Imagine working hard to save up for your children’s future, only to have it all come crashing down due to one of them making a huge mistake. That’s exactly what happened to a couple who managed to scrape together $30k for each of their children’s university and wedding funds. But when their daughter committed identity fraud against her own mother, they found themselves $45k in debt and had to use the money they saved for their children’s futures. Now, years later, the daughter is demanding her share of the money if they want to attend her wedding.
Parents’ Sacrifice for Their Children’s Future

Daughter’s Mistake Costs Them Dearly

A Shocking $45k Debt

Children’s Funds Used to Pay Off Debt

Daughter Turns Her Life Around

Son Receives His Share

Daughter’s Ultimatum

Demanding Equal Treatment

Parents’ Heartbreak

A Painful Dilemma: Wedding Invitation or Financial Fairness?
This family’s heartbreaking story has left many feeling emotional. After their daughter’s past mistake cost them $45k in debt, the parents had to use the money they saved for their children’s futures. Years later, the daughter has turned her life around, but now she’s demanding her share of the money if they want to attend her wedding. The parents are heartbroken, unable to afford the amount she’s asking for and feeling like they’ve let her down. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Daughter demands more money despite causing debt and trouble
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Daughter demands more money after costing parents $45k in debt NTA stands their ground

Don’t fall for emotional blackmail, you’re NTA

Graceful disinvitation suggestion for entitled daughter. #NTA
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Daughter spent brother’s nest egg, demands more money. NTA parent stands firm.

Daughter steals from parents, demands more money, NTA stands firm

Daughter commits fraud, demands more money for uni & wedding

Daughter commits fraud, demands money for wedding and uni funds. NTA.

Daughter emotionally blackmails parents for wedding and uni funds

Parent stands firm against emotional blackmail for wedding and uni funds

Brutal but fair comment on daughter’s entitlement and therapy.
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Daughter’s entitlement exposed after past fraud. NTA.
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Daughter demands wedding funds after costing parents $45k in debt . Commenter points out enabling behavior and potential consequences. NTA.

Suggests selling daughter’s car to pay for wedding. NTA.

Daughter owes parents 30k, acting entitled. Don’t give her more.

Respectable adult wouldn’t demand parents pay for her wedding

Support for not pressing charges on daughter’s debt fraud.

NTA! Daughter put parents in debt, demands wedding funds. Entitled brat.

Curious about the car bought with stolen money

Daughter commits fraud, demands more money. NTA stands firm.

Parents offer to break even on stolen money for daughter’s wedding

Grateful daughter demands more money after $45k debt bailout

Fair point. Giving in to one child could create imbalance.

Daughter spends $30k foolishly, demands more; NTA prioritizing son’s future

NTA for not giving in to entitled demands. Risk to son’s relationship.

Daughter pays debt, demands more money. NTA stands firm.

Sibling rivalry over debt! NTA prioritizes son’s funds.
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NTA. Daughter’s fraud has consequences, don’t give in to blackmail

Daughter holds wedding invitation at ransom, parents NTA

Daughter’s toxic entitlement and lies exposed, don’t give in!

Daughter demands more money after costing parents $45k in debt

Parent suggests confronting daughter and son-in-law about entitlement

Daughter demands more money, but NTA already gave enough

Daughter demands wedding and uni funds, but NTA parent refuses.

Selective amnesia? NTA parent claps back at entitled daughter

Daughter demands more money after costing parents $45k in debt

Daughter demands $30k back after fraud, NTA for refusing.

Daughter spent wedding & uni funds on ‘stupid shit’, NTA for refusing.

NTA commenter calls daughter a brat, predicts wedding drama.

Daughter demands parents pay for wedding after committing identity fraud.

Parents forgive daughter’s debt, but she demands wedding funds. NTA!
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Don’t feel guilty, you’re not letting her manipulate you

Daughter commits fraud, loses funds, demands more. NTA stands firm.

Daughter demands more funds after car debt forgiven, NTA response.

NTA commenter praises daughter for paying back debt, suggests tough love.

Daughter demands more money after wasting previous funds. Entitled much?

Parent refuses to fund daughter’s demands after identity fraud accusation.

Don’t give in to emotional blackmail for unearned money.

Mother defends herself against daughter’s entitlement with NTA comment.

Daughter steals and demands reward? NTA says comment,

Daughter spent parents’ money recklessly, now wants more? NTA.

No wedding or uni funds until credit fraud charges paid back

NTA. Daughter demands more money after stealing 15k. Stand firm.

Redditor questions the validity of the story, demands more details.

Parenting done right! NTA for not funding wedding and uni.

Parental tough love sparks debate on financial responsibility

Daughter spent all her funds, demands more. Commenter says NTA

Daughter’s entitlement shocks commenters in NTA section

Daughter’s entitlement after costing parents $45k in debt appalls commenters.

Fair treatment of children, suggestion for wedding compromise. #NTA

Offer to cover one thing, give her time to cool off

Daughter demands more money after stealing $30k, NTA parents stand firm

Daughter demands wedding and uni funds after costing parents $45k

Cousin did the same, father drained retirement to pay debts. NTA

Compassionate comment supporting parent’s tough love decision.

Don’t give in to emotional blackmail. NTA.

Parent stands by son’s promise, daughter has growing up to do

Curious if daughter hid purchases, but NTA for parents.

Savage suggestion for daughter’s wedding funds sparks laughter

Parent calmly shuts down entitled daughter’s wedding demands

Proud and independent NTA child sets an example

Parental betrayal and fraud? Press charges and disown her. NTA.

Daughter wastes money, demands more. NTA parents, move on
