Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a family drama that’ll make your head spin! Meet our leading lady, the black sheep of the family who dared to dream of a life beyond the kitchen. Her crime? Wanting an education! The audacity! Her brothers got the royal treatment while she was left to fend for herself. Now, years later, the parents want to play nice. But our girl isn’t having it! She’s got a proposal that’ll make you say “Damn!” Let’s dive into this juicy tale of family favoritism, gender roles, and the price of forgiveness.
Rigid Gender Roles in My Family

Brothers Got It All, Sister Got Nothing!

College Fully Paid For The Boys

♀️ No College For You, Young Lady!

Secretly Applied & Accepted With Scholarship!

♀️ Engineering Degree Through Blood, Sweat & Tears

Married & Expecting, Parents Want To Reconnect

“Sorry If We Caused You Pain” – Is That Enough?

$100K Apology Fee – Fair or Foul?

Mom In Tears, Dad In Disbelief

Brothers Calling Me Out – Am I The A-hole?

Sister Demands $100K Apology Fee From Parents!
Well, well, well… looks like our girl is playing hardball! After years of being treated like a second-class citizen, she’s not letting her parents off the hook that easily. Do they want a relationship? Sure, but it’ll cost them a cool $100K! That’s the price of their blatant favoritism and disregard for her dreams. Mom’s in tears, Dad’s in shock , and the brothers are calling her out. But is she the a-hole here? The internet has some thoughts! Let’s see what they have to say about this family feud.
Engineer stands up to bigoted family, supports parent’s decision.

NTA stands their ground on fair request for college payment.

Breaking gender inequality in higher education! You go girl!

Perseverance praised in face of difficult upbringing.

Empathetic response to entitled siblings, NTA
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Daughter stands her ground against sexist brothers and neglectful parents

Gender discrimination and a lack of apology from parents.

Grandparents try to push their beliefs on grandchild. NTA wins.

Setting boundaries and enforcing them takes strength. NTA

Feeling resentful towards parents for refusing to pay for college. ESH.
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Demanding specific apologies from parents for favoring siblings. NTA

Female engineer relates to OP’s struggle against misogynistic parents

Fair treatment between siblings is a bare minimum

Harsh reply to parents wanting to be involved in daughter’s life

NTA. Playing favorites has consequences. Toxic beliefs should be avoided.

Supportive stranger cheers for OP after unjust treatment by parents
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NTA commenter shares Jewish philosophy on atonement and criticizes parents’ apology

NTA fought for education despite parents’ refusal. Fair demand
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NTA demands family value her as a person, not just uterus

Curious about parental involvement in commenter’s wedding

Parent defends not paying for child’s college, sparks gender debate

Supportive comment urges therapy and congratulates pregnancy

Setting boundaries with parents after becoming a mom

Sibling privilege exposed. NTA stands ground against family pressure.

Proud of you for standing on your own Best wishes for baby

NTA. Commenter uses sarcasm to highlight parents’ bigotry and sexism.

Letting go of toxic family: priceless

Demanding equal support from parents – fair or entitled?

Warning of potential gender expectations and emotional abuse from family.

NTA- Don’t let toxic family influence your child’s upbringing

NTA – Money won’t fix the real problem. Brothers don’t care.

Suggests creating college fund to prove it’s not about money

Shiny steel spine! Protect your baby with love. NTA

Breaking free from toxic parents, vague apologies won’t suffice

Supportive commenter applauds OP for not paying child’s college tuition

NTA sarcastically responds to criticism, chooses to live without parents

“I can’t forgive someone who isn’t sorry.”

Grandchild is the only reason they’re interested. Unfair treatment.

Unfair treatment of daughter, NTA. Video evidence recommended for reconciliation.

Family drama: Sibling support over entitled parents’ apology failure

Siblings should have supported her earlier, parents can’t pick up now

Family’s financial burden leads to resentment and tension.

NTA calls out insincere apologies in powerful clapback.

Demanding a $100,000 payment in exchange for a relationship? ESH.

Suggestion to repair the relationship with education trust fund

Female engineers unite! Don’t let them dim your light!

NTA demands more than just 100K and an apology ♀️

Gender privilege in college expenses called out

NTA receives non-apology, stands up to unsupportive family.

Standing up to toxic parents, asking for repayment and apology

Heartbreaking comment about parents’ true intentions.

Setting boundaries with a**hole parents who played favorites

Sibling rivalry at its finest! NTA wins this round.

NTA. Inspiring story of overcoming parental expectations and thriving solo.

NTA but will accepting money mend your relationship?

Don’t let your parents rug-sweep the past, stick to your guns!

This comment is the ultimate clapback!

NTA. The parents lack basic awareness of what they did wrong

NTA stands up for themselves and demands respect from family.

A commenter asks for more context and supports OP’s decision.

Congrats on putting yourself through college! NTA for setting boundaries

Parents apologize to reconnect after pregnancy, NTA for not forgiving.

Sibling envy? Commenter defends daughter and calls parents a**holes.

A heartbreaking story about familial love, values, and distance.
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NTA commenter sympathizes with OP, suggests parents pay atonement
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Pushing traditional gender roles on daughter, NTA for refusing.

Daughter deserves fairness and respect. Brothers should stay quiet.

Parent receives support for standing up to entitled daughter.

NTA. Self-sufficiency > money. Good for you!

Sibling solidarity and parental toxicity.

Congrats on getting educated and being NTA!

Grandparents demand access to baby, no one to care for them.

Cut off toxic family until apology. Don’t feel bad

Redditors debate whether parents or daughter are more at fault

Brothers won’t pay for college? Let them talk with .

Parents’ motives questioned in NTA comment

Setting criteria for toxic parents – NTA wins

Cutting off toxic family for self-care

Rejecting bigoted parents for their child’s college? Supportive comment.

Parents refuse to pay for college, but NTA for contingency

Setting boundaries with entitled adult children.

Successful independence, but beware of family’s ulterior motives
