Imagine attending a dinner party where the host deliberately includes an ingredient you’re allergic to, not once, but twice. That’s exactly what happened to one individual, who has an unusual allergy to lychee. Despite informing the host beforehand, the guest found lychee in both the starter and main course. Frustrated and upset, they decided to walk home, leaving their partner stranded at the party.
Personality Clash with Partner’s Friends

️ Dinner Party Invitation

Driving to the Party

Lychee in the Starter

Lychee in the Main Course

♂️ Walking Out and Heading Home

Ignoring Partner’s Calls

Partner Takes a Taxi Home

Expecting Support from Partner

Who’s Right and Wrong?

The Next Day

Confronting the Hosts

Nasty Revenge

Awaiting Apologies

Intention to Make Uncomfortable

Analyzing the Dinner Party Debacle
In a shocking turn of events, a dinner party guest with a rare lychee allergy found themselves served dishes containing the very ingredient they were allergic to. Frustrated, they walked home, leaving their partner behind. The next day, the partner confronted the hosts, discovering it was an act of ‘revenge’ for a previous event. The couple now awaits apologies from the hosts. What do you think of this dinner party drama? Share your thoughts and reactions.
Partner’s friends intentionally endangered OP with allergy, partner didn’t defend. NTA

Partner’s loyalty questioned after ignoring unusual allergy at dinner party

Commenter defends OP’s decision to leave partner stranded.

Intentional allergy ignorance leads to partner being stranded. NTA.

Partner and friends are the a**holes. Hosts intentionally ignored allergy.

Partner’s loyalty questioned after not leaving with OP.

Partner’s friends were AH for ignoring allergy, but boyfriend also sucks.

Guest with ignored allergy served not one but *two* meals.

Partner’s friend endangered their life, NTA for rethinking relationship

Partner’s lack of support at dinner party leads to breakup.

Standing up for yourself and your allergies

Partner’s disregard for allergy and safety is concerning.

Allergy ignored at dinner party, but OP not the a**hole.

Engaging discussion on food allergies and in-laws.

Partner fails to stand up for allergy, NTA handles poorly

Partner ignores unusual allergy, commenter defends leaving hostile environment.

Partner’s lack of support for allergy is a major issue

Communication is key in relationships

Allergic reaction ignored by partner’s friends. NTA.

Partner’s inaction during allergy incident raises red flags

Partner defends hosts after ignoring unusual allergy. NTA leaves calmly.

Standing up for yourself and your health is important. #NTA

Partner stranded at dinner party, commenter not the a**hole.

Did the boyfriend understand the situation?

Friends poisoning partner? NTA, but why risk relationship for friends?

Partner ignores allergy, NTA for leaving, partner should have left too

NTA. Deliberate lychee use, partner stranded after wine. Justified exit.

People tried to feed OP an allergen, they’re TA. Boyfriend not supportive.

Partner gets no sympathy from commenter after dinner party disaster

Dump the AH partner who left you stranded with allergy.
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You were right to leave. NTA.

Lychee-laced dinner party leads to NTA determination and suspicion

NTA, but leaving the car was risky

Red flag alert! A**hole friends? Time to move on.

Partner’s drinking causing problems? NTA suggests setting boundaries.

Choose yourself ♀️ Don’t let him and his friends disrespect you

Partner fails to defend against allergy at dinner party. NTA.

Partner ignored allergy and blamed OP for consequences. NTA

Don’t take allergies lightly

Partner’s friends ignored allergy, NTA for leaving. Dump partner ASAP

Malicious food tampering to test allergies is not acceptable. NTA

Partner’s failure to stand up for allergy is unacceptable

Partner’s disregard for allergy is cruel and vindictive

Allergy sufferers unite! A relatable and informative comment thread

Partner ignores allergy, better off without them. NTA

Partner’s failure to stand up for OP sparks outrage
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Partner’s lack of empathy leads to break-up.

NTA, hope your next partner respects and cares for you ❤️

Stand up to bullies, even if it means losing your partner. NTA

NTA comment suggests guests deserved stomach aches from fiber

Partner fails to support allergy, commenter says NTA

Partner prioritizes toxic family over partner’s life. NTA
