Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a dilemma here. A new dad is caught between his wife and his family, and let’s just say, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. ️ This poor guy just wants his fam to meet his little bundle of joy, but his wife is putting up more barriers than a celebrity’s gated mansion. Will this dad stand his ground or cave to the pressure? Let’s dive in and see what kind of mess we’re dealing with here!
New Parents, New Problems

Double Standards for In-Laws?

Helping or Just Holding?

Takeout Trumps Cleaning? ♂️

Dad’s Plan: Family Visit

Wifey’s Not Happy

♀️ Mom Stays Home, Dad Goes Solo

Text Tirade from Mama Bear

️ Trying to Talk it Out

Mom Plays the Pregnancy Card

Money Matters?

No Apologies Here

Postpartum Depression Possibility?

Planned Trip, Not a Surprise

Dad Wanted Mom There Too!

♀️ Mom’s Mobile, No Excuses

No Compromise from Mom

The Internet Weighs In!
Well, well, well… looks like this new dad is in quite the pickle! He’s trying to do right by his family, but his wife is giving him the cold shoulder. ❄️ Is she being unreasonable or is there more to the story? The internet is buzzing with opinions, and we’ve gathered the juiciest responses for your reading pleasure. From accusations of kidnapping to claims of postpartum depression, this story has more twists and turns than a soap opera. So grab your popcorn and let’s see what the world wide web has to say about this family feud!
Taking the infant away overnight was unreasonable. YTA

Fair solution, but INFO needed to check for family pressure.

Father’s rights to take his own child questioned, deemed NTA

Husband’s multiple day trip w/ newborn w/o wife’s consent = unreasonable. Wife’s reaction = irrational. Therapy or lawyers may be needed soon.
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Suspicious comment prompts doubts about story’s veracity

Equal parenting requires equal say, regardless of who gave birth.

Father faces criticism for taking newborn to meet family. Replies defend.

Taking a newborn on a trip without consent: ESH ♂️

Curious about the need for an overnight stay at family’s.

Dad should have a say, but consider wife’s struggles

A cautionary tale about disregarding a new mother’s feelings

New dad criticized for prioritizing social time over baby’s safety

Taking the newborn on a trip without wife’s consent = relationship damage

Supportive comment advocating for new father’s concern about wife’s mental health.

Supportive comment recommends therapy for possible PPD/PPP.

Father takes newborn on trip without mother’s permission, YTA.

Mother of 4 defends dad, accuses wife of using baby control.

Taking the baby for a weekend? ESH, focus on PPD.

Support for dad’s parenting decision amidst accusations of kidnapping

Defending the father’s right to bring family around *his* baby.

Fair solution attempt by dad to see baby sparks disagreement.

New mom shares discomfort with in-laws visiting newborn frequently

Wife’s anxiety about family might have caused her reaction. NTA.

NTA Dad stands up to wife’s insane demands and judgments.

ESH. Respectful effort to see family, but poor argument and invalidation.

NTA. Commenter sympathizes, advises Dad to get help for wife
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Supportive comment against controlling parenting, NTA judgment.
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Fatherly rights defended amid sexist backlash. NTA

Concerns raised about infant’s vaccinations during pandemic and mother’s postpartum needs.

Dad not at fault, wife’s family needs to stay out

Birth worker suggests PPD/PPA may not be only issue
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New mother criticizes father for not respecting boundaries and wife’s needs.

Taking a newborn on a long car journey: acceptable or not?

New dad faces backlash for taking newborn on trip without wife

Taking a newborn away is ESH, but wife’s reaction extreme.

Father takes newborn on trip, wife accuses him of kidnapping. NTA.

Couple conflicts over family meeting newborn. Therapy advised for both.

Dad’s trip with newborn triggers postpartum conflict. ESH.

Taking the baby away was wrong, but wife’s family overstepped boundaries.

Mom disagrees with dad taking newborn on trip, wife overreacts.
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Taking the baby without her blessing was the wrong move

Taking an unvaccinated newborn against the mother’s wishes is YTA

Legal guardian dad accused of kidnapping by wife. NTA wins.

Defending fatherhood against irrationality

Fellow dad applauds OP for standing up to maternal gatekeeping
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New dad takes baby on trip, wife accuses him of kidnapping . Commenter supports dad

Breaking stereotypes! Dad accused of kidnapping his own son. NTA.

Father accused of kidnapping newborn by unreasonable wife. NTA.

Family has the right to visit newborn. NTA.

Worried dad gets accused of kidnapping his own baby

Dad gets accused of kidnapping his own baby, but can’t he have a say in parenting? NTA

User asks for more info to judge situation fairly

User is confused by YTA judgement, seeks explanation.
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NTA dad has a right to introduce his child to family without being verbally abused over it. Wife may have PPD or control issues .

NTA. Father deserves equal say and support from both families.

NTA but wife’s double standard and family’s attack is unfair. ♂️

NTA but wife’s behavior is extreme. In-laws can visit.

NTA, father deserves to spend time with his family too

New dad takes baby for weekend, wife accuses him of kidnapping YTA

Father’s right to take newborn on trip questioned, deemed NTA

Father asserts his equal rights to his child, NTA

NTA defends OP and calls out comment hypocrisy and double standards.

Respect new mothers’ wishes and give them space. YTA

Taking his own son on a trip is not kidnapping!

NTA dad deals with unreasonable wife; PPD comment inappropriate.

NTA comment suggests wife needs help, not husband’s fault

Supportive comment suggests seeking help for spouse’s behavior.

New dad tries to compromise but accused of kidnapping

New dad wants family to visit, wife refuses. NTA.

NTA stands up to controlling wife’s family with boundary setting.

Father has right to take newborn on trip, wife overreacts

Equal parenting roles, wife’s accusation unjustified. NTA wins ✌

Taking a one-month-old baby from their mother for a weekend trip? YTA

Supportive comment on dad’s actions, acknowledges wife’s possible PPD. NTA

Equal rights for fathers is important, postpartum control is not.
