A woman has taken to Reddit’s Am I the A**hole subreddit to ask if she was wrong to question her boyfriend’s Valentine’s Day gift. The woman, who has been with her boyfriend for two years, was left less than impressed with a wooden photo frame he had made for her, instead of the usual jewelry he usually gifts her. When she voiced her disappointment, her boyfriend became upset and the breakfast they were having was ruined. Was she wrong to express her true feelings? Read on to find out what others had to say on the matter.
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Valentine’s Day gift gone wrong
One woman’s honest opinion about her Valentine’s Day gift has caused a rift in her relationship. After receiving a homemade wooden framed photo with her boyfriend and his kids, she expressed disappointment and suggested that he could have also given her a necklace. Her boyfriend was hurt by her reaction and feels that she doesn’t appreciate the effort he and his kids put into the gift. The disagreement has escalated and the couple is now not speaking. Was the woman in the wrong for expressing her opinion or did her boyfriend overreact? Read on to see what others have to say in the comments below.
OP’s dissatisfaction with a $200 necklace sparks controversy. YTA.
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Woman complains about handmade gift, internet calls her ungrateful

Materialism vs sentimentality: A homemade gift vs expensive jewelry

YTA for valuing money over sentimental gifts

Commenter calls out selfish behavior, defends boyfriend’s thoughtful gift
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Expecting high value gifts is not a great way to symbolize love

Commenter calls out OP for being materialistic and petty

Commenters call out OP for being ungrateful and materialistic

When a donut is a better gift than what you gave

Rejected homemade gift sparks accusations of gold digging.

Commenter receives backlash for suggesting the post is fake

Commenter chastises unappreciative girlfriend for Valentine’s gift reaction

Is the value of a gift really what matters?

NAH debate over gift preferences, with accusations of misogyny.

Is a picture frame really an appropriate Valentine’s Day gift?

User calls out OP for being ungrateful towards boyfriend’s gift

Commenter questions assumptions and calls out sexism in replies

Sentimental gifts should be meaningful, but don’t push for opinions ❤️

Woman criticized for calling boyfriend YTA for handmade gift

Gifts should match recipient’s preferences. A photo frame isn’t enough
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Valentine’s Day is about romance, not someone else’s kids. NTA

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Commenter faces harsh criticism for Valentine’s Day gift opinion

Valentine’s Day gift debate sparks YTA vs NTA discussion

Gift shaming? Commenter calls out OP for Valentine’s Day complaint

Reciprocity isn’t gold digging. He picked a fight. NTA

Thoughtful gift should be something the person wants. NTA

Setting boundaries is important. Gratefulness shouldn’t mean accepting anything
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Standing up for honesty: commenter defends NTA stance

Valentine’s Day gift for him and the kids. NTA or NAH?

Valentine’s Day gift gone wrong, ESH and mother’s day mix-up.

Gift giving is about the receiver’s taste, not the giver’s

Commenter called out for prioritizing money over gift sentiment

Valentine’s Day is a personal holiday, keep it romantic themed

Choose love over materialism, YTA.

Disappointed in Valentine’s Day gift from long-term boyfriend
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Materialism over love? Woman deemed YTA for Valentine’s gift reaction

Nostalgic memories of gift-giving as a broke college student
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Valentine’s Day is for couples, not family. NTA!
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