We’ve all had that one friend who just doesn’t seem to respect our boundaries or belongings. In this case, a woman asked her friend Bex to house sit for a week, agreeing to pay her $50 a day. But when she returned home, she discovered that Bex had not only slept in her bed but also ruined her expensive duvet cover with nail polish. Now, she’s considering deducting the cost of the duvet from Bex’s pay, causing a major rift between them. ️
The House Sitting Agreement

Bex Breaks the Rules

The Unwanted Surprise ️

Bex’s Explanation ️

The Duvet’s Price Tag

Bex’s Response

The Dilemma

The Aftermath

Friendship on the Rocks

Group Chat Confrontation

The Truth Comes Out

Friends Take Sides

Bex Goes Nuclear

The Aftermath Continues

The Final Decision

The Great Duvet Debacle: Who’s Right? ️
In a whirlwind of drama, our protagonist discovers her friend Bex not only broke the rules by sleeping in her bed but also ruined her pricey duvet cover with nail polish. Bex demands full payment for house sitting, but our protagonist considers deducting the cost of the duvet from her pay. The situation escalates in a group chat, with friends taking sides and Bex ultimately going nuclear. At this point, our protagonist decides not to pay Bex at all. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Friend damages property, neglects dog, demands payment. NTA, don’t pay.

Give her the duvet and be done with it ♀️

Friend sleeps in bed, ruins duvet, doesn’t walk dog, demands payment

Contract breached. Two options: no pay or cut pay and damages.

Defending privacy and property – NTA, trash taking itself out

NTA for reducing payment to offset loss, but not for full price.

Friend breaks rules while house sitting, demands payment for mistake.

NTA. House-sitter disrespected you, ruined duvet, smoked indoors. Not earned payment.

Bex ruins duvet, neglects dog, demands full payment. NTA.

Friend wrecked your stuff and demands payment? NTA, stand your ground!
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Expensive duvets are not to be messed with . One commenter shares a relatable laundry mishap.

Respectful house sitting gone wrong. NTA for charging her.

Friend’s house sitting goes wrong, commenter is rightfully angry

Friend ruins duvet, demands full payment for house sitting. NTA.

End of a friendship over a ruined duvet

Comment section lightens the mood with a name generator joke

Comment section turned reality TV show with hilarious inside joke

Cut ties and pay up? NTA suggests Venmo and vanish

Don’t pay for a job not done, screenshots can prove it. NTA
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Take control of the situation before she does.

Stand up for yourself and expose the truth

Agreed job not done, NTA for not paying in full

Friend disrespected and damaged property, deduct pay and dump her.

Deduct the duvet cost from her pay and let your friends know why. NTA

$50/day for house/dog sitting? Cheap or reasonable?

Stand your ground and expose her actions on social media

Sneaky friend demands payment after ruining duvet. NTA’s solution

Considerations for insurance coverage in duvet debacle

Friend damages property, demands payment, and threatens – NTA

Don’t let her blackmail you, keep your money and dignity

Stand up for yourself and warn mutuals before she does!

Friend demands payment for ruined duvet, choose money or friendship.

Replace the duvet and deduct the cost. NTA

Suggests charging for cleaning instead of replacing the duvet

Friend ruins duvet, neglects dog, demands full payment. NTA

Bex exposed as a bad friend

Cut your losses, give duvet, move on.

NTA defends against entitled friend’s demand for payment with witty comeback.

Secure your home and your peace of mind.

Friend demands payment for ruined duvet, but commenters say NTA and suggest a ‘drama tax’ of $100. One commenter found the idea hilarious

Friend demands payment for ruined duvet, NTA comment agrees

Setting boundaries is important. NTA. Drop the friend.

Respectful pet sitter shares horror stories and supports OP. NTA

No payment for bad house-sitting. Ruined stuff, smoked pot. NTA.

Friend destroys property, demands payment for not doing job

Don’t pay for bad house-sitting and ruined duvet

Payment for house sitting and duvet damage is necessary

Friend ruins duvet, demands payment. NTA deducts, not friends anymore

Terrible friend ruins house sitting, demands payment. NTA and warn others!

Expose the truth! Share this thread with mutuals to warn them.

Don’t let her take advantage of you, stand your ground

PayPal her $100 and slaughter her on socials. NTA

Shoddy pet sitter ruins duvet and demands payment. NTA.

Stand up for yourself! NTA. Deduct more, badmouth her, prove it.

Dump the duvet at her door with 10 bucks pinned.
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Dump the friend and pay $250. Share the story with mutuals

Don’t let entitled house-sitters take advantage of you!

Friend ruins expensive duvet, oversteps boundaries, and demands payment. NTA.

Don’t pay a single penny for the ruined duvet and invasion.

Protect your property and peace of mind. Change the locks! ️

Settling for $100 – Not a friend anymore

Last Updated on May 8, 2023 by Diply Social Team