Imagine having a beautiful property in South America, complete with a pool, guest house, and picturesque surroundings – sounds like a dream wedding location, right? Well, one dad (57) is facing backlash from his family after refusing to let his daughter have her wedding on his property. Their relationship is already strained, and now this decision is causing even more drama. So, what’s the story behind this tropical paradise turned battleground? Let’s dive in! ♂️
Living the Dream in South America

A Property Fit for Events

Family Struggles

Daughter’s Wedding Dreams

Destination Wedding Demands

Dad’s Counter Offer

Offering to Pay for Hotel

Past Experiences

Family Backlash ️

Setting Boundaries

Poolside Panty Problems

Grumpy Old Man or Justified?

Tropical Paradise Wedding Dreams Crushed
So, this dad is caught in a whirlwind of family drama after refusing to let his daughter have her dream wedding on his beautiful South American property. His reasons? Past experiences with his family abusing his hospitality and leaving his place in shambles. He’s offered to pay for a hotel for the guests, but his family isn’t having it. They’re calling him an a**hole and accusing him of not wanting to see them. Is he really the bad guy here, or is he just trying to protect his home and sanity? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tropical wedding war…
NTA. The commenters were ready to call OP an AH, but he’s entirely reasonable. He’s offering to host the wedding and pay for hotels despite the repeated bad behavior of the guests. The guests are acting entitled and spoiled. The commenters are glad they read the whole post.

Father and daughter clash over wedding venue, commenters side with father.

NTA refuses daughter’s wedding on his property due to past incidents.

NTA for not letting entitled guests use your property for free

Respect goes both ways. NTA is reasonable

NTA refuses daughter’s wedding on his property due to wastefulness

Set your boundaries straight and grow a spine

NTA comment sparks debate on parenting and entitlement
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Generous offer rejected, entitled family wants free wedding venue. NTA.

Daughter denied dream wedding on dad’s property, NTA explains why.

Spoiling kids leads to entitlement, says commenter

Generous offer of free accommodation makes OP NTA

Grumpy old man lays out reasonable solutions. NTA

Savage NTA comment shuts down entitled couple.

Daughter’s wedding denied on property due to disrespectful behavior. NTA.

Set boundaries and let go of those who take advantage ❤️

Tough love or final straw? Navigating a strained father-daughter relationship

Commenter finds amusement in absurdity of situation

Suggests taking extra deposit for wedding guests to avoid property damage

Wedding denied: NTA, your property, your rules.

NTA shuts down entitled wedding demands with Encanto reference

Setting boundaries: Dad refuses daughter’s wedding on his property. NTA.

Generous offer rejected: NTA dad draws the line

Setting boundaries with family: NTA stands their ground

Setting boundaries with family is important, NTA in this situation.

Setting boundaries: NTA refuses daughter’s wedding on his property

Daughter wants dream wedding on dad’s property, but he’s reasonable.

NTA and reasonable solutions. Cheaper to hire cleaning crew?

Commenters willing to leave property better than found it for wedding venue

Commenter warns dad of potential consequences for being a ‘Disneyland dad’

NTA for refusing to serve as a hotel for wedding guests.

Generous father stands up for himself, children upset over money

Clear-cut judgement, but where’s the story?

Commenter defends OP and calls out entitled family members.

Setting boundaries for daughter’s wedding, called NTA.

Commenter agrees with dad’s decision to refuse wedding on property.

Supportive comment gets straight to the point

Father refuses daughter’s wedding due to past property damage. NTA.

Father justified in refusing daughter’s wedding on his property. NTA

Dad stands his ground against entitled daughter’s dream wedding

Communication is key: Explaining reasons behind NTA verdict

Don’t waste bananas! Commenter is NTA and angry
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Daughter’s entitled behavior gets called out, karma predicted for wedding

NTA. Host offers refundable cleaning deposit to entitled slobs.

Commenter defends dad’s decision with cultural perspective

Rent a flat to avoid crazy family drama

Commenter thinks dad is not the a**hole.

Commenter shocked at situation, thinks dad is not the a**hole

Commenter receives validation for not being the a**hole

Brutally honest comment sparks no response from others

Commenter relates to NTA’s grumpiness about wedding dispute.

Short and sweet: commenter declares NTA (not the a**hole)

NTA dad shuts down entitled family, avoids wedding nightmare

Protecting property or being unreasonable? NTA comment defends dad’s decision.

Setting boundaries for entitled adult children’s wedding. NTA

NTA being reasonable, offering solutions, but still disrespected.

Commenter calls out bad parenting but agrees with decision.

Dad shuts down daughter’s wedding dreams, commenters call kids entitled ♂️

Commenter supports dad’s decision to refuse entitled daughter’s wedding

Commenter calls out toxic family in NTA judgement

NTA shuts down entitled wedding guests with clever social media move

Setting boundaries with adult children. NTA
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Daughter’s dream wedding denied on dad’s property. NTA explains why.

OP’s humorous clarification adds to NTA verdict

Daughter wants wedding on dad’s property, but he’s NTA

Daughter wants dream wedding on dad’s property, but he refuses. NTA.

Wedding drama: Dad called NTA for refusing daughter’s request.

NTA shuts down entitled wedding guests.
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Offering a fair compromise after past letdowns. NTA
