Buckle up, folks, because this story is a wild ride! Meet our protagonist, a 23-year-old who was adopted at birth by loving parents. Everything was peachy keen until the parents decided they wanted a biological baby in their late 30s. Cue the hurt feelings and awkward conversations. Fast forward to now, and the parents are struggling to conceive, even with fertility treatments. But wait, there’s more! They invite our hero over for dinner, only to drop a bombshell request…
Adopted at Birth, Everything Was Fine… Until It Wasn’t

Parents in Their Late 30s Decide They Want a Biological Baby

Feeling Hurt by Parents’ Desire for a Biological Child

⏰ Fast Forward to 23, Parents Barely Keep in Touch

Mother Now 46, Struggling to Conceive Even with Fertility Treatments

️ Parents Invite Me Over for Dinner, I’m Thrilled!

Surprise! They Want Me to Be Their Surrogate

Leaving in Tears, Feeling Used and Betrayed

Grandfather Passes Away, Grandma Learns the Truth

Grandma Offers Me the Money from Grandfather’s Insurance

♀️ I Refuse, Parents Call Me Greedy and an A**hole

Family Members Say I’m Being Too Hard

❓ Am I Really the A**hole Here?

Parents Say It’s Been “Their Dream for Years”

Adopted Child Asked to Be Surrogate, Family Drama Ensues!
Our protagonist was blindsided by their parents’ request to be their surrogate, all while dangling student loan payoffs as bait. Talk about feeling used! But when Grandma stepped in with an offer to help pay off the loans using Grandpa’s insurance money, the parents suddenly changed their tune. Now they’re begging for a piece of the pie and calling their child greedy and an a**hole for refusing! The audacity! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild situation.
Empathetic reply to unreasonable demand from adoptive parents.
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Daughter rightfully refuses to be used as an incubator

NTA. Keep your head high and your grandma closer

Adopted daughter refuses outrageous demand, gets support from commenter. ❤️

NTA. Parents crossed boundaries by asking for surrogacy & using loans as incentive. You are enough, your money is yours.

Family demands are outrageous, NTA, time to go LC.

Choosing not to be a surrogate doesn’t make you a**hole

Adopted commenter empathizes with family betrayal, says NTA.

Adopted daughter stands up to entitled parents. NTA wins!

NTA. Refusing to finance parents’ biological child is completely justified

Adopted daughter not the a-hole for refusing parents’ outrageous demand

NTA, adopted daughter refuses outrageous demand, parents need therapy

Parents ask adopted daughter to carry their embryo. NTA.

NTA, having kids when older is risky and unfair tradeoff

Grandma chose you over your entitled ‘parents’.

Supportive comment with grandma backup.

Adopted daughter stands her ground against outrageous parental demand

Curious commenter questions adoption details and surrogacy laws.

Supportive comment. Encourages OP to protect themselves.

NTA. Infertility is emotional but neglecting and estranging you is wrong. Keep the money.

NTA. Surrogacy is a physically and emotionally demanding journey.

You’re not the a**hole for refusing your entitled adoptive parents

NTA, parents want to pay off loans AND get money? Sh*tty move. Run!
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Adopted daughter right to feel betrayed by parents’ outrageous demand ☝️
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Mother at 46 should hope for grandkids, not another child

Surrogacy discrimination is unacceptable. Stay away from toxic parents.

Is it normal to ask your child to birth their own sibling?

Adopted daughter refuses entitled parents’ outrageous demand

NTA. Adopted daughter rejects parents’ outrageous demand for another chance.

NTA stands up to adoptive parents’ unreasonable demand for surrogate.
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Infertility ignorance: NTA explains surrogacy myth to IVF parents

Grandma’s got your back, NTA

Stand your ground! NTA for denying their outrageous request

Adopted child asked to carry ‘real’ child? NTA says it all

NTA! Adopted daughter refuses parents’ outrageous demand for money.
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Adopted daughter refuses parents’ outrageous demand and speaks her mind.

Parents demand surrogate from adopted daughter, NTA for refusing.

Empathetic commenter shows support for adopted daughter against entitled parents.

Adoptive daughter defends adoption and criticizes parents’ age and obsession.

Grandma’s decision. Asking to carry embryo: horrible. Don’t feel guilty.

Heartwarming support for adopted daughter facing betrayal ❤️
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Adoptive parents’ outrageous demand rejected. NTA stands her ground.

Adopted daughter refuses outrageous demand to carry her own sibling

NTA. Saving an innocent child from selfish, unhinged parents

NTA. Parents’ outrageous demand crosses a line, grandma’s on your side

NTA. Don’t throw money down a rat-hole. They’re the assholes.

NTA. Putting pressure on the child for caretaking is wrong.

NTA. They are being MAJOR assholes here. Poor life planning.

NTA. Heartbreaking situation caused by parents’ outrageous demand.

Heartbroken OP receives support after family betrayal ❤️

Adoptive parents selfishly try to bribe daughter into surrogacy. NTA

Condolences offered, NTA verdict, go NC with toxic parents

Protect yourself financially, don’t count on inheritance or help

NTA recommends strangers for surrogacy; how will they pay?

NTA. Surrogate agencies prefer non-related, experienced surrogates. Good luck

NTA stands up to entitled parents demanding surrogacy.

Cutting ties with biological family who disrespect what they have

Encouraging words, stay strong

Heartbreaking treatment from parents, NTA for refusing their demand ❤

Adopted parents try to use inheritance to force surrogate pregnancy. NTA.

NTA raises valid concern about parents’ future plans for child

Polite suggestion to handle a pushy family without being dishonest

Adoptive parents make outrageous demand, commenter supports NTA response.

US surrogacy laws unfair, commenter NTA for refusing demand

Surrogacy rules make NTA’s case even stronger

Adopted daughter deserves better. Heartwarming support from fellow adoptee ❤️

NTA! Parents want daughter to be sibling’s surrogate. Ew. ♀️

Adopted daughter refuses parents’ outrageous demand and is supported.

Adopted daughter receives support after inappropriate demand from parents.

Supportive comment, encouraging love for grandma ❤️

NTA. Parents shouldn’t pressure their child for elective surgery

Cut them off. You owe them nothing.

Adopted daughter stands up to cruel parents, NTA

Supportive comment. Family needs to accept adopted daughter as their own

Adopted daughter refuses outrageous demand: NTA, parents tossed her aside.

Adoption advocate calls out obsession with genetic children.

Heartbreaking comment sympathizing with adopted daughter’s plight.

NTA: Adopted daughter rightfully cuts off bad, irresponsible parents.

NTA. Demanding you be an incubator for their child is horrendous

Parents can’t afford IVF, demand adopted daughter give up life. NTA.

NTA. Adopted daughter not obligated to fulfill parents’ demands.

NTA: Adopted daughter refuses outrageous demand to create another child
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NTA, your parents are monsters using you for money

NTA. Refusing to be a surrogate for parents is understandable
