Father divides chores between daughters, but is he being unfair?

A father’s attempt to split household chores equally between his two daughters has caused a rift in his family. While his older daughter, Sadie, was not contributing to the household, her younger sister, Hannah, was doing her part despite having school, homework, and therapy appointments. When the father attempted to establish equality by giving Hannah the same list of chores as Sadie, tensions rose, and the family split into two teams. The father’s insistence on equality has caused a rift in the family, and his wife is unhappy with his approach. Read on to find out if the father was justified in his actions or if he was the a**hole in this situation.

Is the 23-year-old daughter being unfair or ungrateful?

Father struggles to get daughter to help with chores

Dividing chores equally between siblings – fair or not?

One daughter’s complaint about unequal workload causes family friction ⚖️

Father’s pursuit of equality causes tension over household chores.

Father and wife disagree on favoritism in chore division ‍ ‍

House divided! Tension rises as father divides chores unequally.

Struggling to split chores fairly, wife refuses to compromise. AITA?

‍ ‍ Father’s quest for equality divides family ‍ ‍

A father’s attempt to establish equality between his daughters has caused a rift in the family. After assigning his older daughter, who is not currently working, a list of chores, the younger daughter was also given a list of equal length. However, the younger daughter argues that she has school, piano lessons, homework, and therapy appointments, while the older daughter has more free time. The father argues that it’s all about equality, while the stepmother argues that the daughters have different routines and responsibilities. The argument escalated, and tensions in the house rose to the point where the family is now split into two teams. The father is asking for opinions on whether he’s being an a**hole for trying to establish equality, while the stepmother is accusing him of enabling the older daughter’s irresponsible behavior. Read on to see what people have to say about this family’s conflict.

OP needs to aim for equity, not equality. Sadie is an adult and should contribute to the household. Hannah has school, piano lessons, and therapy, so assigning the same responsibilities as Sadie wouldn’t be fair. YTA.

Commenter calls out unfair parenting, suggests job hunting for both daughters

Hannah works harder than Sadie. YTA for not being fair

Father accused of unfairness in chore distribution by commenters.

Daughter in school full-time and piano lessons, adult daughter lazy. YTA.

Father unfairly expects equal chores from student and working daughter. YTA

Importance of equity in household chores explained with helpful graphic

Fair division of chores? One commenter says YTA for neglecting daughter’s priorities.

Adult daughter living at home should pay rent and contribute equally.

Father accused of being unfair in dividing chores between daughters.

Sadie seems entitled already

Commenter and replies agree: YTA for not adjusting chores fairly

Daughters’ chore distribution sparks disagreement, accusations of favoritism ‍ ‍

Debate over fair division of household chores between sisters.

Unemployed 23-year-old daughter needs to step up her chores game

Stepdaughter stands up to unfair treatment from lazy stepsister.

YTA unfairly prioritizes one daughter’s workload over the other’s.

Father unfairly divided chores between daughters, but commenter thinks YTA.

Lazy adult daughter vs. busy teenage daughter, who’s YTA here?

Commenter accuses father of unfairness in dividing chores.

23yo daughter living rent-free should take most household chores, YTA

Unfair division of chores, YTA with a capital Y.

One daughter works hard while the other is coddled

Father unfairly burdening daughter with less free time. YTA.

Unfair chore distribution: YTA expected too much from 15yo daughter

Father unfairly drowning daughter in chores. YTA.

Father unfairly assigns chores, shows favoritism towards daughter. YTA.

Father unfairly gives daughter with no responsibilities equal chores, YTA

Parenting gone wrong? One commenter thinks so

Commenter calls out lazy adult child, defends hard-working minor.

Curious about the backstory of Sadie and Hannah’s chores

Commenter calls out father’s hypocrisy in distributing chores

Gender equality in chores causes conflict. YTA dad.

Father accused of unfairness in chore distribution by commenter.

Father unfairly gives daughter more chores, YTA according to comment.

Father shows favoritism towards biological daughter, YTA.

Fairness questioned in father’s chore distribution, YTA verdict given

Father unfairly divides chores between daughters, commenters side with wife ‍ ‍

Fair division of chores? Commenter suggests smaller tasks for Hannah.

Commenter calls out unfairness in chore division, using YTA acronym.

Fair split of chores based on free time. YTA called out.

Commenter argues against unfair division of chores. YTA verdict.

Daughter calls out father for playing favorites with chores. YTA

Commenter calls out unfairness in chore distribution.

Father accused of favoring adult daughter over younger daughter’s responsibilities

Commenter accuses father of favoring entitled daughter, sparking debate

Equal chores for all siblings, YTA for playing favorites. ‍♂️

Commenter calls out favoritism towards older daughter. Yikes

Daughter’s not working, but YTA still dividing chores unfairly

Allocating equal chores to both daughters isn’t fair. YTA

User suggests a 75/25 chore split and paying for chores.

Daughters’ unequal workload sparks debate. #Unfair #YTA

Father accused of favoritism and irresponsibility in chores distribution.

Dividing chores equally is the way to go

Stepdaughter is a student, not a full-time maid. ‍

Daughter accuses father of unfairness in chore division, sparks argument.

Balancing chores and extracurriculars for fair distribution ✌️