A father working long hours to provide for his family finds himself in a heated debate with his wife. She’s a stay-at-home mom taking care of their 10-month-old son, and she’s asking him to help with the baby before he goes to sleep. He thinks he’s doing enough by providing financially, but is that really enough? Read on to find out what happened and how the situation unfolded.
The Work-Life Balance Struggle

Long Hours and Little Sleep

Bedtime Routine Disrupted

Wife’s Request for Help

Frustration Builds Up

The Argument

Original Agreement

Mom’s Reaction

Seeking Outside Perspective

Realizing His Mistake

Wife’s Reaction to the Post

Making Changes

A Wake-Up Call

A Lesson in Fatherhood and Responsibility
This father works long hours to provide for his family but finds himself in a heated debate with his wife when she asks him to help with their baby before he goes to sleep. He believes he’s doing enough by providing financially, but after seeking outside perspective, he realizes his mistake and vows to make changes. Will this be a wake-up call for him to balance his responsibilities as a father and a provider? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Working 68 hours a week and providing a paycheck isn’t enough. YTA.

Engage with your child, not just the house stuff.

Equal parenting is important for both partners.

Father refuses to help with child, sparks heated debate.
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Working 68 hours a week but can’t help with baby? YTA

Exhausted dad called out for not helping with baby duties.

Father prioritizes work over bonding with son. Commenters call YTA.

Engage with your son and help your wife. YTA.

Commenter calls out exhausted dad, sparks debate on household labor.

Engaging with family is more than just paying the bills ❤️

Parenting requires teamwork and communication, YTA for not understanding.

Parenting is a team effort ️, paying doesn’t excuse you

Sleepless dad called out for expecting SAHM to be his servant

Commenter calls out father for doing only the bare minimum

Exhausted dad faces backlash for not helping wife with baby

Engage with your wife and son, don’t be a lazy a**hole

Father called out for not helping with baby, sparks debate

Redemption arc! A comment on growth and change

Parenting is a balancing act between work and family

Father criticized for not helping with baby despite wife’s workload.

Avoiding family time makes YTA, prioritize bonding with child

Redditors call out commenter for being a breakfast a**hole

Commenter calls out dad for poor attitude towards parenting and spouse.

Commenter calls out exhausted dad for not helping with baby

Parenting is not a sponsorship. Be there for your child!

YTA for expecting your wife to work 24/7. Spend time with your family and consider therapy to resolve your anger towards your wife.

Parenting is a team sport . A SAHP arrangement needs balance.

Dad gets called out for not helping with baby duties.

Father neglects relationship with son, sparks heated debate. YTA.
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Divorced mom shares her experience, wife monitors comments, sparks change

Engage in parenting together for a healthy relationship

A father’s reluctance to bond with his child sparks debate. YTA.

Commenter calls out absent father, sparks heated debate

Father criticized for not acknowledging wife’s contributions to household and parenting.

Engage in parenting and bonding with your child. YTA.

Father criticized for neglecting child despite financial stability

Parenting is a team effort . Set up a schedule and help out

YTA for neglecting your child and expecting your wife to do everything.

Commenter criticizes exhausted dad’s parenting and marriage choices.

Heartbreaking truth about the struggles of working-class families

Step up and be a dad. Don’t just provide financially. YTA

Father criticized for not bonding with his child.

Commenter shares personal experience, warns against prioritizing work over family.
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NTA but frustration doesn’t excuse being an a**hole ♂️

Commenter calls out a dad for neglecting his parental duties.

Commenter suggests taking over baby care for wife’s emotional welfare

Dad laughed at wife’s request for help with baby, is he TA?

Commenter calls out dad for neglecting emotional support for son.

Dad called out for not sharing childcare responsibilities

Father called out for not helping with baby duties.

Overworked dad called out for neglecting family, sparks debate ⚡

Commenter criticizes dad for not helping with baby, sparks debate

Overworked mom deserves a break too. YTA

Commenter calls out absent father, sparks debate on parenting roles.

Commenter calls out father for not doing enough to help.

Man up and take care of your baby, YTA

Engaging with family is important. Soft YTA for neglecting wife and child.

Parenting and home duties should be shared. NAH
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Working from home doesn’t mean one parent should do everything. YTA
