A woman shares her story of how her fiancé’s recent health scare led him to adopt a vegan lifestyle, which he now tries to force upon her and their children. While the family initially supported his decision, his constant lectures and accusations have made them uncomfortable and created tension in their household.
Health Scare Leads to Veganism
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Family Supports His Change
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Pushing His Lifestyle on Others
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Constant Lectures
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Uncomfortable Family Meals ️
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Paranoia Sets In
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Accusations Fly ️
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Enough is Enough
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He Calls Her Selfish
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Standing Her Ground
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Sleeping on the Couch ️
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Vegan Fiancé Causes Family Tension
After a health scare, a woman’s fiancé adopts a vegan lifestyle and tries to force it on his family. Despite their initial support, his constant lectures and accusations create an uncomfortable atmosphere at home. When she finally stands up to him and tells him to cook his own meals, he accuses her of being selfish and unsupportive. Now, he sleeps on the couch and refuses to talk to her. How do people react to this situation?
Concerns raised about husband’s mental health and B12 deficiency.

Concerns raised about fiancé’s mental and physical health due to veganism

Fiancé’s vegan obsession may harm family’s health, needs therapy. NTA.

Cooking separate meals for a vegan fiancé who berates you? NTA

Fiancé’s extreme veganism raises concerns about his health condition

Suggesting a blood test for vegan fiancé’s mood swings

Family member’s vegan obsession may be a sign of mental health issues. Get professional help ASAP to prevent impact on children. NTA

Fiancé’s extreme veganism due to pre-diabetes causing relationship strain. NTA.

NTA, but seek professional help for this complex situation

Encourage therapy and nutritionist for vegan fiancé. NTA.

Supportive response to vegan fiancé with a hint of concern

Concerns raised about potential eating disorder and OCD behavior

Encouraging therapy for disordered eating and its impact on family.

Family member stands up to pushy vegan fiancé

Mental health worker sees red flags in obsessive vegan behavior

NTA’s fiancé goes vegan and tries to force it on family

Encourage a doctor’s visit for paranoid vegan fiancé

Insightful comment on the possible physical causes of personality changes.

Hilarious comment about veganism causing brain mush

Veganism causing insanity? Commenter shares B12 deficiency experience.
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Vegan fiancé’s extreme behavior raises red flags for family. NTA.

Is a vegan diet causing paranoia and obsessive behavior?

Partner’s veganism causing concern for mental health and accusations.

Dealing with a vegan fiancé trying to force lifestyle choices.

Setting boundaries with a vegan fiancé. Mental health concerns addressed.

Fiancé goes vegan for diabetes, but takes it too far. NTA.

Partner goes vegan and accuses family of contamination, NTA.

Break up with a vegan fiancé? NTA says yes

Balanced diet with low GI foods is better for prediabetes.

Concerned commenter suggests addressing fiance’s rising paranoia with doctor

When your fiancé goes vegan and becomes a pushy activist

Managing diabetes requires moderation, drastic diet changes can be harmful. NTA.

Respectful vegan explains why forcing lifestyle on others is wrong

Don’t let your fiance’s veganism ruin your peace

Former vegan shares health struggles, advises against forcing lifestyle on family. NTA

NTA commenter calls out husband’s lack of exercise with humor.

Fiancé’s veganism causing family tension. Commenter warns of extremism.

Family won’t go vegan, so fiancé cooks solo. NTA.

Vegan fiancé’s negativity towards family’s diet causing concern and danger

Vegan fiancé food shames family, NTA suggests he has disorder

Red flags in relationship due to fiancé’s unstable behavior

Concerns raised about fiancé’s vegan diet and mental health

Family stages intervention for vegan fiancé’s behavior

Plant-based doesn’t always mean healthy. NTA for being concerned.

Fiancé’s veganism causes concern, commenter suggests seeking help or leaving

Commenter suggests seeking psychiatric help for vegan fiancé’s paranoia.

Commenter suggests fiancé may have orthorexia, recommends evaluation

Concerned about kids’ well-being with veganism, NTA comment.
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Fiancé goes vegan and tries to force lifestyle on family

Don’t let a militant vegan control your home

Vegetarian commenter calls out selfish fiancé for attacking family’s diet

Vegan fiancé’s paranoia and suspicion warrants mental health intervention.

Protecting your children’s health from a vegan fanatic. NTA

Commenter suggests therapy for pushy vegan fiancé. Not the a**hole.

Dealing with a vegan fiancé’s extreme behavior long-term?

Exploring the mystery of men and the silent treatment

Communication is key! ️ Leave a note for discussion.

Concerned comment suggests medical attention for vegan fiancé.

Fiancé’s veganism causing family tension, commenter suggests therapy.

Fiancé’s veganism causing family conflict, commenter suggests therapy.

Covid affecting taste or something else? NTA comment and concern.

Supportive comment calls out gaslighting and alarming behavior

NTA for not cooking two sets of meals. Veganism helping fiancé’s condition?

Choosing a vegan lifestyle won’t prevent diabetes

Concerned commenter suggests medical check for pre-diabetic fiancé.

Suggesting supplements, therapy, and a nutritionist for vegan fiancé. NTA.
