We’ve all heard stories of cheating spouses and the heartache they cause, but what happens when the betrayed ex-wife is confronted by the soon-to-be ex-wife of the cheating husband? In this tale of drama and emotional turmoil, our protagonist, a remarried woman, is approached by her ex-husband’s current wife, who’s also been cheated on. As the two women find themselves in the same boat, the current wife seeks solace and support, but the ex-wife is having none of it!
The Cheating Ex-Husband: A Pattern Emerges

Surprise, Surprise! He Does It Again

Current Wife Reaches Out, Seeking Support

Ex-Wife’s Response: Take a Hike! ♀️

No Sleepovers, No Playdates, No Relationship ♀️

Current Wife’s Desperate Plea

The Blame Game: He’s the Cheater, Not Her ♀️

Ex-Wife Stands Firm: Not Her Problem

Sister Chimes In: Think of the Children!

Ex-Wife’s Stance: Father’s Responsibility

Daughters’ Ages and Relationship

Daughter’s Indifference to Half-Sister

Visitation Schedule: Sparse at Best

New Relationship May Decrease Visits

Encouraging Attendance at Half-Sister’s Parties

Ex-Wife Stands Her Ground: No Sympathy for Cheater’s Soon-to-Be Ex
In a whirlwind of emotions, our protagonist remains firm in her decision to not maintain a relationship with her ex-husband’s soon-to-be ex-wife. Despite the tears and pleas, she insists that it’s the father’s responsibility to ensure his children bond and have a relationship. While her sister argues that she should consider her daughter’s potential relationship with her half-sibling, our protagonist remains steadfast in her stance. As the drama unfolds, one thing is clear: this ex-wife is not backing down! Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for refusing bond with ex-husband’s cheating partner and setting boundaries
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Putting the kids first , NTA mom sets boundaries

Parenting comes first, but don’t force a bond.

NTA for refusing to bond with ex’s soon-to-be ex. Commenters agree.

NTA. Father should facilitate half-sibling relationship, not ex-wife.

NTA comment suggests offering ex’s ex contact info for a zoom chat

NTA: Ex-wife doesn’t want to bond with cheater’s ex. Drama!

NTA. Facilitate your daughter’s relationship with her half-sister but not with the cheater’s ex. Don’t let your bias hurt the child.

Two step-sisters with different opinions, drama ensues!

Ex-wife refuses bond with cheater’s soon-to-be ex. NTA.

Let her stew in her own misery and find a way to rise from it a better person.
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Agreeing to arrange visitation with their shared dad is spot on.

Karma’s a b*tch! Ex-wife refuses bond with cheater’s ex.

NTA shares hilarious story of cheater’s karma with multiple exes.
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Dumping a cheater is always the right move. NTA
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No obligation to bond with ex’s child. NTA.

Ex-wife rightfully refuses bond with cheater’s ex.

Consider the best interest of your daughter, not your feelings

Preserving sisterly bond despite cheater’s ex? NTA, but try harder.

Daughter indifferent to half-sibling, no bond with ex’s ex.
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Compromise with daughter for limited public outings with new ex.

Sibling relationship up to daughter, not ex-wife’s feelings.

Ex-wife wants to join victim club without admitting fault. NTA!

NTA. ‘Cheater’s Justice for all involved…’

Divorce lawyer explains pros and cons of bonding with ex’s ex

Ex-wife gets a taste of her own medicine

Daughter’s wishes ignored in messy divorce drama. ♀️

Ex-fiance’s new girlfriend asks about s*x life after cheating, NTA.

NTA. No need to bond with cheater’s ex-wives club.

No obligation to bond with ex’s soon-to-be ex. Enjoy life

Ex-wife refuses bond with cheater’s ex, NTA. Not your circus, not your monkeys.

Not the a**hole! Karma’s a b***h ♀️

NTA offers fair visitation, calls out ex’s new partner’s hypocrisy

Put your daughter’s wishes first and keep communication open

Putting your daughter first: NTA for not forcing relationship.
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NTA for not giving up time with your daughter’s sister.

Respect your daughter’s boundaries and decisions. You’re NTA

Choosing to bond with ex’s child after cheating is personal choice

NTA, not your problem.

ESH? OP’s refusal to bond with ex’s new wife causes family drama

Karma strikes! NTA gets support for refusing bond.

Dad’s convenience over kids’ needs?

Ex-wife broke up marriage, NTA for not bonding. Daughter’s choice matters.
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Father should facilitate sibling relationship, not ex-wife. NTA.

Ex-wife lacks shame and self-awareness. No camaraderie owed.

Could a sisterly bond exist between exes’ daughters?

Karma strikes! Commenter celebrates cheater’s ex-wife getting what’s due.

NTA and savage response to cheater’s ex-wife.

Encouraging co-parenting and sibling relationships despite infidelity.

Navigating co-parenting with a cheater’s ex and their child.

Stepmom declines ex-wife’s request to bond with kids, NTA.
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Parent shares personal experience and advises OP to prioritize children.

Commenter relishes in karma, uses Shakespearean language.
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Ex-wife refuses to bond with cheater’s soon-to-be ex. Commenter shares similar experience and says NTA with a middle finger emoji.

Age of daughters and desire for contact discussed.

Divorced mom refuses to bond with cheater’s child. NTA.

Ex-wife defends cheater, gets karma, and wants sympathy. NTA wins.

Divorce attorney advises caution and professional help in sibling relationship.

Having half-siblings doesn’t guarantee a relationship, NTA for not bonding.

NTA calls out cheater defenders in affair drama.

Setting boundaries with ex’s soon-to-be ex and prioritizing kid’s wishes. ♀️

Stepmom accused of not caring about daughter’s relationship with dad.

Don’t let your ex’s infidelity ruin your daughter’s sibling bond. NTA

Co-parenting boundaries respected, future relationship between daughters possible.

Daughter’s choice matters, NTA for not forcing relationship with cheating ex’s child

Last Updated on May 26, 2023 by Diply Social Team