Picture this: A young man is about to start college, and he’s torn between maintaining a long-distance relationship with his high school sweetheart or embracing the full college experience. He turns to his parents for advice, and his father decides to share a shocking truth about his own marriage. What happens next? A family drama unfolds, with emotions running high and relationships put to the test.
The College Dilemma

Mom’s Opinion vs. Dad’s Silence ️

The Pressure to Speak Up

Dad’s Regretful Marriage Story

The Sacrifice and the What-Ifs

Dad’s Heartfelt Advice

The Unintended Consequences

A Father’s Concern

The Harsh Reality?

Dad’s Advice Sparks Family Feud
So, Dad finally shares his side of the story, revealing his regrets about marrying his high school sweetheart and the sacrifices he made. His advice to his son? Consider whether he’s prepared to make similar sacrifices and potentially miss out on life experiences. But when his daughter overhears the conversation and spills the beans to Mom, the family is thrown into turmoil. Was Dad wrong for sharing his perspective, or is he simply trying to help his son avoid the same mistakes? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
YTA for oversharing marital regrets with son. NAH for advice.

Father’s regretful words cause family turmoil. YTA.

Discussing regret over marriage in public, YTA. Seek therapy.

Regretful marriage advice can cause family strain. Clear it up ASAP.

Regretful dad faces backlash for sharing marriage advice.

Regretful dad receives YTA judgement for blaming wife and upsetting family

Child of regretful marriage feels burdened, but not unloved

Dad’s outdated advice gets called out. Yikes

Overheard regretful marriage advice from parent causes lasting pain

Husband’s ‘what ifs’ causing wife to feel insecure

A commenter defends the dad’s intentions but is called out (YTA)
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Regretful dad’s marriage advice backfires, called out for being selfish.

Father’s negative projection on son and wife’s self-image. YTA.

Don’t burden your children with your relationship issues. YTA

Commenter calls out dad’s weak character and gives YTA verdict

Dad’s bad advice backfires, called out for being TA

Debate on whether OP was the a**hole for staying with wife.

Regretful marriage advice leads to valid ‘what ifs’ and upset wife ♀️

NAH. Daughter overhears dad’s regretful advice, but it sparks family conversation.

A regretful dad’s marriage advice backfires and causes family drama

Commenter advises father on better wording and actions, offers personal experience.

NTA for being honest with son, but OP’s delivery was TA

Commenter calls out OP for being naive and projecting.

NTA for giving son advice, wife upset for causing regrets ♂️ Daughter snooped and gossiped
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Commenter calls out OP for regretful marriage advice.

Dad’s marriage advice backfires, causing family drama and regret.

Commenter calls out dad’s midlife crisis advice. Dad defends.

Father gives honest advice, daughter eavesdrops, drama ensues.
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Commenter calls out OP for burdening son with intimate details

Dad’s regretful marriage advice to son backfires. YTA

Honesty isn’t always the best policy NAH comment section.

Commenter calls out OP’s bad marriage advice, sympathy ensues

Father’s insensitive advice to son sparks backlash.

Married young, regretted it. Son considering same. Predicts failure.
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Father’s regretful marriage advice earns him YTA judgment.

Commenter regrets not having freedom in youth due to partner.

Encouraging a broader view of the future: wise or overbearing?

Father’s regretful advice to son on marriage draws criticism

Redditor calls out dad for regretful marriage advice. YTA confirmed

Navigating family advice and weird responses with grace

Commenter calls out OP for selfish and regretful advice.

Commenter calls out OP for poor judgement and oversharing.

Regretful dad’s advice causes family drama. NAH defends him.
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Honesty is the best policy for marriage advice

Honesty is key, but communication with your spouse is crucial

Commenter receives validation for not being the a**hole.

Sharing personal experience adds credibility. NTA

Commenter agrees with advice but calls out OP’s resentment towards wife

Harsh reply to mid-life crisis dad’s regretful advice.

Parental regrets and honesty can be healthy for families.
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Mother’s regretful marriage advice left a lasting negative impact. YTA.

Father’s regretful advice backfires, earns criticism for meddling in son’s relationship. ♂️

Honesty isn’t always the best policy, especially when it hurts.

Father’s regretful marriage advice: tough love or family drama?
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Commenter calls out dad’s regretful marriage advice.

Protecting your kid from pain is top priority

Supportive comment helps son follow his dreams and reduce guilt

Parental regret causes family drama. YTA gets called out.

Putting a child in the middle of a divorce – YTA

Father warns son about marriage, family drama ensues

Well-intentioned advice leads to shattered illusions and heartbreak

Dad’s regretful marriage advice earns him YTA judgment and backlash

Parents give advice, but son should make his own decision
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