We all know that one person who turns into a big baby when they’re sick, right? Well, one woman had enough of her fiancé’s over-the-top behavior when he’s under the weather. With two toddlers to take care of and a house to maintain, she decided to teach him a lesson he wouldn’t forget. ️
Meet the Best Fiancé… When He’s Well

But When He’s Sick…

Supermom to the Rescue!

The ‘Pathetic Baby’ Emerges

A Cold or a Crisis?

Just a Cold, Dude

Cut Up His Dinner? Seriously? ️ ♀️

Serving a Lesson ️

Annoyed Fiancé

Treating Him Like a Baby

A Fair Point?

Negative Coronavirus Result

The Cycle Continues

Enough Babying the ‘Baby’!
Our frustrated heroine served her fiancé’s dinner in a child’s bowl with plastic cutlery to teach him a lesson about acting like a baby when he’s sick. ️ Was she too harsh or just the right amount of petty? While she’s more than happy to meet his needs, she can’t mother him or pander to his every whim. Let’s see what people think of this situation…
Women do everything when sick, men act like babies. NTA.

Partner wants to be babied when sick, NTA for refusing

Girlfriend serves ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé a lesson for man-cold

Man admits to being a whiner when sick, but takes care of himself. Respects wife’s boundaries.

NTA. Commenter finds fiancé’s behavior ridiculous and loves girlfriend’s lesson.

Don’t use being sick as an excuse not to parent

Girlfriend serves a lesson to her ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé. NTA.

Girlfriend serves ‘pathetic baby’ fiance a lesson ️

Empathetic comment about ex’s behavior and period joke.

Partner demands extra effort while sick, gets served a lesson. NTA.
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NTA commenter finds humor in girlfriend’s sick fiancé revenge prank.

Girlfriend hilariously puts ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé in his place

Mom teaches lesson to sick child with scissors

Girlfriend serves a lesson to her ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé ️

Petty or a**hole? Discussion on fine line gets heated

NTA commenter approves of girlfriend’s response to ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé.

Being sick doesn’t mean your partner is your servant

Redditor enjoys malicious compliance and baby cutlery in story

Being sick doesn’t excuse being a ‘pathetic baby’ . NTA for setting boundaries.
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Girlfriend serves a lesson to her ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé

Embrace your inner baby ️ and enjoy the meal!

Girlfriend stands up for herself and calls out fiancé’s behavior

User agrees with OP and suggests husband call his mom ♀️

Setting boundaries and communication is key in relationships

NTA serves a lesson to her ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé

Pandemic silver lining: no colds or flu for a year! NTA.

Women can handle colds and still function, why can’t men? ♀️

Concerned commenter questions fiancé’s COVID-19 precautions

Sassy comment shuts down sick fiancé, lawyer needed for will

Partner appreciation and comparison, NTA wins at adulting

Girlfriend serves ‘baby’ fiancé a lesson with a baby bowl

NTA comment suggests sick fiancé needs to toughen up
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Suggests medical workup for frequent sickness. NTA verdict.

Men are wimps when sick, commenter supports girlfriend’s action

Girlfriend serves tough love to sick fiancé, NTA comment agrees.

Sick partner turns into a ‘pathetic baby’, girlfriend serves lesson

Serving a ‘child’s plate’ to a sick partner is awesome

Empathy only goes so far, cutting up food is too much

Empathetic comment about migraines and understanding partner’s suffering.

Defensive reply to criticism with a hint of sarcasm

Feeding a sick fiancé like a baby? NTA wins!

Gendered expectations around sickness and caregiving discussed

NTA. Serving a lesson to a ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé

Girlfriend stands up for herself and teaches fiancé a lesson

NTA suggests recording conversation with ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé for future reference.

Don’t be a ‘pathetic baby’ when sick
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Girlfriend teaches a lesson to her ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé.

No special treatment for sick adults

User calls out fiancé’s behavior and suggests calling his mother.

Gender doesn’t matter, some people like to be pampered. ♀️

The dangers of being a needy sick partner

Concerned commenter advises seeing a doctor for frequent sickness. NTA.

Girlfriend stands up to ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé, NTA
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NTA. Funny story, but commenter advises boosting immune system

Lazy fiancé can text but not google his symptoms

Not all men are the same . A heartwarming example

Girlfriend serves a lesson to her ‘pathetic baby’ fiancé ️

NTA commenter suggests calling his mommy, but advises the sick fiancé to take care of himself.

Women don’t understand why men turn into babies when sick

Independent and hilarious NTA comment on a man-baby fiancé

Daughter shares her experience with a similar situation, advises setting boundaries.

Partner’s drama mama behavior when sick, NTA for serving lesson

Men’s reaction to being sick vs injured is hilarious

Deserving lesson for a ‘pathetic baby’ with man flu

Empathetic reply to girlfriend’s lesson on ‘man-cold’ behavior.

Harsh comment, but concern for partner’s health and behavior.

Gender roles and sickness discussed. NTA for not coddling.

Girlfriend serves her sick fiancé a lesson. NTA.

Girlfriend teaches sick fiancé a lesson by treating him like a child

ESH: Both need to grow up for a healthy relationship
