Ever had a date that started with butterflies and ended with you wanting to fly away? ➡️ ♂️ I recently found myself at a Korean BBQ with my gym crush, and let’s just say, the heat was definitely on – and not just from the grill. From cultural misunderstandings to jaw-dropping comments, this evening was a full course in dating don’ts. Buckle up, because this tale of culinary chaos is one for the books.
Gym Crush Confessions ❤️

First Date Jitters and Korean BBQ Wonders

Bar Banter to BBQ Bewilderment ➡️

Grill Games and Service Struggles ️

Waitress Woes and Unwelcome Demands

Embarrassment and Red Flags Rising

Cultural Clashes and Personal Preferences

Holding Out Hope for a Happy Ending?

Dessert Debacle and Disturbing Diatribes ️

Racist Remarks and Shocked Silence

Dinner Turns Sour with a Side of Prejudice ️

Misidentity and Misguided Clarifications ♂️

Identity Crisis and Culinary Confusion

Escape Plan Executed and Ghosting Ensues ♂️

Transportation Troubles and Blocking Blunders

Gym Timetable Tweak and Avoidance Tactics ️♂️

Reflections and Reactions to a Date Gone Wrong

Cultural Curiosity and Unwanted Car Conversations ♂️

Final Straw and Relationship Realizations

No Sleepover for the Bigoted Beelzebub

Mystery Slur and Internet Investigations ️♂️

Dinner Date or Disaster Date? The Night That Went Off the Rails! ️
Imagine your dream date turning into a nightmare faster than you can say ‘check, please!’ Our protagonist’s romantic rendezvous at a Korean BBQ quickly spiraled into a scene straight out of a ‘what-not-to-do’ dating manual. From demanding service with a dash of entitlement to dropping racist bombs over dessert, this evening had more twists than a Korean drama! And when our guy made his ninja exit, he left more than just a tip – he left a tale of caution for anyone navigating the spicy waters of modern dating. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this saucy situation…
NTA because YIKES. ♂️ Don’t date racists. Yikes indeed.

Date night disaster: a shocking encounter leads to a swift exit
to reflect on her actions.
NTA for ghosting! Her audacity doesn’t deserve your time
to confront
Compartmentalizing bigotry for ‘adult time’ – a date night disaster
to tolerate or not to tolerate, that is the question
toxic transactional view of dinner for sex
Korean BBQ: a genius first date idea to reveal true colors
Engaging with Korean cuisine turned into a disaster date
gone wrong
taught an important lesson.
turned into a disaster date
gone wrong
taught an important lesson.
taught an important lesson.
Humbling lesson for her, but tricky situation for you.
takecare
“Cultural misunderstanding leads to a disastrous date night
ud83dude33”

Engaging for ‘adult’ time? Others find it gross and uncomfortable
given the situation.
OP and the girl clashed, but OP’s inaction spoke volumes.

Engaging with a date gone wrong
tensions rise as comments unfold
tensions rise as comments unfold
Dinner disaster! Commenters clash over wait staff cooking demand
to
ESH. Engaging in a dinner disaster with unaddressed racism and confrontation
generating
Shocking date night disaster! NTA for handling it like a boss ud83dude0e

Dinner disaster: OP called out for leaving date and restaurant staff

Dinner disaster! Everyone sucks here except the restaurant
deal with it
Awkward gym encounters
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Confronting racism at dinner: ESH, but speak up next time.

Escape plan: Drinks first, easy exit if it’s a disaster

Debunking the dinner disaster myth
️♂️

Quick escape from potential drama! ♂️ Good call on tipping!

Surprising lack of Korean BBQ knowledge! NTA for switching gyms.

Immigrant shares frustrating encounters with people’s bias, sparking skepticism.
