding

Hiding the Relationship ‍❤️‍

Grandpa in the Dark

Introducing the Wife

Sharing the News on Social Media

Family’s Positive Response

The Family Gathering

The Revelation

Assuming Grandpa Knew

Mom’s Disapproval

Wife’s Support

Should She Have Told Him?

The young woman’s grandpa discovered her secret marriage to another woman during a family gathering, leaving her to question if she should have been more explicit about her relationship. Her mom believes it was her responsibility to inform her grandpa, while her wife and friends think it’s not her duty to ensure everyone knows. As the family navigates this revelation, the question remains: should she have told her grandpa directly? Share your thoughts and reactions below.

Weekly calls with grandpa but didn’t tell him about wedding

Wedding photos and cards count as telling grandpa. NTA

Mild YTA for not telling your grandfather personally about your marriage.

Grandpa missed the wedding news. Commenter suggests granddaughter should’ve told him.

Granddaughter’s failure to properly introduce wife to grandpa sparks debate.

Coming out is hard and emotional, but NAH for not outing.

Grandpa’s surprise at secret wedding reveals family communication issues

Grandpa left in the dark about granddaughter’s wedding

Grandpa misses subtle hints, but guys need things spelled out

Granddaughter’s secret wedding leaves grandpa stunned. Commenter calls YTA.

Hiding a spouse from a kind family member? YTA

OP is YTA for not telling grandpa about wedding

User sympathizes with OP’s mom’s situation and suggests reaching out

Dealing with family reactions to same-sex relationships can be tough

Poster is mildly in the wrong for not telling grandpa.

Granddaughter’s secret wedding revelation hurts grandpa’s feelings. YTA.

Respect for privacy in queer relationships ️‍

Navigating coming out to family is tough, YTA with caveats.

OP receives a mild YTA for not being open with grandpa

Defending against judgmental comments with NTA and a fiery emoji.

Grandpa’s hurt, but mom’s the only a**hole here. NTA

Spouse honesty matters: Grandpa learns from soft YTA judgment.

Grandpa left in the dark about granddaughter’s wedding, unintentional YTA.

Don’t owe anyone coming out. NTA. Assume nothing.

Granddaughter’s social media reveal of secret wedding receives YTA judgement.

Congratulations on your marriage! YTA for not telling grandpa directly.

Share your joy with those who matter, forget the haters!

A simple comparison that highlights the absurdity of the situation

Homophobic grandpa gets put in his place. NTA

Grandpa not fully comfortable with granddaughter’s gay marriage, NTA.

Breaking down societal norms with a powerful NTA comment

Comment calls out lowkey homophobia in a humorous way

Find support and humor in r/sapphoandherfriend subreddit. NTA.

Grandpa gets a surprise, but commenter is unimpressed

Support for granddaughter’s wedding, but hurt grandpa needs attention

Taking responsibility for a secret wedding gone wrong

Mother kept wedding secret from grandpa, commenter not at fault

Grandpa learns of secret wedding, commenter defends NTA stance.

Be true to yourself and forget about pleasing others.