Picture this: you’re a cop who’s been dating a wonderful woman for 8 months. She lives with a seemingly great guy who’s studying to become a physiatrist. But then, you discover he’s using marijuana, which is illegal where you live. As a law enforcer and someone who’s anti-drugs, what would you do? One cop found himself in this exact situation, and his actions led to some unexpected consequences. Let’s dive into the story…
The Perfect Setup?

A Cop’s Dilemma

Suspicion Arises

The Shocking Discovery

A Cop’s Ultimatum ⚖️

Girlfriend’s Reaction

Lockdown Anxiety

The Welfare Check

The Fallout

A Tragic Turn of Events
So, our concerned cop tried to protect his girlfriend from what he saw as a dangerous situation, but it all backfired. After confronting her roommate and conducting a welfare check, his girlfriend cut ties with him and filed a complaint, putting his career at risk. Now, he’s left wondering if he was in the wrong. Let’s see what people have to say about this heart-wrenching situation…
Commenters call out cop for creepy behavior and abuse of power.
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Cop’s overreaction to girlfriend’s pot smoking is concerning. YTA.

Commenter calls out abusive behavior and suggests retraining for cop.

Cop’s welfare check turns into abusive behavior. YTA

Officer’s welfare check on girlfriend seen as manipulative and controlling

Intrusive cop boyfriend gets called out for toxic behavior.

Commenter calls out possessive cop boyfriend for toxic behavior.

Cop uses job to harass girlfriend over weed, gets called out. YTA

Possessive language and intrusive welfare check raises red flags

Commenter calls out OP’s flawed logic regarding marijuana and military service.

Don’t stereotype based on a joint! YTA for assuming toxicity.

Don’t be a stalker! YTA for using your job for this

Commenter calls out cop’s entitlement and gets support.

Toxic cop boyfriend gets dumped after welfare check. YTA

Controlling cop gets shut down for trying to police weed use
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Criticisms of possessive language and stereotyping of weed users.

Toxic cop boyfriend gets called out for welfare check.
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Commenter calls out cop’s overreaction to pot use

Medical student smokes joint, cop boyfriend abuses power. YTA.

Rejected cop gets called out as the a**hole

Ex-cop’s possessive behavior raises red flags. YTA

Commenter defends marijuana use and calls out controlling behavior.

Commenter finds post confusing and hilarious

Dating a cop can lead to power abuse and instability.

Commenter calls out cop’s abuse of power, hopes for consequences.

Commenter calls out cop boyfriend for enforcing colonizer laws.

Controlling cop’s welfare check on girlfriend goes wrong. YTA

Overbearing cop boyfriend crosses the line with invasive welfare check

Commenter calls out cop boyfriend’s overreaction to weed use.

A blunt response to a failed welfare check

Ex-boyfriend tries to help girlfriend, gets called out. YTA

Commenter calls out cop’s behavior as fake and cringeworthy.

Is this too crazy to be true?

Accusation of trolling earns YTA judgement.

Commenter calls out condescending behavior in toxic relationship.

User questions cop’s intentions and treatment of ‘girlfriend’. YTA.

Commenter calls out someone’s incompetence with a burn

Commenter calls out fake cop boyfriend, adds a spicy burn

Ex-cop’s overbearing behavior and entitlement called out. ♂️

Cop abuses power and gets called out by ex-girlfriend.
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Commenter calls out cop boyfriend for being a ‘f***ing narc’

Anti-drug commenter calls out cop boyfriend’s misuse of resources.

Ex-cop’s power trip over ex-girlfriend’s medical marijuana use backfires

Former LEO calls out cop boyfriend for abuse of power

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Commenter calls out abusive cop boyfriend, praises girlfriend for leaving
