We’ve all had that one friend who seems to make questionable decisions, but what happens when those decisions have serious consequences? Meet S, an 18-year-old college girl who was determined to lose her virginity before turning 18. After failing to do so, she meets M, a 28-year-old engaged man at her workplace. Despite knowing about his engagement, S gets involved with him and ends up pregnant. When she reveals her situation to her friends, one of them can’t help but ask the burning question on everyone’s mind…
S’s Quest to Lose Her V-Card ♀️
Enter M, the Engaged Man
The Affair Begins
He’s Engaged!
S Continues Anyway
Pregnancy Reveal
Not Keeping It
No Condoms, No Pill ♀️
Didn’t Think It’d Happen
The Hard Truth
S Gets Mad
Offering Support Anyway
Taken Advantage Of
Lesson Not Learned ♀️
Seeing Him Again?
A Messy Situation and a Dose of Reality
So, there you have it – a young girl, a much older engaged man, and an unplanned pregnancy. S’s friend couldn’t help but ask the question we’re all thinking: “What did you think was going to happen?” Even though S got mad, her friend still offered support and a place to stay. But it seems like S hasn’t learned her lesson, as she’s considering seeing M again. What do you think about this whole situation? Let’s dive into some of the internet’s top responses…
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18-year-old friend gets pregnant by engaged man, risks STIs. NTA.
Friend’s immaturity and poor choices lead to unwanted pregnancy
NTA. Encourage her to get checked for STIs as well
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Friend questions girl’s pregnancy choices, sparks debate on alcohol safety.
NTA comment calls out friend’s naivety, garners agreement
NTA. Commenter sympathizes with girl but condemns cheating fiancé.
Supportive comment section encourages friend to leave toxic relationship. ❤️
NTA drops biology truth bomb
NTA. Unprotected sex with a cheater is a fast track to permanent medical problems. Being supportive does not mean avoiding the harsh truth.
Asking the tough questions #NTA
Friend gives blunt advice on pregnancy and protection
Friend calls out ESH behavior, including drinking while pregnant
Friend expresses concern for pregnant girl’s dangerous behavior
Friend suggests Christmas stocking stuffer for irresponsible girl
ESH for poor decisions and poor timing. Friend needs empathy.
Friend calls out stupidity in pregnancy situation
Friend calls out girl for being ‘incredibly stupid’ for pregnancy
Friend advises to stay out of the mess, girl seeks abortion.
Friend advises caution and distance from pregnant friend’s actions
Friend drops hard truth about being fit to be parent
Pro-choice but not pro-abortion: comment and reply agree
Friend advises getting an STD test and telling the fiancée
Encouraging therapy for low self-esteem
Friend advises girl to get tested and contact fiancee
Calling out misinformation and rule violations in comments
Commenter struggles with judgment towards pregnant friend, but acknowledges insensitivity.
Hard truth about pregnancy and birth control
Commenter calls out predatory behavior, friend lacks empathy
Friend delivers hard truth with love and support
Preventing pregnancy is key, friend offers advice
Friend calls out OP’s judgmental attitude towards pregnant friend
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Friend suggests tipping off fiancée anonymously about cheating partner ♀️
Friend calls out immature behavior of girl who got pregnant
Engaged man cheats, gets girl pregnant, friend drops truth ♀️
Friend questions immature behavior and bad partner choice
Age gap, infidelity, and youth: a toxic combination
Friend is willfully ignorant, guy cheating is the real AH
Age is not just a number, and the 28-year-old man is TA
18-year-old girl with low self-esteem gets pregnant by 28-year-old predator. YTA.
When your friend’s situation is a trainwreck
Friend drops hard truth about pregnancy and responsibility
Friend’s self-worth issues may keep her in toxic relationship
Abortion as contraception: NTA comment and reply disapprove
Friend calls out bad decision-making in pregnancy situation
Friend calls out messy situation, NTA.
Friend calls out girl for irresponsible behavior and disloyalty
Friend drops hard truth on 18-year-old’s pregnancy situation
Friend suggests lying to engaged man about STI, sparks debate
Friend drops hard truth about safe sex and abortion.
Set boundaries with your friend to avoid her drama
Friend calls out irresponsible behavior of pregnant woman.
Being sarcastic and humiliating your friend makes you the a**hole.
