Imagine being watched all day, every day by your spouse through home cameras. That’s the reality for one stay-at-home mom, according to her husband’s coworker. The coworker, who shares an office with the husband, has noticed his obsession with watching his wife on their home cameras. While the wife is likely aware of the cameras, it’s unclear if she knows the extent of her husband’s constant surveillance. The coworker is now debating whether to anonymously inform the wife about her husband’s behavior.
A Peek into Their Lives

The Office Setup

Creepy or Caring?

Lunchtime Surveillance

Office Transparency ️

His Reasoning

The Wife’s Perspective?

Possible Explanations

Office Visibility

The Duration ⏳

Not a Work Issue

A Concerned Coworker

To Tell or Not to Tell?

The Big Question

The Great Debate: To Tell or Not to Tell?
The coworker is torn between staying out of their colleague’s personal life and wanting to inform the wife about the constant surveillance. They’re considering sending an anonymous message to the wife, but they’re unsure if it’s their place to intervene. This surveillance saga raises the question: is the husband’s behavior creepy or caring? And should the coworker step in to inform the wife? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Coworker’s creepy behavior towards his wife raises concerns among colleagues.


Coworker’s obsession with watching wife on home cameras is super creepy

Coworker’s behavior is creepy and inappropriate

Coworker’s obsession with watching wife on home cameras. Talk to him first. NAH.




Approach with caution and ask why before assuming abuse.

Inappropriate coworker behavior caught on camera, ESH, HR intervention needed

Anonymous tip may help wife feel safe from creepy behavior

Coworker’s obsession with watching wife on cameras – advice on helping. NTA.

Coworker’s creepy obsession with wife caught on camera. NTA for concern.

Don’t meddle in someone else’s marriage, mind your business

Coworker’s creepy behavior caught on camera, NTA for speaking up.


Husband’s creepy obsession with watching wife on home cameras – NTA

Curiosity or Creepiness? Coworker’s Spying on Wife Raises Questions

Commenter called out as ‘the a**hole’ for being nosy.

Tip the wife off about the cameras for her safety

Concerned coworker suggests reporting creepy behavior to HR
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Coworker’s constant surveillance of wife is creepy and invasive.


Coworker’s creepy obsession with wife’s home cameras raises concerns

Uncomfortable with coworker’s creepy behavior? Go to HR

NTA for wanting to inform coworker’s wife about creepy behavior

Respect boundaries and communicate openly in relationships

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Be careful when telling a coworker about their spouse’s behavior

Coworker’s creepy behavior raises concerns about wife’s privacy

Coworker’s behavior may be abusive, tell the wife for safety

Coworker’s creepy behavior deemed not the a**hole by commenter.
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Coworker’s behavior deemed creepy but harmless by commenter. YTA.

Respect boundaries and avoid assumptions. Ask about the interest instead.

Coworker’s obsession with watching wife on cameras at work. NTA’s advice.

Coworker’s creepy behavior towards wife caught on camera at home.

Coworker’s obsession with watching wife on cameras raises concerns

Defending coworker’s behavior, but is it really innocent?

Mind your own business, YTA!

Insecurity or invasion? Redditors debate coworker’s behavior

Is it love or obsession? Commenter defends coworker’s actions

A father shares his experience of using cameras to keep his daughter safe.

Is it really none of our business?

Mind your own business, YTA. Don’t jump to conclusions

Advice on how to handle a creepy coworker’s behavior

Coworker’s obsession with watching wife on cameras raises concerns

Speak up! Watching someone without their consent is not okay
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Coworker’s creepy behavior caught on camera, what to do?

Stand up against workplace creepiness. NTA, report to HR

Coworker’s creepy obsession with watching wife on cameras discussed. NTA.
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Coworker’s behavior is obsessive and stalker-like . Trust issues?

Boundaries crossed: Coworker’s creepy obsession with spouse’s privacy

Spying on spouse? Definitely not cool. NTA wins.

Stay out of your coworker’s life, YTA!

Coworker’s creepy behavior or harmless arrangement? Privacy concerns arise.

Commenter raises concern about coworker’s potentially creepy behavior

Informing the wife is necessary for her safety.

Coworker’s surveillance of wife raises red flags

Anonymously report creepy coworker’s obsession with home cameras

Calling out creepy behavior at work
