A Reddit user shared their story of how their brother and sister-in-law demanded to use their Paris apartment for their milestone anniversary trip without asking for permission. The apartment owner, who travels frequently for work, faces a dilemma as they try to balance their work-life and the expectations of their family. The situation has sparked a heated debate, with the couple accusing the apartment owner of being selfish and not helping them create a once-in-a-lifetime memory.
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The Reddit user’s story has sparked a debate on whether they should accommodate their brother and sister-in-law’s request to use their Paris apartment for their milestone anniversary trip. The apartment owner faces a difficult decision, as they must balance their work-life and the expectations of their family. The couple accuses the apartment owner of being selfish and not helping them create a once-in-a-lifetime memory. As the story unfolds, readers weigh in with their opinions and reactions.
NTA. Brother and SIL can’t commandeer your residence for a month. They have 2 years to save up for their anniversary trip. Setting a precedent is also a concern.

Couple demands to use sibling’s apartment for a month without asking
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Couple demands sibling’s apartment for honeymoon, commenter says NTA.

Parisian homeowner refuses to give up apartment for entitled siblings’ honeymoon
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Sibling’s Paris apartment is not a honeymoon suite. NTA.

Stand your ground and prioritize your comfort and privacy

Family entitlement denied. NTA for not sharing your Paris apartment.

NTA for not letting siblings use Paris apartment for honeymoon

Demanding someone’s apartment for a month? Not cool.

Savage response to entitled couple demanding free honeymoon lodging.

Suggesting a compromise for family apartment use dispute

Family demands Paris apartment for honeymoon, NTA stands firm

Sibling demands Paris apartment for honeymoon, commenter suggests compromise.

Commenter humorously asks about job that allows Paris living.

Sibling’s home is not a vacation rental, NTA.
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Sibling demands Paris apartment for anniversary, calls OP an a**hole. NTA.

Family entitlement at its finest. NTA. Let them save up.

Commenter supports OP’s decision and criticizes entitled families

Commenter finds couple’s request to use sibling’s apartment gross

Couple demands to use sibling’s Paris apartment for honeymoon . Sibling says no, and internet agrees they’re NTA

A kind suggestion to help the couple, with a caveat

Your brother is not entitled to your apartment for free.

Sensible advice for honeymooners on a budget
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Clever way to say no to entitled family members
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Sibling’s Paris apartment dilemma: Would you let them stay?

Set boundaries and stand up for yourself.

Don’t JADE with pushy people. Shut it down with a firm ‘no’

Demanding sibling’s apartment for honeymoon? Not cool. NTA wins.

Sibling refuses couple’s honeymoon request to use Paris apartment.

Commenter calls out entitled behavior with shocked emoji.

NTA, but what if you asked them to pay for your hotel?

Couple demands to use sibling’s Paris apartment for honeymoon

NTA. Don’t encourage entitlement. Take a trip you can afford

Setting boundaries with entitled family members

Suggesting a bond to use sibling’s apartment for honeymoon.

Stand your ground and don’t let entitled people win

Sibling’s home is not a hotel. NTA for saying no

Sibling demands Paris apartment for honeymoon, commenter advises offering a 100 euro dinner instead. NTA.

Couple demands free Paris apartment for honeymoon, gets called out

Couple demands to use sibling’s apartment for honeymoon for a month. Commenter says NTA and suggests they have a budget-friendly holiday instead.

Suggests a compromise for entitled couple’s Paris honeymoon demand

Suggesting a compromise for using sibling’s apartment.
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Supportive comment section, OP stands firm against entitled couple

Sibling demands Paris apartment for honeymoon without asking first

Stand your ground! Don’t let them take advantage of you

Couple demands sibling’s apartment for a month, commenter says NTA

Sibling demands Paris apartment for month-long honeymoon, commenter suggests compromise.

Stand up for yourself and say NO to entitled family

Couple demands Paris honeymoon in sibling’s apartment. Commenter calls them out.

Saying yes once means saying yes forever. Greedy newlyweds

Standing up to entitled relatives. NTA

Maxim for life: work hard and save for your dreams. NTA.

Paris apartment owner not obligated to provide free vacations

Suggest alternative accommodations and stand your ground.

Respect boundaries and avoid entitlement. NTA comment.

Couple demands free honeymoon stay at sibling’s apartment. Not cool.
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Sibling denies couple’s request to use Paris apartment for honeymoon
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Saving up for Paris honeymoon is doable, NTA.

Respectful compromise needed for entitled honeymooners

Sibling refuses to let couple use Paris apartment for honeymoon

Couple demands Paris apartment for honeymoon, commenter says NTA

Sibling demands Paris apartment for honeymoon, commenter says NTA.
