Katy’s life took a turn when her father passed away, leaving her with a massive trust fund. She met John, and they fell head over heels in love. But when John discovered the trust fund, things started to change. He convinced Katy to buy a house together and even pushed her to support him financially so he could quit his job and pursue his “dream” of being a hydroponic farmer (aka, growing and smoking weed all day). Now, John has proposed to Katy, but is it true love or just a ploy to get access to her money?
Trust Fund Love Story

John’s Sudden Interest

John’s Dream Job?

Trust Fund Limitations ⛔

Marriage Milestone

John’s Proposal… or Demand?

Is John After the Money?

Katy’s Love-Blindness

The Prenup Suggestion

Friendship on the Rocks

To Apologize or Not?

Update: Katy’s Reaction

Long Conversation ️

Friend’s Decision

Defending Legal Expertise ⚖️

True Love or Trust Fund Trap?
Katy forgave her friend for suggesting a prenup and sharing her story, but she remains firm in her belief that a prenup isn’t necessary and that John is a good guy. Her friend has decided to drop the issue and support Katy, despite her concerns. But is this a love story destined for a happy ending, or a trust fund trap waiting to happen? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Protecting the trust fund: NTA advises prenup, trustee agrees, and recommends setting up a trust to protect the child’s future.
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Commenter calls out friend’s fiancé for being ‘dickmatized’

Lawyer advises friend to break up with fiancé for money grab

Being a good friend and lawyer, NTA gives excellent advice!

NTA attorney friend advises on prenup & separate accounts. Friend’s choice.

Offering unsolicited prenup advice: NTA but tread carefully

Prenups are important in financial imbalances. Plus, a financial advisor?

Protective friend predicts fiancé’s gold-digging and gets vindicated

Suggest splitting the baby and explaining the importance of prenups.

Encourage your friend’s self-worth, not insult her fiancé.

Honesty is the best policy, even if it’s hard

Sneaky or justified? Comment suggests calling trust on fiancé.
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Supportive advice given, but only with an apology.
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NTA warns friend about fiancé’s money grab, faces pushback and denial.

Lawyer advises NTA commenter on how to approach friend’s fiancé.

Red flag alert! NTA advises prenup and unsolicited advice.

Katy’s fiancé is a money grabber. NTA. Tough lesson.

Friend’s fiancé wants to steal her trust fund? NTA suggests cutting ties.

User advises against marrying fiancé without prenup and assets protection.

Wait until they’re married before sharing the trust fund?
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Respectful advice on trust fund spending.

Age is just a number, but does it matter for love? ♀️

Protecting your assets is smart , prenups aren’t evil

Friend tries to warn bride-to-be about fiancé’s money grab

Friend’s fiancé may be a money grabber, but she won’t listen

Protective friend warns about fiancé’s potential financial ruin

Red flags everywhere! Show her the replies and run!

Protecting trust funds in divorce, but what about after marriage?

Being a good friend means being honest, even when it hurts

Commenter expresses sympathy for situation, but doubts resolution possible.

Suggesting an intervention for a friend’s fiancé’s money grab

Protecting a friend’s happiness: advice on discussing a prenup

Support your friend, but don’t say ‘I told you so’

Run, girl, run! Prenup is your only option.

Friend warns about fiancé’s money grab, hopes for her realization

Investigating fiancé’s past and infidelity suspicions.

Fiancé marrying for money? NTA thinks she’ll regret it.

NTA calls out fiancé, sparks defensive reaction. Drama ensues

Katy’s in trouble and needs to act fast!

Protecting a friend from lovebombing fiancé with evidence
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Katy gets roasted by commenters for her actions

Supportive friend advises to let the relationship run its course

NTA comment: Wise words from an attorney on money and immaturity.
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Friend chooses loyalty over money, suggests revenge on cheating fiancé.

Is she a gold digger or just bad with money?

Share the post with her to give a reality check #NTA

Protect your assets! NTA suggests a prenup.
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Protect your assets with prenups and post-nups

Sincere apology and delicate words might help resolve the situation

Protecting a friend from a potential gold-digger.

Marriage advice: Get a prenup, it should be part of the license.

Protective friend puts love over money. NTA

Protecting trust fund: prenup or trust fund manager intervention?

Protect your assets, always get a prenup
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Respect her choices, apologize and move on.
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Stay on the sidelines and avoid the trainwreck

Supportive advice to let go of a friend’s financial decision

Apologize to save your friend from a money grab

Prenups are for a reason. Red flags abound. Apologize for support.

Supportive friend warns about potential gold digger fiancé.

Red flags raised about trust fund. Seek legal advice.

Prenup is a must-have, either you decide or state does.

Not the a**hole, but what’s the backstory?

Not the a**hole! But what’s the story behind the trust fund?

Not the a**hole! Tell us more, why do you think so?

NTA vs YTA: The age-old debate on giving unsolicited advice.

Protecting assets or lack of trust? NTA comment section.

Not the a**hole! But why the controversy?
