We all have our quirks, but what happens when those quirks clash with family expectations? One couple’s strong aversion to having guests in their home has led to an explosive situation with their in-laws. Just in time for Thanksgiving, this story is sure to make you feel grateful for your own family drama!
A Home , Not a Hotel

No Sleepovers Allowed

Husband on Board

Airport Proximity ✈️

In-Laws’ Request ️

A Firm No

Persistent In-Laws

Husband Steps In

Nothing Personal?

A Hotel Alternative

Edit: No Diagnosis Needed

In-Laws Knew the Deal

A*****e Verdict?

Sleepover Showdown: Who’s in the Wrong?
This couple’s firm stance against having guests in their home has led to a heated disagreement with their in-laws. With Thanksgiving just around the corner, the tension is at an all-time high. The internet has weighed in, and it seems the couple may be in the wrong. But what do you think? Are they justified in their refusal, or should they have made an exception for family? Share your thoughts below!
Debate over whether OP is an a****e for refusing in-laws a sleepover

Couple faces judgment for refusing in-laws a sleepover. YTA or NAH?

In-laws refused a sleepover, commenter calls OP a**hole for overreacting

Commenter calls out OP’s hypocrisy and possible mental health issues.

OP’s reluctance to host family for one night causes drama

OP is called out for not acknowledging their issues with guests

Choosing not to host in-laws for sleepover causes family drama

Couple refuses in-laws a sleepover, sparks debate on hospitality etiquette ✈️

Setting boundaries with in-laws ✈️

Offering an airport motel is a great solution! NTA

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for not wanting visitors.

Setting boundaries with in-laws during holidays. NTA.

Commenter calls out YTA for refusing one night stay

Commenter suggests polite alternative to OP’s response to MIL.

Setting boundaries can be tough, but hospitality goes a long way

Setting boundaries with in-laws during holidays
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Setting boundaries with in-laws: one comment’s simple advice.

Commenter calls out OP for being TA, defended by another.

Couple refuses in-laws a sleepover, commenters debate who’s at fault

Saying no to in-laws: NTA stands their ground

User calls out couple for refusing in-laws a one-night stay

Respectful boundaries: NTA declines in-laws’ sleepover.

Commenter calls out OP’s attitude as ‘appalling’ for refusing in-laws.
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Setting boundaries is important. NTA for prioritizing your comfort

Setting boundaries is important. Glad your husband backed you up

Take control of your home , make your own rules .

Commenter called out for seeking validation and being defensive

Establishing boundaries is important. NTA for standing your ground.

Commenter receives harsh judgement for their opinion

Setting boundaries with in-laws is important. NTA

Setting boundaries and sticking to them, NTA.

NTA, but AIAH?

Politely declining in-laws for sleepover. NTA. No unwanted guests allowed

NTA for refusing in-laws’ sleepover request despite their persistence ✈️

Couple shuts down in-laws’ request for sleepover with sass.

Boundaries respected. In-laws need to learn to take ‘no’.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing your ground

Stand your ground! In-laws can’t expect free lodging

NTA stands their ground against pushy in-laws

Setting boundaries with in-laws. NTA wins this round!

Setting boundaries is important, and OP did just that!

Commenter calls out OP for being the AH over Thanksgiving plans

Setting boundaries with in-laws over Thanksgiving travel plans. NTA
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Commenter suggests therapy for judgmental behavior.

No guest room, no problem. In-laws should have made plans.

Politely declining in-laws’ sleepover request is NTA

Setting boundaries with family during the holidays.

Get the backstory: Have they hosted you before?

Last Updated on May 19, 2023 by Diply Social Team