Picture this: your adult daughter and her boyfriend come to visit for Easter, but you have a strict ‘no bed-sharing before marriage’ rule. You offer the guest room to the boyfriend, but later find out they don’t visit more often because of this rule. Drama ensues, with the daughter accusing her parents of being ridiculous, while the parents stand their ground. So, who’s in the wrong here? Let’s dive into the story and find out!
Easter Visit

The Real Reason for Infrequent Visits ️♀️

Daughter’s Response ️

Mom’s Counterargument ♀️

Subject Change

Accusations of Punishment

Age and Relationship Details

Clarification on Visits

Comparing Siblings

Family Torn Apart Over Bed-Sharing Rule
So, here’s the situation: a mother has a strict ‘no bed-sharing before marriage’ rule, which has led her adult daughter and boyfriend to visit less frequently. The daughter thinks the rule is ridiculous, while the parents believe it’s their right to enforce it. The family is divided, with the husband supporting the wife, and the son taking the daughter’s side. Is this rule tearing the family apart? Or is the daughter overreacting? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heated debate…
Daughter sets boundaries, commenters share similar experiences and advice. YTA

Daughter boycotts family visits over bed-sharing rule. Commenters agree: YTA.

Adult daughter’s boycott over bed-sharing rule sparks debate

Daughter and her BF are respecting the rules, OP is TA

Daughter’s boycott understandable, mother’s rules are arduous and self-centered

Commenter calls OP a**hole, suggests exhausting behavior may be reason for daughter’s absence

Daughter respects bed-sharing rule, OP falsely calls her a liar. YTA

Commenter calls out OP for ignoring YTA judgement

Daughter’s boycott due to ‘no bed-sharing’ rule is justified. YTA.

Commenter calls out ‘1950’s mentality’ of bed-sharing rule. Replies share similar views.
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Commenter calls out missing detail, criticizes parents’ trust issues.

Commenter calls out parent’s ‘delusional’ rule, deemed YTA. Reply sarcastically agrees.

Commenter supports daughter’s boycott of ‘ridiculous’ rule.

Daughter boycotts family visits over bed-sharing rule, commenter calls OP an a**hole

Commenter calls OP out for outdated views on bed-sharing

Daughter boycotts family visits over ‘no bed-sharing’ rule. Commenter calls OP out for overreacting and suggests apologizing.

Daughter’s autonomy respected, family takes it personally ♀️

Respectful daughter sets boundary, family drama ensues

OP is called out for being entitled and controlling

Debating the ‘No Bed-Sharing’ Rule with a hint of humor

Commenter criticizes parent’s ‘no bed-sharing’ rule for adult child.

Commenter calls out YTA for imposing parental protection on couple

Daughter boycotts family visits over ‘no bed-sharing’ rule. Commenters support her.
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Age is crucial, but we’re left in suspense

Commenter calls out OP’s arbitrary rules and lack of respect.

Age matters: judgment on YTA/NTA depends on it

Child explains why they avoid visiting judgmental parents

Commenter calls out parent’s unreasonable behavior and victim blaming.

Respect your adult daughter’s choice, don’t drive her away

Daughter boycotts family visits over ‘no bed-sharing’ rule . Commenter calls out parent for not respecting adult children.

Commenter calls out family for forcing beliefs on daughter.

Daughter’s boycott over ‘no bed-sharing’ rule sparks YTA debate

Daughter boycotts family visits over ‘no bed-sharing’ rule

Mom won’t travel, daughter won’t visit without bed-sharing. YTA?

Respect your daughter’s boundary or lose her visits. YTA

User questions if the ‘no bed-sharing’ rule is real or fake.

Mother calls out OP for ‘no bed-sharing’ rule. Yikes

Respectful disagreement on ‘no bed-sharing’ rule, natural consequences explained.

Curious about the daughter’s age

Respect your daughter’s individuality and make concessions.

Daughter boycotts family visits over ‘no bed-sharing’ rule

Sassy reply shuts down commenter’s assumption in hilarious way

Commenter calls out parent for not respecting their adult daughter’s beliefs
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Commenter calls out OP for being hypocritical about bed-sharing.

Daughter’s boycott over bed-sharing rule sparks YTA accusation.

Commenter deemed ‘the a**hole’ for supporting bed-sharing.
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Daughter’s boycott over ‘no bed-sharing’ rule deemed unfair by commenter
