Aunt has a close relationship with her niece, but things get complicated when her brother and sister-in-law ask her to lie to cover up their decision to cancel the niece’s ski trip. The niece is already upset with her mother, and the aunt doesn’t want to make things worse. However, she also doesn’t feel right lying to the niece. Read on to find out what she decides and whether she’s the a**hole.
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Christmas brings families together, but it’s not always smooth sailing. In this post, a woman is unsure if she should lie to her niece about a cancelled ski trip. Her brother and sister-in-law want her to lie, but she doesn’t feel comfortable doing so. This situation is complicated by tension between her sister-in-law and her niece, who is acting out in her attempts to establish her own identity. The situation is further complicated by the family’s financial situation and Ashley’s need for emotional space. Will the aunt lie to her niece, or will the family be forced to confront the truth? Keep reading to find out.
NTA and refusing to lie to her niece is the right move. Amy’s attempt to guilt OP is an AH move.

NTA, but can cancelling a ski trip really build a bond?

Honesty is the best policy. Niece needs therapy, not lies.

Honesty is the best policy: NTA for not lying.

Be the cool aunt and teach Ashley a lesson. ♀️

ASHLEY’S BEHAVIOR: Aunt criticized for not punishing her niece.

Honesty is the best policy

Is it wrong to play the ‘exotic’ aunt? ESH.

No ski trip for niece: NTA or ESH?

Being honest is important for building trust with children

Building a stronger bond with her daughter might be the real issue

Honesty is the best policy #NotTheA-hole

Canceled ski trip causes family drama and double punishment for niece.

Honesty is the best policy Niece’s parents should take responsibility

Hold your ground, but offer a compromise for future peace

NTA. Ashley needs independence from her mom. ️

Niece disrespects her mother and needs to be put in check

Honesty is the best policy . Don’t take the bullet for them

NTA OP, but why does Ashley despise Amy?

Helping your niece understand parental love is important

Don’t be the cool aunt, honesty is the best policy

Don’t let someone else ruin your relationship with your niece ❄️

Solve the bigger problem, help Ashley and her mom

Don’t take the blame. NTA for telling the truth.

Teaching honesty: NTA suggests that parents should set good examples

Don’t be a**hole: Niece’s parents should stop lying to her

Honesty is the best policy NTA wins this one

Influencing entitled behavior: Consequences for Ashley’s actions

Encourage niece to call mom and make amends. Stand firm.

Encouraging support from commenter to help family dynamics.

Honesty is the best policy Niece should learn consequences.
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Send love from afar with gift cards and thoughtful presents ❤️

Unfair to speculate, but Ashley’s dislike is still a mystery

Don’t lie to your niece, build a relationship with her

NTA for not lying about the cancelled ski trip, but parents should not use OP as a scapegoat. Punishing Ashley further won’t improve the relationship with her mother.

Being honest is tough, but lying isn’t the solution

The commenter provides INFO on Ashley’s apology and behavior afterwards

A united front is key in avoiding family drama

Holding back the truth? NTA stands their ground!

Aunt refuses to lie for niece’s mom, calls for parenting responsibility

Experience matters, but overriding a mother’s efforts is manipulative

Don’t lie to protect others, honesty is the best policy

Last Updated on April 18, 2023 by Diply Social Team