Imagine sharing custody with an ex who constantly uses their mental health as an excuse to neglect their responsibilities as a parent. That’s the reality for one dad, who recently reached his breaking point. Co-parenting with his ex has been a nightmare, and their daughters have been caught in the middle. When his ex failed to pick up their children from school, he couldn’t take it anymore. Let’s dive into this emotionally charged story.
Ex’s Struggles with Anxiety and Depression ️

Selective Struggles?

Co-parenting Nightmare

Daughters’ Struggles

Mom’s Priorities

Left Stranded

No Response from Mom

Dad to the Rescue ♂️

Mom’s Excuse ♂️

Dad Loses It

Custody Battle Looms ⚖️

Mom’s Silence

Family’s Reaction

Ex’s Sister Chimes In

Second Thoughts?

Dad’s Dilemma: Did He Go Too Far? ♂️
After his ex failed to pick up their daughters from school, this dad had enough. He lashed out, accusing her of using her mental health struggles as an excuse to neglect their children. Now, he’s considering taking her to court to contest custody. But with his own mother and ex’s sister condemning his actions, he’s left wondering if he crossed a line. What do you think? Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this emotional rollercoaster.
NTA dad receives support after ex neglects kids due to depression

Depression is not an excuse for neglecting children. NTA.

NTA holds ex accountable for neglecting kids, plans for custody.

Fighting for full custody and child support

NTA. Ex’s neglect is irresponsible. Dad should seek custody.

NTA supports ex’s mental health but kids need a stable environment.

NTA fights for custody of daughters due to ex’s neglect.

Prioritizing mental health is important, but not at kids’ expense.

Putting kids’ safety first is justified. Court and therapy recommended.

NTA fights back against ex’s neglect of kids due to depression

Fight for your children’s wellbeing and happiness.

Dad defends himself against ex’s neglect of kids due to depression

Depression doesn’t excuse neglecting parental responsibility. Custody change necessary.

Commenter with mental health issues says NTA, urges dad to get full custody.

Ex’s neglect puts kids in danger. Dad fights for custody.

Father defends custody, calls out ex’s possible deceitfulness. NTA

Father prioritizes children’s safety, fights for custody amidst ex’s neglect.

Ex’s mental health treatment and support system questioned

Putting kids in danger? NTA dad fights back for safety!

Dad fights back against ex’s neglectful behavior due to depression
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Moms with depression share how they still prioritize their kids

Basic care for your children is not optional. NTA

Harsh but deserved truth for neglectful ex.

Depression is not an excuse for neglecting kids. Seek help

Prioritizing kids over mental health is tough but necessary.

Commenter advises seeking custody due to severe neglect. NTA.

Putting kids first. Ex’s depression doesn’t excuse neglect. NTA

NTA fights for kids’ well-being amidst ex’s mental health struggles

Prioritizing kids is crucial, neglect is unacceptable.

NTA for taking care of your kids, but soft YTA for name-calling.

Dad fights for custody as ex blames depression for neglecting kids

Child of depressed parent thanks dad for standing up, NTA

Depression is not an excuse for neglecting kids. NTA

Putting kids first is non-negotiable, but kindness helps too

Anxiety and neglecting kids? This commenter is not having it!

Parent with mental health issues defends against neglect accusations.

NTA comment receives no replies. Short and sweet.

Ex neglects kids due to depression, but could have asked for help. NTA
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Ex’s mental health not her fault, but responsibility. Dad fights back!

Dad prioritizes kids’ safety, hopes ex gets help for depression

NTA fights back against ex’s neglect of kids due to depression

Mental health is a reason, not an excuse. NTA

Commenter suggests dad get custody due to ex’s neglect.

Dad fights back for custody after ex neglects kids.

Ex uses depression as excuse for neglecting kids, dad fights back

Document everything and get a psychiatric evaluation. NTA

NTA seeks full custody after ex neglects kids. Family drama ensues.

NTA. School staff are mandatory reporters and are required to call CPS.

Neglectful mother with anxiety and migraines blamed for child neglect

Depression doesn’t excuse neglecting kids. NTA, file for custody change.

Depression not an excuse for neglecting kids. Fight for custody!

Depression is not an excuse for neglecting your own children.

Ex-wife neglects kids, wants full custody but plays victim. NTA

Commenter emphasizes responsibility in parenting amidst mental health struggles.

Dad gets support for not being the a**hole.

Commenter shares personal experience with neglect due to depression.

Choosing not to have kids due to depression. NTA.

Depression is not an excuse for neglecting kids!

Mom’s neglectful behavior makes her the a**hole.

Child forced to take care of themselves due to parent’s neglect

Commenter shares personal experience with depression and advises taking legal action.

Dad gets support for calling out ex’s parenting abilities.

Mental illness doesn’t excuse being a jerk. #NTA

Dad’s fight for custody after ex’s neglect sparks concern

Heartbreaking experience of neglect due to parent’s depression.

Parent struggles with ex’s mental illness, gets support from commenter

Dad suggests mental health help after ex neglects kids. NTA

Dad praised for being a good parent despite ex’s neglect.
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