Living with parents can be a challenge, especially when your mom is a full-blown Karen. A 22-year-old woman has been avoiding Costco trips with her mother due to her mom’s entitled and narcissistic behavior. From nitpicking staff to causing a scene over a two-minute wait, the daughter is at her wit’s end. But with her father asking her to keep quiet to maintain peace in the house, she’s torn between telling her mom the truth or continuing to dodge Costco outings.
Living with a Karen Mom
The Dreaded Costco Trip
The Nitpicking Begins
The Meltdown
A Two-Minute Wait? Unacceptable!
Threatening to Call Corporate
Apologizing for Mom
Confronting Mom in the Car
Avoiding Costco Trips
The Big Question: Why?
To Tell or Not to Tell ♀️
Dad’s Request for Peace
Dealing with Verbal Abuse
Keeping Quiet for Peace ✌️
Caught Between a Karen and a Peaceful Home
This 22-year-old is struggling to maintain peace in her household while dealing with her mom’s Karen-like behavior. After a disastrous Costco trip, she’s been avoiding shopping with her mom, who’s now questioning why. With her dad asking her to keep quiet about the issue to avoid verbal abuse, she’s torn between telling her mom the truth or continuing to dodge Costco outings. Will she confront her mom or keep the peace? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA commenter advocates for treating customer service workers with respect.
NTA comment and replies suggest filming Karen’s behavior for a wakeup call
Supportive commenters suggest seeking advice on r/relationshipadvice.
Standing up for Costco staff against entitled Karen behavior
Navigating family dynamics is like steadying a boat in a storm ⛵️. Opting out can be seen as betrayal .
Suggests recording daughter’s behavior to show her perspective.
Honesty is the best policy. Hope she takes it well
Commenter sympathizes with server mistreatment, offers driving explanation.
Standing up to entitled behavior, NTA comment receives support
Engaging suggestion to write a letter to mom for better communication
Daughter refuses to enable mom’s r**e behavior at Costco
Supportive comment recommends helpful resource for dealing with entitled parents.
Standing up to a parent’s bad behavior is tough
Honesty is the best policy.
Mother’s r**e behavior ruins Red Lobster tradition
Redditors recommend r/raisedbynarcissists for coping with difficult parents.
Handling a difficult parent-child relationship with grace and logic
Daughter explains why she won’t shop with mom at Costco ♀️
Dealing with a narcissistic parent can be tough. NTA.
Refusing Costco trips with clueless mom, but not calling her Karen
NTA comment sparks debate over labeling people as ‘Karen’ or ‘a*****e’
Daughter stands up to entitled mother with support from commenters
Enabling entitled behavior? NTA for setting boundaries with mom
Commenter calls out toxic behavior in mother-daughter relationship
Daughter shares experience with mentally ill mother and offers advice.
Commenter is not the a**hole, but why?
Commenter believes the daughter is not in the wrong.
Cutting toxic family members out of your life is sometimes necessary
Setting boundaries with a difficult parent.
Calling out abusive behavior at Costco. NTA wins.
Stand up to entitled behavior with this NTA comment.
Daughter stands up to mom, commenters support her decision
Protect yourself from Karen with emergency services on speed dial
Support for NTA comment calling for therapy and accountability.
Setting boundaries with a difficult parent can be tough ♀️
Encouraging comment suggests mom needs help
Daughter stands up to mom’s verbal abuse during shopping trips.
Redditors suggest helpful resource for dealing with difficult family dynamics.
Standing up to toxic behavior, even if it’s family
Empathetic commenter relates to OP’s struggle, offers support.
Daughter refuses Costco trips with mom who is a Karen. NTA.
Commenter refuses to go anywhere with an unpleasant person
Empathizing with a difficult parent’s behavior in public
Don’t let Karen’s behavior slide, call her out!
Is it time to cut ties with a toxic parent?
Advice on dealing with difficult family dynamics.
Empowering response to controlling parent.
Father’s stress logic is flawed, commenter is NTA
Stand up against retail worker mistreatment. Honest conversation is key.
Friend suggests singing telegram to confront entitled and embarrassing mom.
Encouraging intervention for oblivious mother’s abusive behavior. #NTA
Recording Karen’s outbursts to show her later? NTA’s got it.
Standing up to a difficult parent. NTA
Enabling entitled behavior? NTA suggests pointing it out
Sibling solidarity against a Karen mom.
Surviving a narcissistic mother: strategies for a better future
Standing up against entitled behavior at Costco
Politely setting boundaries with mom after embarrassing Costco incident. NTA.
Don’t let Karen behavior slide, NTA. ♀️
Daughter seeks advice on dealing with dad’s appeasement approach.
Setting boundaries with difficult family members can be tough , but it’s important to stand up for yourself. NTA
Navigating a difficult relationship with a lack of empathy ♀️
Shopping with mom can be a nightmare , especially if she’s a Karen . NTA for wanting to avoid that situation.
Compassionate cashier praises OP for teaching daughter basic manners
NTA comment gets real, warns daughter of potential consequences.
Empowerment is key! Don’t apologize for others’ bad behavior
Support for daughter’s decision and concern for mother’s wellbeing.
Suggests filming entitled Karen and sharing online for laughs
A witty comment about a skilled boat steadier.
Standing up to a verbally abusive parent. NTA
Navigating difficult family dynamics while shopping
Standing up to entitled behavior at Costco
Suggests a petty revenge plan with a touch of sarcasm
Last Updated on May 12, 2023 by Diply Social Team