We’ve all been there – waiting for someone to get ready while the clock keeps ticking. But what happens when being fashionably late goes too far? Meet our protagonist, who had to make a tough decision when her girlfriend, Hannah, took too long to get ready for a wedding. With the ceremony starting at 2pm and a 2-hour drive ahead, our protagonist made it clear that they needed to leave by 11am. But as the minutes ticked by, Hannah was still far from ready…
The Wedding Invitation
Hannah’s Plus-One Opportunity
The Time Crunch ⏳
Hannah’s Beauty Routine
The Countdown Begins ⏰
Tensions Rise
11am Arrives
Panic Sets In
The Ultimatum ⌛
Hannah’s Disbelief
The Departure
Hannah’s Reaction
The Accusations Fly ️
The Silent Treatment
Was Our Protagonist Justified or Just Plain Mean?
So, our protagonist left Hannah behind because she took too long to get ready for the wedding, despite multiple warnings. After the ceremony, Hannah accused her of being obsessed with being early and called her a selfish jerk. Now, Hannah is giving her the silent treatment and our protagonist is left questioning if she was in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA, girlfriend needs to improve time management for events. ⏰
NTA. Chronic lateness is selfish and self-centered. Good for you!
Good time management is key. NTA for leaving on time. ⏰
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Partner’s lack of consideration for time may be a red flag ⏳
An NTA commenter shares their experience with anxiety and being late.
Setting expectations and boundaries for punctuality – NTA
Respect for time is key, NTA for leaving on time ⏰
NTA for leaving girlfriend behind due to her tardiness
Anxiety-inducing situations: NTA for valuing punctuality over tardiness.
Struggling with being late, but NTA for not making others wait ⏰
NTA. Communication and compromise are key in any relationship.
NTA. Clear communication and boundaries were set, she ignored them.
Partner’s tardiness is disrespectful. NTA for standing up.
Respectful of your time NTA, punctuality is important.
NTA for leaving, but dump your GF seems harsh
Respect your partner’s time or face the consequences ⏰
Don’t be late for special events, NTA. ️
When you’re late, you accept the consequences. NTA.
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Hannah’s controlling behavior called out by commenter.
Respecting time is important, NTA. No one likes waiting ⏳
Hairdresser calls out girlfriend’s selfish behavior, suggests car makeup.
Arriving early brings relaxation and compatibility is often overlooked. NTA.
Setting boundaries and following through is key.
Struggling with chronic lateness, but taking responsibility and working on it. NTA.
Missing a wedding for being late? NTA, but priorities matter.
Respect and communication are key in any relationship
Partner’s chronic lateness causes breakup. NTA for leaving on time.
Getting ready for events can take hours, NTA for waiting.
Lesson not learned: NTA comment on tardy girlfriend.
Respect is key. ⏰ NTA for setting boundaries.
NTA, but is it worth leaving your girlfriend behind?
NTA! Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests confrontation with girlfriend.
Girlfriend’s tardiness causes rift, commenter says NTA ️
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Time management is key. Girlfriend not valuing your time.
Being habitually late is a pet peeve. NTA for leaving.
Partner threatens to leave if girlfriend doesn’t hurry up. NTA.
Inconsiderate girlfriend intentionally sabotages plans, causing panic
Being punctual is important, but leaving someone behind is harsh
Girlfriend’s tardiness causes rift on cousin’s special day. NTA.
Being punctual is important, NTA. ️
When your family is always late and you’re done with it NTA
Girlfriend prioritized herself over important event. NTA, but red flag
Priorities out of order? End the relationship. NTA.
Girlfriend takes too long to get ready, leaves on time. NTA
Reminding her for an hour and waiting for 30 minutes? NTA
Don’t ignore the disrespect. NTA for setting boundaries.
Being late is disrespectful, commenter sympathizes with OP.
Respect is key NTA for not apologizing.
Being late is disrespectful, but is it a dealbreaker?
Respectful of your time, NTA. She deserved to be left.
Partner’s lack of time management causes rift before ceremony ⏳️
Respectful communication, timed warnings, and still NTA.
OP sets time limit, extends, then leaves. Hannah learns lesson
NTA. ADHD can make time management difficult. Girlfriend had enough time.
NTA. 30 minutes is more than enough time to get ready
Partner takes too long to get ready, NTA for leaving.
NTA. Getting ready in the car is a common thing
Don’t waste your time waiting for selfish partners. NTA
Being punctual is important, NTA for valuing time and boundaries. ⏰
Anxiety-inducing situation, NTA, good communication, potential bullet dodged
Generous extra 30 mins not enough, NTA for leaving her
