Picture this: you’re excited for a long-awaited girls’ trip with your closest friends, but suddenly, they start inviting their partners and even strangers! One woman found herself in this exact situation, and now she’s questioning her decision to cancel the trip. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story and see if she did the right thing.
The Exciting Plan
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Booking Flights ✈️
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More Uninvited Guests
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The Plot Thickens ️♀️
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Accommodation Drama
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Even More Strangers
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Feeling Blindsided
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The Final Straw
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Decision Time ⏰
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Breaking the News
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Radio Silence
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Acknowledging Faults
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The Big Question ❓
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Girls’ Trip Gone Wrong
This woman was looking forward to a girls’ trip with her three besties, but things took a turn for the worse when they started inviting their partners and even strangers! Feeling blindsided and annoyed, she decided to cancel the trip, only to be called r**e and petty by her friends. While she admits she could’ve communicated better, she also feels her friends failed to communicate properly. What do you think? Was she right to cancel the trip? ♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA for bailing on a trip that changed considerably without approval.
Asserting boundaries is NTA. They should have asked first.
NTA. Unwanted guests hijack girls’ trip during pandemic. Happy cake day!
Mixed opinions on pandemic precautions for group trips.
Travel plans hijacked by unwanted guests! NTA for wanting privacy.
Standing up for yourself is never stupid . NTA.
Speaking up is key! NTA for changing your mind
Stand up for yourself! You deserve a say in plans.
Unwanted guests hijack girls’ trip, NTA for not going. ♀️
Trip for 4, not 15! NTA for cancelling due to pandemic.
Maturely declining changed plans makes you NTA
You’re NTA for reconsidering a trip with unwanted guests
Commenter supports OP’s decision to cancel girls’ trip due to unexpected and risky circumstances.
Trip hijacked by unwanted guests, NTA for being annoyed. ♀️
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Adding more people to the trip is just more hassle. ♀️
Group trip turned nightmare with unwanted guests. Cancel while you can!
You made the right call. Hope the next trip is fun!
Friends prioritize partners over girls’ trip. NTA, just sad
Surviving a pandemic > being nice to strangers
Unwanted guests ruin a girls’ trip, leaving a hefty hospital bill
NTA for backing out of the trip due to added guests
Traveling during a pandemic with unwanted guests? NTA, but risky.
Small trip turned into a house party, NTA for backing out
Canceling a trip due to COVID concerns and r**e behavior.
Vacations are valuable and spending time with close ones matters ❤️
Canceling plans after being excluded? NTA, they’re being unreasonable ♀️
Social anxiety on group trips – relatable or not?
Coordinating a trip with 15 people? NTA for saying no!
Dump those friends! You’re definitely NTA
A cautionary tale of a girls’ trip gone wrong amidst COVID-19
Respect boundaries, pandemic or not. NTA for speaking up.
Advice on how to handle a group trip gone wrong
Standing up for yourself and calling out passive-aggressive behavior.
When a girls’ trip turns into a huge gathering, NTA.
Adding an unwanted guest to a girls’ trip is not cool ♀️. NTA for wanting quality time and considering COVID risk.
Commenter advises against joining a secluded trip with strangers.
Third wheeling on a girls’ trip? NTA, it’s uncomfortable
Confused about internet slang? You’re not alone!
Not the a**hole, but what happened on the trip?
Stand your ground! You’re not the a**hole.
Discover breathtaking waterfalls in the mountains of NC!
Vacation your way! Unapologetically enjoy your girls’ trip
Unwanted guests? Not the a**hole for feeling frustrated.
Not the a**hole, but what happened on the trip?
Adding unwanted guests to a small group trip is r**e
Small group trips are more desirable than large ones. NTA.
No a****e here! Share your stories of successful girls’ trips!
Uninvited guests ruin girls’ trip. Friends should have asked first.
Staying with strangers? Not cool. NTA for being uncomfortable.
Setting boundaries with friends who hijack plans
Not the a**hole for what? Need more context.
NTA for wanting an intimate girls’ weekend. S****y friends, sorry.
Smart decision! Avoiding unwanted guests is always a priority
Solo trip saved from unwanted guests, NTA for bailing out
Adding strangers to a girls’ trip without communication? NTA bailed.
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Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries, NTA! Need new friends.
Stand up for yourself! You have the right to refuse.
Vacationing with strangers is more work than fun
Uninvited strangers on a girls’ trip? Definitely not cool.
Agreeing with pandemic concerns in a polite way
Don’t let unwanted guests ruin your trip! Speak up early.
Different expectations can change the dynamics of a trip. ♀️
Group travel rule: Don’t invite randos, especially during pandemic ♀️
Last Updated on May 5, 2023 by Diply Social Team
