Fiancé Accused of Extortion Over Social Security Number

Imagine being accused of extortion by your fiancé just for trying to set up a life insurance policy! That’s exactly what happened to one woman, who only wanted to make sure her loved ones were taken care of in case of her untimely demise. But when she asked her fiancé for his social security number, things took a dramatic turn.

Free Life Insurance Policy

Dad’s On Board, Fiancé Not So Much ‍♀️

Fiancé Gets Defensive

Valid Question, Valid Answer ️

No SSN, No Insurance

Information is Power?

Marriage and SSN Sharing

In the System?

Accusations of Extortion

Mental Health Considerations

Low Blow?

SSN Standoff Leaves Fiancée Stunned ️

What started as a simple request for her fiancé’s social security number to set up a life insurance policy turned into a heated argument, with accusations of extortion and blackmail flying. ️ Despite pointing out the many reasons she would need his SSN as they prepared for marriage, her fiancé remained stubborn and stormed off to his brother’s house. With mental health issues at play, was this just a misunderstanding, or a sign of deeper issues? ‍♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation…

Man doesn’t want SSN “in the system” but already has one ‍♂️

Fiancé refuses to share SSN, leaving partner suspicious

Commenter suggests OP’s fiancé is hiding something.

Don’t legally tie yourself to someone unwilling to share basic info

Think twice before marrying this guy

Potential red flags in fiancé’s behavior. Dig deeper before marrying.

NTA for wanting fiancé’s SSN as beneficiary. Concerning apology to bf.

Fiancé accused of extortion, but commenter says NTA for calling it off. Replies include a story of someone avoiding taxes.

Fiancé accused of extortion, but is he hiding more?

Couple’s counseling may be needed before marriage.

Red flags raised over fiancé’s extreme reaction to SSN request

Fiancé accused of extortion over SSN. Commenters discuss trust issues.

Don’t marry someone who doesn’t trust you

NTA needs fiancé’s SSN for insurance and valid reasons. Fiancé’s paranoia is a red flag

Protecting your credit is always a priority

Fiancé’s military background raises suspicion, but no red flags yet

Fiancé accused of extortion, but is he a victim too?

Commenter celebrates karma for accused extortionist

Fiancé accused of extortion, commenters advise to reconsider marriage

Prioritize your safety and consider the future of your relationship ❤️

Protect your identity, not your fiancé.

Partner’s refusal to share SSN raises red flags

Fiancé’s defensive behavior raises red flags

Commenter calls out someone as an idiot.

Protect yourself and your assets. NTA.

Run away from him! Not the a**hole.

Secure your dad’s future as the sole beneficiary. NTA.

Partner’s conspiracy theories may impact relationship and mental health

Keep your finances separate and reconsider marrying him.

Is the fiancé a ‘Sovereign Citizen’? Commenters speculate

Don’t marry someone who doesn’t trust you and has mental health issues

Red flag alert! Think twice before marrying this person.

Commenter suggests possible manic episode in NTA situation

Grandpa thought he was off the grid, but VA knew

Protect yourself! Check their credit report before marriage!

Secure your love, not your SSN. NTA wins!

Commenter questions fiancé’s motives and mental health

Commenter suggests mental health issues, supports NTA verdict

Trust issues arise in comment section over social security extortion

Threat or explanation? Real-life consequences for not sharing SSN. NTA

Fiancé’s paranoia over sharing SSN raises red flags. NTA.

Trust in marriage extends to sharing SSN, or not?

Protecting personal information is important, NTA suggests looking into fiancé’s concerns

NTA now, but stay current to avoid being AH later

Protect your assets with a Living Trust, not your fiancé

Trust issues arise over simple request for personal information

Don’t marry someone secretive and paranoid

Trust is key in a relationship

Red flags in a partner’s behavior. NTA for leaving.

Red flags in a relationship. Think twice before marrying.

Navigating family dynamics and privacy concerns in financial planning

Fiancé refuses to share SSN for health benefits, NTA for asking.

Curious non-American seeks info on SSN and gets answer.

NTA, but don’t rush into marriage without counseling ‍ ‍

Don’t marry him! NTA and good call on avoiding extortion

Commenter advises caution in marrying unstable partner over SSN.

Partner’s fear of sharing personal information raises red flags

Questioning the questionable choice of a conspiracy theorist spouse

Don’t let his irrationality ruin your future

Is it wise to marry someone with trust and mental issues?

Discharged from military, but no benefits due to sleepwalking.

NTA! What’s his problem?

Questioning the engagement?

Military service adds weight to NTA judgment

Fiancé accused of extortion, commenter supports OP. NTA

Sharing social security number with partner: NTA or risky?

Fiancé accused of extortion, commenter says he sounds dumb. NTA.

Partner’s lack of trust raises red flags. NTA.

Red flag alert! NTA suggests breaking up or running a background check