We all know someone who takes forever to get ready, right? Well, imagine if your significant other’s tardiness caused you to leave them behind for a major event. That’s exactly what happened when one woman decided she had enough of her girlfriend’s slow-paced preparation for a wedding. Let’s dive into the drama that unfolded…
The Invitation
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The Plan
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The Schedule ⏰
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The Reminder ️
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The Panic
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The Ultimatum ⌛
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The Tension Rises
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The Final Straw
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The Departure
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The Wedding
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The Confrontation
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The Accusation
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The Aftermath
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Time’s Up for Tardy Girlfriend ⏳
So, our protagonist found herself in quite the predicament when her girlfriend, Hannah, took her sweet time getting ready for a wedding. Despite multiple reminders and a clear departure time, Hannah just couldn’t seem to get her act together. Eventually, our protagonist had no choice but to leave without her fashionably late partner. But was it the right call? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Girlfriend’s chronic lateness shows disrespect for OP’s time.
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Don’t make someone else late for something important. NTA.
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Giving a buffer for travel time is smart and not AH behavior
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Early bird catches the wife
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Partner’s chronic lateness causes arguments, NTA for leaving without her
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Don’t rush her! NTA, but maybe be more patient
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When being fashionably late crosses the line. NTA wins.
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Standing up for yourself and your family
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Partner’s disrespect for important events may be a red flag
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Don’t be late! Commenter not at fault for girlfriend’s delay ⏳
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Taking 3 hours to get ready? NTA calls out the fuss.
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NTA comment encourages leaving girlfriend to stew in juice
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Partner’s poor time management caused them to miss wedding service. NTA.
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Standing up for yourself is never disrespectful
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Don’t let anyone waste your time ⏳️
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Good time management is a skill all adults need to learn . NTA.
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Don’t be a doormat for your partner’s tardiness. NTA
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Partner’s chronic lateness may be a red flag
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NTA takes longer due to anxiety, girlfriend disrespects time and lies.
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Partner takes too long to get ready, but NTA for leaving.
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Setting boundaries and communication are key to healthy relationships
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Respect people’s time and events. NTA for leaving.
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Anxiety-inducing situation, but NTA for valuing punctuality ⏰
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Time to move on?
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Girlfriend called out for being a selfish j**k
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Struggling with being late, but understands the importance of punctuality
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NTA. Girlfriend’s behavior is self-centered and disrespectful
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Late spouse? NTA. Commiserate with this understanding commenter
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Respectful punctual NTA leaves girlfriend for tardiness
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Assertive communication, but will it cost the relationship?
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Partner’s tardiness causes argument, commenter justifies NTA response.
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Dump your GF, you can do better
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Partner’s tardiness causing relationship problems. NTA. Communication is key.
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Don’t rush your partner, be patient. NTA.
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Setting boundaries and respecting them. NTA
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Time is precious, even more so when getting ready ⏳️
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Don’t be late for a wedding, NTA for leaving girlfriend
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Respectful or not? NTA prioritizes wedding over girlfriend’s feelings
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Selfish partner projecting control issues. Find someone who respects you.
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Arrive early, relax and avoid stress. Compatibility is key.
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No time to waste, NTA for leaving.
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Respect for time is important, NTA made the right call ⌚
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Being punctual is important ⏰, you’re NTA for leaving.
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Girlfriend left behind for being late. NTA wins.
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Struggling with chronic lateness due to ADHD, but taking responsibility. NTA.
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NTA, dodged a bullet with that high maintenance girlfriend
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Importance of punctuality at weddings emphasized. NTA.
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Setting boundaries and sticking to them. NTA wins this round!
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Hairdresser calls out girlfriend’s selfishness in getting ready time
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Don’t be late and don’t wait! You did the right thing. NTA.
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Respect is key Have a serious discussion about it
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Being punctual is key. NTA for valuing time management ⏱
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Partner takes too long to get ready, is NTA for leaving.
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Taking 2-3 hours to get ready for events, NTA
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Taking too long to get ready? Not the a**hole, apparently ♀️
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Girlfriend’s chronic lateness causes frustration and disrespect in relationship
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Patient OP shows respect, but girlfriend’s tardiness causes breakup ⏳
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Partner’s tardiness leads to justified NTA verdict
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Punctuality is key! NTA for calling out tardiness
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Not the a**hole for taking time to look good
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Weddings are important, being on time is crucial ⏰
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Being punctual is important, but is it worth leaving someone behind?
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Supportive comment encourages self-reflection after disrespectful behavior.
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Being late to gratify ego is a huge pet peeve
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When your family is always late but your girlfriend takes it too far ♀️. NTA wins!
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NTA for being frustrated with girlfriend’s lack of consideration
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Girlfriend’s tardiness causes drama on cousin’s special day. NTA.
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Being punctual is important, but leaving loved ones behind hurts ⏳
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Partner’s disrespect and selfishness is a red flag believe it.
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Last Updated on May 20, 2023 by Diply Social Team