Imagine attending a college where almost everyone lives on campus for all four years. Now, picture being a freshman with an apartment in the city center for weekend parties and a much-needed escape from dorm life. Sounds like the perfect setup, right? Well, not everyone agrees. When one student’s jealous roommate reported her to the Resident Assistant (RA) for ‘not living on campus,’ things took an interesting turn. Let’s dive into this drama-filled tale!
The Unusual College Setup

The Coveted City Apartment

Roommate’s Jealousy

The Report to the RA

RA’s Reminder

Setting the Record Straight ✅

RA’s Annoyance

The School’s Limited Control

The Popular Arrangement

Paying the Price

Standing Her Ground ♀️

RA’s Reluctant Response

The Final Verdict ️

Roommate’s Accusation

Freshman’s Unstoppable Apartment Life
In a world where living off-campus is considered unusual, this freshman found a way to have the best of both worlds – a dorm room and a city apartment. But when her jealous roommate tried to report her to the RA, she quickly shut down the attempt with a simple reminder: she pays for her housing, and as an adult, she can choose where to spend her time. ♀️ The RA, left with no choice, had to admit that there’s nothing they can do. But the roommate’s accusations of ‘mental abuse’ and ‘gaslighting’ still linger. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Debate over whether OP is entitled or just exercising her rights
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Commenter and reply agree: ‘F***ing first world problems’

NTA- Freshman gets off-campus apartment, roommate tries to get her in trouble. ESH except the poor RA.

RA reminds freshman of off-campus rules, roommate complains, commenters defend RA.

Comment section shut down by a well-deserved mic drop

Commenter questions how a freshman can afford tuition and apartment

Comment section calls out entitled behavior of party-throwing freshman

Commenter defends OP’s response to RA and criticizes ageism.

RA just doing their job, NTA. Petty bs

Commenter finds situation ridiculous and sympathizes with OP.
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Commenter criticizes housing crisis and OP’s entitlement to a second home.

Commenter calls out OP’s privilege, advises to read the room

Living on campus requirement in US colleges, NTA for OP.

Commenter calls out rich kid’s temper tantrum and entitlement.

Commenter accuses OP of flaunting wealth, gets called out
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Roommate is TA, but RA not at fault. NTA

Breaking free from campus housing: A freshman’s story

NTA, but watch your tone and residency rules

Roommate upset over off-campus apartment, but OP not hindering social experience

A disturbing comment that warrants immediate action

18-year-old with dorm and apartment? ♂️ Spoiled or not spoiled?

Roommate drama: defending privacy in college dorms

Commenter calls out entitled student, YTA for lack of self-awareness

Commenter accuses OP of using daddy’s money to avoid trouble.

Spoiled freshman gets called out for being a pain

Entitled behavior sparks ESH judgment, but one reply defends her actions.

Freshman’s entitlement questioned, but defended by OP’s reply

Are single room apartments rented just for partying?

Entitled freshman called out for likely relying on parents’ money

Sharing a room with a stranger in college is odd . Freshman clashes with RA and roommate. ESH.

Roommate troubles? NTA, your absence might make her happier

Entitled freshman accused of using parents’ money for housing expenses.

RA defends freshman’s right to live off-campus, NTA

When your RA hates your room

Demanding a room change after dealing with a terrible roommate. #NTA

Sarcastic comment receives no response from fellow readers.

Freshman stands up to RA, deemed NTA but called snob

Is it worth paying for an off-campus apartment while in college?

RA enforces strange rule, roommate is AH, commenter says NTA.

Entitled freshman called out for off-campus apartment plans

Confused about the conflict? This comment sums it up.

Commenter jokes about the student’s luxurious living situation

Don’t take it personally, YTA. Your RA is just doing her job

Don’t hate the rich, celebrate and get inspired
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Not everyone can handle the cringe
