Gemologist Refuses To Give Partner Code To Safe With 6 Figure Gem Collection

A Gemologist in the UK is facing a dilemma with her boyfriend who recently moved in with her. She has a valuable collection of gems and jewelry, which she keeps in a safe specifically designed to keep them safe. Her boyfriend wants to have access to the safe with the code, but she refused because he has no reason to open it. The collection is worth six-figures, and she is the only one who knows the code. The boyfriend says that her refusal to give him the code is a trust issue, but she believes that he has no reason to access the safe. This has caused tension between the two. The post went viral, and the comments section was filled with advice and support for the gemologist. In the end, she decided not to give him the code and ended the relationship when he became disrespectful. She changed all the locks, installed an alarm and CCTV system as a precautionary measure.

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Gemologist’s partner demands safe code to 6 figure gem collection

A gemologist refuses to give her partner the code to her safe, which contains her 6 figure gem collection. The partner demanded the code, saying it’s a sign of trust, but the gemologist insisted that he has no reason to access it. This has caused tension in their relationship, and after a lot of back and forth, the gemologist decided to end things. She changed all the locks, installed an alarm and CCTV system, and even gave her solicitor the code and safe deposit details to be passed to her executor in the event of her death. Despite feeling horrible about the breakup, she believes that she deserves a partner who not only respects her boundaries but takes an interest in her passions. Read on to see how this story unfolds and what others have to say about it.

NTA. Trust issues with partner over safe code for gem collection.

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Protect your gems and your heart. Glitter trap him.

Protect your gems and your privacy. Don’t give him the code!

Partner’s intentions questioned, move gems to another location

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Red flag alert Gemologist partner’s behavior is concerning. NTA.

Concerning behavior from partner, advice to run. ‍♀️

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Partner’s behavior is controlling, and not about trust.

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Protect your gems and your heart ❤️. NTA.

Protecting the gems ‍♂️ No access, no problems.

Test his character with a fake code. NTA

Protect your gems, not his ego NTA

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Protect your gems, protect your peace

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