When a father noticed his 9-year-old daughter, M, was starting to put on weight, he decided to take matters into his own hands. After discussing the issue with his ex, the child’s mother, and not getting the response he hoped for, he chose to monitor M’s eating habits and exercise during the weeks she stayed with him. However, his well-intentioned efforts have led to accusations of ’emotionally damaging’ his daughter. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story.
The Concerned Father

Noticing the Weight Gain

Discussing with the Ex

Taking Matters into His Own Hands

Introducing Fitness ♀️

The Birthday Party Incident

Healthy Snack Time

The Aftermath

M’s Outburst ️

Pizza Drama

Ex’s Reaction

The Argument Continues

Threats and Accusations

Father’s Good Intentions Backfire
In an attempt to help his daughter lose weight, this dad put her on a diet and started taking her to the gym. But things took a turn for the worse when she attended a birthday party and refused to eat pizza, fearing she would gain weight. The child’s mother is now accusing the father of ’emotionally damaging’ their daughter and threatening to not let her visit him anymore. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
YTA for emotionally damaging your 9-year-old daughter with dieting.

Putting a 9-year-old on a diet can cause emotional damage

Parent accused of emotionally damaging child with diet restrictions. YTA.

Commenter and replies warn against starting eating disorders in children

Commenter shares personal experience and calls out OP’s actions.

Restrictive diets at a young age can lead to eating disorders
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Dad’s weight obsession with 9-year-old daughter causing deep-seated body dysmorphia #YTA

Father accused of emotionally damaging 9-year-old daughter. YTA.

Restricting a child’s diet can lead to long-term food issues

Dad’s excessive diet and gym routine for 9-year-old daughter criticized

Dad’s unilateral decision to put daughter on diet backfires. YTA

Commenter explains biological reason for weight gain in girls, calls out strict diet at sleepovers.

Putting a 9-year-old on a diet? YTA, it may cause emotional damage

Redditor calls out parent for ignorance and hurting child

Father’s extreme dieting damaged daughter’s relationship with food and him. YTA

Co-parenting fail: Dad accused of being a**hole for dieting daughter

Commenter shares personal experience with dieting, advises seeking professional help

Parent accused of emotionally damaging child by putting them on diet

Parent shamed for putting 9-year-old on a diet

Parent’s good intentions lead to daughter’s insecurity and potential disorder. YTA

Consult a pediatrician before putting your child on a diet

Putting a 9-year-old on a diet can be emotionally damaging

Teach healthy habits but allow treats . Don’t give kids complexes.

Commenter shares personal experience with damaging effects of body-shaming parents. Replies show similar experiences.

Commenter accuses dad of damaging daughter’s mental health. Yikes.
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Commenter calls out dad for cruel diet restrictions on child.

Encouraging healthy habits is important, but criticizing weight is damaging

Father accused of emotionally damaging daughter by putting her on diet

Parenting gone wrong: Dad accused of giving kid body issues

Skepticism and disbelief towards comment, no replies.

Parental dieting causes anxiety and eating disorders

Commenter accuses dad of creating eating disorder in daughter

Commenter’s blunt response to the article’s subject.

Commenter calls out dad for putting 9-year-old on diet

Commenter criticizes dad’s diet approach and promotes moderation. YTA.

Dad accused of ’emotionally damaging’ daughter for putting her on diet

Parental diet restrictions on children can have harmful effects

Harsh criticism for a dad putting his 9-year-old on a diet

Parental diet restrictions may lead to eating disorders

Fiery reply to dad’s diet plan with creative insult

Parent accused of damaging child’s self-esteem with unhealthy diet

Harsh comment with no sympathy or constructive criticism

Parent shaming child’s body is emotionally abusive. YTA

Parent criticized for putting 9-year-old on diet. Commenter disapproves.
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Parenting gone wrong: Dad accused of causing child’s eating disorder

Restricting a 9-year-old’s diet can lead to body issues

Commenter calls out YTA for misleading and missed opportunity
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Parent’s dieting decision leads to eating disorder accusation

Curious commenter wonders about steamed chicken recipe

Commenter calls out dad’s harmful actions, warns of eating disorders

Commenter hopes for ex to get custody. YTA accusation.

Parent’s judgment on child’s weight based on clothing size is harmful
